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I love hearing from guys who put their lovers’ orgasms first. But if it often comes at your own cost, then we’re not bridging the orgasm gap, are we?
Just like with Fred and his lover…
He prioritizes her pleasure before his own. That’s why they often come together. It’s fantastic. However…
At times, Fred misses the chance to explode at the right time. Sometimes, he doesn’t make it at all, which is no good.
Check out his email, my responses and suggestions.
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“I have been a follower for several years, and I love what you do to help me and so many others.
I love that I can make my lady very, very wet. However, she can be so slippery that there can be very little friction. By the time we’ve gone to full-out sprint, we’re both exhausted, but in a significant way!
I have to say that when we orgasm together, it is so amazing! Don’t get me wrong; this does happen quite often. It’s just frustrating when I don’t cum!
Is there anything I/we can do?
As we are exhausted, getting a hand or blow job isn’t a real option. Our love-making sessions typically run 40 minutes or longer. Getting her to cum is my priority. She is very multi-orgasmic, and I love doing this with my fingers, tongue, and of course, penis. G-spot orgasms come quickly to her.
Any strategies or techniques would be beneficial to me.” — Fred (not his real name)
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Dear Fred,
First of all, congratulations on being a guy who gives his woman forty minutes of pleasure from her fingers, tongue, and penis. Huzzah! All hail King Fred!
And equally great for your Queen being so juicy and wet. Most women want to be wetter!
I’m not sure about your age, but we can lose sensation as we age. It takes more sensation to deliver the orgasmic experience than when we were younger. Women have less intense orgasms and struggle to achieve climax like men. Sexual regenerative techniques such as O Shots, VFit Gold, and FLOW nitric oxide boosters can return orgasmic intensity and lubrication to women who long felt their glory days were over. So I’m glad your flowy femme is staying nice and wet. And it’s awesome that she squirts.
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One of the things I’ve noticed is that female ejaculate and vaginal lubrication have very different fluid viscosities and properties. The ejaculate is watery and tends to wash away a woman’s external lubrication. The vaginal lubrication changes over the moon cycle and can sometimes be full of protein, creating little clumps. Other times, it is pretty wet and watery.
My man and I love the FORIA Sex Oil lube, especially when we layer the Awaken Arousal Oil underneath. They contain all-natural ingredients and are free from harmful additives. FORIA contains organic MCT Oil and CBD to aid comfort and arousal.
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You have a couple of options here. The first is so damn simple. Get a soft, clean towel, wipe off your dick, and pat her vulva to sop up some of the fluid and return to your pleasure. Taking breaks for patting, hydration, or changing positions is part of the Dope Flow Sex Date scenario I describe here.
Frankly, being able to stop and start means you give some space to the encounter so that one can check in and see if there are any changes you want to make to what you’re doing.
There’s no need just to bang away or keep at it — it’s not a reality TV show for performance endurance.
That said, you may want to increase your sensitivity. Whether you call it sensation loss or delayed ejaculation, your brain isn’t getting enough signals to help you climax.
You may be masturbating too hard. Train yourself to enjoy light touch.
If you’re watching porn, stop for 90 days… cold turkey and see if that’s the issue. It’s more common than you can believe.
You may have blood sugar or insulin regulation issues causing penile neuropathy. Get a CGM, continuous glucose monitor, and get your sugar metrics under control, or it will worsen and increase your chances of heart attacks and diabetes.
It could be from a lack of blood flow to the penis. You seem to be able to maintain an erection for a while but try the most straightforward thing: my Nitric Oxide booster. Sometimes, it’s as easy as increased blood flow, making you even harder and firmer, which feels even better to your brain and helps you come.
Another clever trick is to have your lady talk dirty to you. It could be that you need more verbal stimulation. It gets easier the more you do it and becomes super hot and sexy. Here’s my book, Dirty Talk. See which of the five strategies turns you on the most and do it to each other.
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And finally, using sexual regenerative therapies on your penis will help increase your blood flow, erection firmness, and sensation. They can also give you bigger manhood:
- GAINSWave treatments are the gold standard for regenerating new penile tissue, nerve, and blood vessel growth.
- The Phoenix HIM/HER at-home acoustic wave device.
It’s not as strong as GAINSWave, but it’s a decent option if you’re a DIY guy or price-sensitive.
- The Whopper Penis Pump
The least expensive route to more sensation is stimulating new penile tissue, nerve, and blood vessel growth. Do this at a minimum!
- P Shot
PRP injection stimulates new penile tissue, nerve, and blood vessel growth.
You can read all about these treatments in my Pump Guide. I explain how they are synergistic. They all stack together to give you incredible boners as you had as a young man.
In exchange for this excellent advice, please let me know what you tried and what you think solved your problems. If you’re trying all this and it’s not working, we can try to do some more forensics.
OK! Get the towels!
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