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Getting Her To Give Blow Jobs

Getting Her To Give Blow Jobs

Orally Sad of Montana wrote that though he orally pleasures his wife, she will not go down on him.

He tried some of the advice in Sloane’s Blow Job Secret  ebook but it didn’t work. Find out why. Listen as I give him the exact advice to help his wife learn to love fellatio.

There is almost no reason why you cannot teach your lady to love oral sex.

You just need to know what to do. And that’s exactly what Sloane created in The Blow Job Secret.

If you want more of your hardness enveloped in her softness, watch my video and check out Sloane’s book.
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Remember, you’re doing this for HER too. Women who haven’t yet discovered the pleasures of giving oral love simply need you to guide them to this beautiful experience.

Guide Her Inside.

9 Comments

  1. Dear Susan,

    I appreciate your effort to supplement the BJ secrets. I do not doubt that many wives are desensitized as you suggested, but a few might have the problem of being overly sensitized.

    You see, my wife is a registered nurse. In that capacity she has seen, cleaned, and catherized many many hundreds of penises . So when she says gross. I suspect that it is because. she has difficulty seeing mine as special compared to the many old, sick and perverted patients she has treated in the hospital.

    I am at a loss at how to change her minndset without her changing professions.

    M

    • Hi Mike,

      I am working for Susan and below is her reply to you:

      “As a registered nurse, I’d hope your wife is intelligent enough to know that the penis attached to her kind and loving husband has nothing to do with her work. If you are doing what Sloane teaches inside The Blow Job Secret, from grooming, to showing her your penis to get her comfortable, to allowing her to touch without needing to lick, to escalating to Three Little Licks, to not expecting her to take you all the way to climax — essentially starting at the beginning and making her feel like a winner (remember she doesn’t have any experience or skill and you need to teach her how to be confident) I’m sure you can use both your rational logic, your love and your teaching to help her gain confidence and then desire.”

      Warmly,

      Susan

  2. I love this video Susan, thank you. I’m really interested to see if your method works for “orally sad” because I’m in a similar situation. Been married for 12 years and wife has never given me oral. She tried it once when we were dating and from what I recall just said she doesn’t like it…it saddens me and I’m scared out of my mind to ask her about it because our sex life has been tough for years and just now barely getting better.
    I’m going to try your techniques you shared in this video. Thanks for all you do!

    • BCozy,
      I know a bit about what you’ve been through. Good luck. Remember. Square one. You have to build her confidence. And the book is only ten bucks, so get it because there are details in there that will ensure you more potential success. The good news is, according to our survey, at least HALF of the women already love giving head and do it not only willingly, but because they love it. Oral is a primal pleasure. The only thing standing between your lady and her discovery of more pleasure from oral is some combination of limiting beliefs, shame, lack of experience and knowing what to do. Help her. You’re not doing this just for yourself, remember. It can deliver her into a new state of sexual confidence and joy.
      Warmly,
      Susan

      • Susan,
        You’ve given a great answer and potential solution for men with partners who won’t give head. You may not be able to say this but I will: If your partner will not or just grudgingly gives you head then you may want to find other partners more suitable for both of you. I’m not saying this to be petty or shallow, but the inability or lack of desire to please the man in this way may be a sign of larger issues. I wouldn’t wish my worst enemy into a relationship where he will not get, or gets unenthusiastic, head for the rest of his life. That is a tragedy that will probably manifest itself in bad behavior and resentment over time. Seriously, unless splitting up and moving on is not appropriate for some reason (children, financial, etc.) then consider getting other partners and moving on with your lives. Not getting head is not like never being able to travel or not getting your favorite dessert. It is intrinsic to the male experience – and going through life without an eager and willing partner to provide it is a TRAGEDY of a lifetime. And by the way, there are very few things, if any, that bring you closer to your partner than graciously and thoroughly accepting his ejaculate. It is and should be a wonderful and bonding experience for both.

      • Susan, I just came back to this post and saw your response to me and my eyes lit up! Thank you so much for the reply. I do have an update since that post. We are getting better in bed. I’m using your technique of getting her used to my cock (seeing/touching it). Soon enough I’ll try the 3 little licks. What’s crazy is that she reads hundreds of these “romance” novels that are basically porn for woman so I’m really really hopeful that she will come out one day and actually do what she learns in these books (they are really graphic). Thanks again Susan!!

  3. “Let me know if you like this new format”

    Susan, while I don’t have any of these issues, I watched the whole video and enjoyed it very much. So much that I hope you will start a YouTube channel and make more!

    You’re beautiful and funny, intelligent and articulate, kind and gentle, and just the right amount of naughty. Please give me and the rest of the world a steady diet of Susan Bratton videos on YouTube. :D

    Peace and love!

  4. I am orally sad and still no attempt or interest what so ever in giving me oral sex. Just one of those things on your bucket list that will never happen I guess. I am sure that is my case anyway. have tied everything you suggested still no. I am sure it is a deep rooted “fear” somewhere, but I have given up after almost a year of going completely bare and loving it actually, and many attempts to discuss the matter I still just feel I am left a ugly down there and a pig for wanting it and not being happy with the little sex we do have. with the passing of the many “life events” we have experience (not related to sex life) I am quit sure the stress, sorrow and health issues I should stop my persuit of any chances of improving our sex life and especially getting oral. sadly just not in the cards I am afraid, but you do have wonderful kind and helpful advice here and I appreciate it but I have somehow failed to achieve what you say can be done.

    • Hi Orally Sad,
      Thank you for giving us an update on your progress. I’m glad you are enjoying your shaved pubic hair. But when you say you are “ugly down there,” you know perfectly well that the shame you are feeling is being felt by your partner.
      RuPaul says, “If you can’t love yourself, how the HELL you gonna love somebody else?” If you can’t love your penis, how the hell is your wife supposed to?
      Ugly? Goodness no! Penises are amazing, gorgeous works of art. Start appreciating yours and explain why you do to your wife. It will open a world of potential to her.
      You say you “feel like a pig” for wanting oral pleasuring? Again, what you are conveying is negative instead of celebratory and appreciative. You have to start with yourself first, Mr. Montana.
      Please do not stop pursuing your desire for oral pleasuring.
      Are you orally pleasuring your wife?
      Perhaps trying to get her to give you a blow job needs to come after she feels good about her own genitals and knows in her heart of hearts that you love the smell, taste and feel of her?
      I don’t know what the state of your sex life is, but little steps, little steps.
      Now that you know women DO love to give head once they’ve been given the education and encouragement required, I have to think that much of your resistance is still coming first from being internally generated.
      Start loving yourself and free yourself from shame (need advice about how to do that? Let me know.). Then work on your wife and her ignorance and lack of experience.
      Baby Steps…
      Start, stepping, baby!

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