Thanks for following all my musings, data, and art inspiration for this Arousal Secrets series.
Today I want to talk to you about the six critical sex skills you can hone to ensure she’s as aroused as possible before penetration. Next week I’ll give you some helpful hints for ensuring your male-bodied partner also feels aroused!
These Six Sex Skills are all “sex.”
Sex isn’t intercourse. Intercourse is a part of sex. When you rush to intercourse, you make it more difficult for the female body to achieve all the satisfaction she’s capable of.
I want you to reframe your view of sex from “sex = intercourse” to “sex = six skills.”
The Six Sex Skills:
- Sensual Talk: Encouragement and Appreciation
- Full-Body Touch and Massage
- Orgasmic Kissing
- Oral Pleasuring Both Directions
- Yoni and Lingam Erotic Massage
- Orgasmic Intercourse Techniques
Notice that when you can get your partner off with all six of these sex skills, you will have a level of mastery few people achieve.
All six of these skills can make a woman orgasm. And by the way, the male body is as orgasmic as the female body. So penis-owners can also move beyond ejaculatory orgasms to start having all 20 kinds of male orgasms.
Once you get her coming, she can come and come and come and come and come until she gets too tired to come anymore and needs a rest.
You have to understand toggling the nervous system so she can climb and rest, climb and rest, climb and rest. The best place to learn is in the Peaking for Pleasure guide at ExpandHerOrgasmTonight.com.
The best resource for sensual talk is my free ebook, DirtyTalk.
Numerous valuable and innovative touch techniques and kissing skills on Personal Life Media are excellent resources.
For oral, I recommend Sweet Spot Oral and getting a copy of our Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection. There are 50 oral techniques, and 20 oral sex positions demonstrated on video that you can learn solo or with a partner.
For orgasmic massage, Steamy also has 20 penis (Lingam) and 20 vulva (Yoni) techniques. I also have many free Yoni and Lingam Massage videos at BetterLover.com.
And then, of course, there are all my free Orgasmic Intercourse techniques.
While we’re entangled together in this Arousal Series, there are two additional resources you might appreciate:
ArousalTips.com ⇐ A video and ebook of my female genital mentor, Sheri Winston, and I discussing female arousal.
ArousalSecrets.com ⇐ A video and ebook where I explain the Libido/Desire/Arousal Matrix and how to have more satisfying sex.
Lovemaking dates can flow from one of these skills to another and back. Try mixing it up. Every sex date is a chance to see what you both feel like and what sounds fun. Get out of the rut of your go-to methods. Listen to your body and see what you crave in the moment. This adds an element of excitement.
Asking what you want also lets your partner know you are truly happy with what’s happening. When you speak for your desires, you give your partner the gift of calmness. They know you want what is happening, which lowers their fear of making you happy. Boundaries and requests are key to getting into flow together.
Thank you for entrusting me with your sexual education. It means a lot to me that you follow my guidance. As always, I’m here if you have questions. You can reply to any email; I’ll get it and respond.
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