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Delayed Ejaculation, Sensation Loss, Prostate Issues (Mailbag)

A fan reached out about delayed ejaculation (it’s getting harder to achieve climax), and he has burgeoning prostate issues.

After helping guys with these concerns for over a decade, I know the best solutions science and experience can offer.

Check out his email and my response below. 

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I appreciate the info you continually put forward in the emails I have been receiving.

As I have more challenges achieving an orgasm, I need more visual/aural stimulation. My wife likes to be quiet when we have sex. She doesn’t want to talk while getting ready for an orgasm. I would appreciate some suggestions.

I also have learned how beneficial orgasm is for prostate health. Mine is slightly enlarged, and I want to get a handle on that. Masturbation would be good then, right? I had a prior porn addiction and didn’t want to return, so any help here is much appreciated. Thank you!” — Arnold (not his real name) 


Dearest Arnold, 

Difficulty achieving orgasm is also called delayed ejaculation. I get a lot of questions from guys about DE. Many ask me if the Chi Breath technique with Jim Benson’s Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men program will fix this issue.

Multi-Orgasmic Lover teaches men a stamina technique using breath, pelvic muscles, and a relaxation technique to slow down arousal. Men using this technique, called the ME Breath, can go on to become multi-orgasmic men. Male multiple orgasms separate ejaculation from orgasm so that guys can have full-body orgasms without ejaculating. 

Because of your DE, you might also benefit from learning how to have these body orgasms. 

Further, the Multi-Orgasmic Lover ME Breath also teaches the Chi Breath or Energy Breath for those men who need MORE sexual arousal energy.

These techniques might help you mainly because, as you explain below, your wife needs quietude to orgasm while you’re feeling the need for more arousal.

I think the ME and Chi Breath techniques are pieces of the puzzle that can help you BOTH come more easily. 

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The most important thing is NOT to wear out your welcome in your wife’s vagina. If you are banging away trying to come, she will likely get dry and frustrated and stop wanting to have sex at all.

This also begs the question, is the actual ejaculatory function impaired, the sensation of orgasmic pleasure that is damaged, or both? Ejaculation and orgasm are separate systems, although they most often occur concurrently.

Here is my most recent article on increasing the sensitivity of your penis so you can climax more easily

You mention that you also have a slightly enlarged prostate. I keep Dr. Judson Brandeis’ SPUNK supplements in stock in my warehouse. If you have BPH or urinary issues, check it out.

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I also recommend a masturbation practice called “Riding The Wave.” You might also have an easier time orgasm if you stimulate your prostate as foreplay or during sex for a P-Spot or blended orgasm. 

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I’ve found this works well for many men. Have your wife “beg you to come inside her.” 

Come inside me, baby. Please. I love you. I love when you ejaculate in me. You’re so hot and sexy to me. Come for me, baby.

Sometimes all a guy needs is encouragement.

Now, your wife likes it quiet when she comes. 

OK. She’s likely struggling to orgasm, and the auditory noise disrupts her. There are three kinds of people sexually: visual, auditory, and kinesthetic. She’s obviously either visual or kinesthetic. You might be auditory. You want to hear her moan, dirty talk, be encouraged to come, and share verbal fantasies… while that all take her out of her arousal.

You can work around this by finding out what turns her on. She might be kinesthetic. That’s what I am. I love whispers of encouragement, but bright lights or visuals distract me. I like to keep my eyes closed when I’m in my zone. 

Listen to this beautiful audio below with my dear mentor, Dr. Patti Taylor, creator of Expand Her Orgasm Tonight. Having an Expanded Orgasm practice would be a GOOD experience for you and your wife to get her more easily orgasmic and more comfortable with her orgasmic ability.

This audio is with Dr. Patt and her partner Daka Raj. They explain the Open Mind states of auditory, kinesthetic, or visual. Then you discover how to speak to your wife in a way that turns her on, and she can learn your “sex language.”

This will help her become comfortable begging you to come.

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