Come With Me: Susan Bratton’s “20 Different Kinds of Orgasms” Challenge #2 of 15
Thank you for being part of my Orgasm Challenge. This article will explain G-Spot orgasms, how to locate your G-Spot, what it looks like, how it works, and how to stimulate it. For men, I’ll explain Prostate orgasms, how to locate your P-Spot, what it looks like, how it works, and how to stimulate it.
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The Melting Orgasmic G-Spot Explosion
There is something deeply satisfying about orgasming from G-Spot stimulation. Do you know how a good pee feels? And how a good poo feels even more gratifying? That’s a good example of the difference between an orgasm from clitoral stimulation vs. an orgasm that comes from urethral (G-Spot) stimulation. When you blend the two, you get more than double the pleasure.
Where the clitoris operates at its optimal peak when it’s trained to respond to the lightest of stimulation, the urethral orgasm operates best when given pressure. Clitoral and urethral pleasure balance each other well and take women into new heights of ecstasy.
Awakening the urethral sponge (G-Spot) follows the same process as awakening the entire clitoral structure⸺the more variety of stimulation these erectile tissue systems receive, the more orgasmic they become. A big part of becoming massively multi-orgasmic from a wide variety of stimulation is simply the time and intention you put into awakening these miraculous orgasmic structures. Knowing techniques and positions and utilizing tools designed for these tissue areas will increase your pleasure by order of magnitude. The three erectile tissue structures in the vulva will continue to become even more orgasmic as they get played with. The first thing to learn to take yourself to new levels of pleasure is female anatomy. There are a lot of myths and misunderstandings about the G-Spot I want to clear up.
How To Locate Your G-Spot
The G-Spot isn’t a spot; it’s a long tube of erectile tissue that looks like a “pool noodle.” This spongy tissue surrounds the urethral canal, which empties pee from your bladder out of your body. The exit is in your vestibule — the opening between your inner labia. It’s located above the opening to the vagina and below the clitoral tip. The correct name for the G-Spot is the urethral sponge.
There are two easy places to stimulate this erectile tissue. When you stimulate it, it puffs up with blood, making you feel more pleasure. The first location is the one most people are aware of: the roof of the vaginal canal, about a fingertip inside. When you first touch this area, you’ll often feel ridges. The internal “G-Spot #1” balloons out of the vaginal opening as it becomes engorged (filled with blood from arousal). As it ripens, it softens.
The second “G-spot #2” is on the face of the vulva, in the vestibule or opening between the labia. It surrounds the urethral exit, where the pee comes out, like a flower. This is also an extremely pleasurable area to stimulate. The second G-spot is sometimes called the U-Spot. U stands for urethral.
This illustration below shows the erectile tissue systems underneath the skin of the vulva. See the small pink tube that parallels the vaginal canal? It looks like a little flower on end facing the outside of the body. That tube is the urethral sponge, more commonly but erroneously called the G-Spot.
What Your G-Spot Looks Like
How Your G-Spot Works
The more you stimulate the urethral sponge both internally and externally, the more pleasure it provides. For women who haven’t had much attention on their G-area, initial touching can release deep-seated emotions. Tantric massage is a term used for G-spot awakening and emotional release. G-spot massage can be a very healing experience for many women who’ve experienced sexual trauma. Know that if initially, the stimulation makes you cry or have unusual vocalizations, this is a sign of clearing that stuck emotion. Over time, the tears will recede and transform into pleasure and feelings of being more emotionally grounded.
The G-area or urethral sponge is associated with female ejaculation or “squirting.” However, many women ejaculate without any direct G-area stimulation. The fluid that occurs with female ejaculation exits from the urethra and small slits near the urinary exit. Just like men ejaculate and urinate from their urethral canal at the end of the penis, women pee and squirt from the same place too.
When a woman ejaculates, she may or may not feel an orgasm. That’s because, in both males and females, the ejaculatory response and orgasm are separate systems in the body.
Just as the vagina is lubricated by fluid from the blood plasma seeping through the vaginal walls, female ejaculation comes from the fluid from plasma seeping through the Skenes glands and the urethral canal. The fluid comes out of the urethra and the small paraurethral glands on the left and right sides of the urethral opening in the vestibule of the vulva. The little green-colored squiggles on the urethral tube illustration above are the Skenes or paraurethral glands.
Pleasuring the G-Spot can give women orgasms, not give them orgasms, release emotion, cause squirting or not cause squirting. The more you play with this erectile tissue, the more you active the entire pleasure network. For many women, getting attention specifically on their G-area, both internally in the vagina and externally in the vestibule, creates a melting feeling of exquisite pleasure. The more you awaken the area, the more orgasmic a woman becomes.
How To Stimulate Your G-Spot
The G-area can be stimulated by fingers, tongues, toys, and penises. Blended orgasms involving G-area and clitoral tip and shaft stimulation are many women’s favorite ways to have orgasms. Adding G-area (both internal and U-Spot) pleasuring to clitoral stimulation is, for many women, their most desirable orgasmic experience, whether it makes them ejaculate or not.
Because this urethral sponge responds to pressure, a lover’s arm and hands can get tired of stimulating it as much as it wants to be stimulated. That’s why wands are so popular. They allow the area to be stimulated without getting tired as fast.
A word of caution, however. If you watch squirting porn, you will see women getting stroked very, very hard. The average woman is not ready for this kind of stroking. Adult stars do this consistently and have to build up the ability to take strong stimulation. Many women have incredible pleasure with the lightest of pressure and strokes.
Moreover, if you’re going to use toys, such as G-Spot wands, please watch my “how-to” video. Toy manufacturers don’t make how-to usage videos because they’d be explicit. I made one for you. Though the G-area likes more pressure than other areas of a woman’s vulva, these toys can be strong and potentially painful. Here is my G-Spot Toy Guide and video to ensure your pleasure safely.
There is one brand new G-Spot toy that I particularly like called the Kurve. The soft tip and two types of vibration with dual motors make this one of my two go-to G-area stimulators.
Female Liquid Orgasm is an online series of videos and ebooks that demonstrates awakening, pleasuring, and ejaculation skills both solo and partnered, as well as with toys. Many lovers find that drinking or getting doused with ejaculate to be a real turn-on. The ejaculate is called Amrita in Tantric lovemaking. It’s considered sacred. Get this free ebook, The Truths, and Myths of Female Ejaculation, to learn more.
Prostate or P-Spot Orgasms for Men
Similar to the G-Spot, the prostate is the seat of a lot of potential pleasure for men. It’s a little walnut-sized gland that makes semen more alkaline to give sperm the chance to get to the cervix in the more acid environment of the vagina. It’s also a muscle that provides the mechanism for the urethra to either ejaculate or urinates. As men age, many suffer urinary issues due to inflammation and enlargement of the prostate. Prostate massage often called “milking” is a good way to lower inflammation and enlargement. Men can have P-spot orgasms from stimulating the prostate or blended orgasms from prostate stimulation combined with penile pleasuring. More men are opening their awareness to the health benefits of prostate massage and orgasm. Pegging, prostate toys, and manual stimulation are excellent ways to pleasure this marvelous muscle/gland.
How To Locate Your P-Spot, What It Looks Like and How It Works
The prostate is located inside the rectum, about one fingertip up toward the abdomen. If you look at the illustration below, you can see a red heart-shaped mass under the bladder, near the base of the penis. That is the prostate. You can also stimulate the prostate by pushing up on the perineum, between the testicles and the anus. In Taoist semen retention practices, this is called, The Million Dollar Point. It can be pushed to keep ejaculate from coming out, creating a retrograde ejaculation where the ejaculate empties into the bladder instead of coming out of the urethral exit at the end of the penis.
How To Stimulate Your P-Spot
The prostate can be stimulated with a finger or a toy. There are three kinds of prostate stimulation toys. The dildo is often used in pegging with a harness. The wand, similar to a G-Spot wand, is made of metal or glass. And a prostate massager. Massagers come in many shapes and sizes, some of which vibrate. There are also prostate massagers with a remote control to insert the vibrator and change the speeds with the remote.
Men can stimulate themselves or have their partner help them.
For men with delayed ejaculation, penile sensation loss, or erectile dysfunction, stimulating the prostate can give them the incremental pleasure they need to achieve climax.
I’ve done more than a dozen videos on prostate health and pleasure with Dr. Judson Brandeis, Dr. Rylie, Dr. Amy Killen, as well as a series of videos on prostate toys, tools, and massagers I recommend.
My Favorite Prostate Tools
The stand out tools I recommend are:
Limba Flex or Amor dildo and Joque Harness for pegging. (Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it.)
EZ Reach Prostate Probe with Remote Control for solo and couples play. Give your lover the remote and let them take you to heaven.
The BadAss Prostate Package includes two excellent vibrating prostate massages, trainers, and lube at a great price.
There are links under all my videos to everything I showcase. These are just my three personal favorites.
I hope I’ve encouraged you to consider prostate stimulation and P-Spot orgasms. As my friend Jim Benson, creator of Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men, the program that teaches you how to have full-body male-multiple orgasms, says, “don’t ignore your backdoor!” Get his Ejaculatory Freedom Audios here to learn more.
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