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“Well OMG… I’m 52 years young and had my first gushing experience ever on New Year Day!”
I have a number of squirting tips to accelerate your efforts to include this amazing experience in your sexual repertoire.
But before I do, I want to circle back and talk about context. As I always say, it’s all in the set-up. You’ll want to set the mood and to make sure she’ll feel safe and comfortable as you explore this delightful terrain.
Do what it takes to ensure your time together will not be interrupted. (Needless to say, you’ll want to turn off your phone!) Get the lighting right with candles or an amber party bulb. Put on some sexy music. Turn on the heat if it’s cold; bring in a fan if it’s hot.
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OPEN HER FLOODGATES
I can’t emphasize enough that the key to opening her floodgates is to encourage feedback. It’s best to approach this as a “team sport” and be eager to know what is or isn’t working throughout your time together.
Men can say something like: “I want to learn the best way to please you. Please don’t worry about hurting my feelings; I’m here for you, baby. My utmost concern is your pleasure.”
Understand that this is a game-changer for many women and it may not be easy for her to speak up at first. Women are conditioned to stay silent lest a man feels like she’s criticizing his technique.
Women: trust that he means it and give yourself permission to break the silence and tell him what works for you and what doesn’t. He’ll love you for it, I promise! Use my Sexual Soulmate Pact bedroom communication technique to open up safe lines of feedback.
FOUR SQUIRTING TIPS TO HELP HER RELEASE HER FOUNTAIN
How to Make a Woman Squirt Tip # 1: Kneel
Use gravity to your advantage with this handy way to release her female ejaculate. She’ll be gushing all over the sheets this very night!
Whether it’s her first time or she’s an experienced squirter who’s ready to release more volume of liquid, this is a perfect position. She kneels on the bed while he strokes her G-spot with a steady rhythm.
Depending on their body dynamics, he can stroke her from behind or from in front. From that angle, he’ll be able to see the Amrita run down her legs, even if it’s just a few drips or a dribble.
Amrita is another common word for the ejaculatory fluid. It comes from Tantric sexuality or “Sacred Sex.” It’s a Sanskrit word. Many Tantric sex practitioners do “sacred spot massage.”
That is the same thing as G-Spot massage or G-Spot orgasms or squirting orgasms. These are all words that mean the same basic thing.
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The benefit of this position is simple: any ejaculate that comes out will be more visible to him. Guys are typically very visual, so seeing her fluid will reward his efforts.
The first time a woman ejaculates, she will often feel the moisture before he can even see it. This position makes it easy for him to stay in touch with what’s going on in her body. For partners who get really aroused seeing ejaculate expressed, kneeling or squatting can be highly erotic.
If she’s a beginner and still doesn’t believe she can do it, she just needs encouragement. Her release will come at the perfect time.
The more patience the better; it’s the main ingredient that helps her let go. Remember: this is not about getting to a goal, this is about allowing a woman’s body to do something totally natural that happens when she surrenders to the delicious stimulation.
I can’t emphasize enough: her ability to surrender has everything to do with her emotional and mental state. The last thing she needs is to feel pressure to “perform.” It’s a learning process for both of you, so relax and let it flow, until she does.
How to Make a Woman Squirt Tip # 2: Milk Her Ejaculate
To achieve that wonderful release, it helps if the man “milks” out her ejaculate rather than expect her to do all the work to push it out. She needs those steady strokes for her ejaculate to come out on its own.
It’s best if she forgets about squeezing down and relaxes while focusing on the sensation in her clitoris and G-Area (it’s not actually a “spot,” it’s her whole upper vaginal canal.
MILK HER EJACULATE
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When a woman is learning how to squirt, it’s best to forget about squeezing to focus the sensation, which is what many women do to have a clitoral orgasm. Instead, she can open and expand and even push out as if she’s “birthing her orgasm.”
After a while, she can let go of effort altogether. Ladies, just relax, let your lover take over and coax or milk your ejaculate out.
Your job is simply to relax and surrender to the sublime sensations of having your lover put their full attention on your area.
If you’re a clitoris-centric lover, you’re not taking full advantage of her entire G-area. And that means you are missing out on a tremendous amount of pleasure — pleasure a woman is hungry for. Feed her desire, follow her pleasure, and you will be rewarded with a shower of her ejaculate.
How to Make a Woman Squirt Tip #3: Straddle Him
When the man is good and hard, he lies down on the bed. Then the woman climbs on top and with one knee on the bed and the foot of the other leg on the bed, she positions herself over him, straddling his groin. Then she can take hold of his penis and use the tip to run back and forth across her clitoris and urethral opening.
STRADDLE HIM
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This works especially well for women who can’t let go of the need to be in charge. Or, to be more accurate, she can’t seem to let go on that particular day due to some circumstance she’s dealing with outside the bedroom or in her relationship with her lover.
When she’s the one working it, she can rub herself as fast as she wants to make herself squirt all over.
How to Make a Woman Squirt Tip # 4: Three Magic Words
This is for you men: If you want to know how to make a woman squirt and help her explode in a wet, wild, hot mess all over your sheets, just whisper these 3 magic words: “Let It Go.”
More than any technique or stroke pattern, this will give her the reassurance she needs to fully surrender. What women need most is to feel connected to their lover and by saying “Let It Go,” you signal her that you know how to make a woman squirt and are tracking her turn-on and totally willing to receive her juices—even if they squirt all over you!
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GET TO SQUIRTING
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A final note of caution… and encouragement.
I’d be remiss if I didn’t alert you to the REALLY BAD ADVICE that gets repeated over and over. As you may have noticed, most of the stuff you read on the Internet is just an “information cascade.”
One person says it and then everyone thinks it’s true—even if they don’t do the research or have firsthand evidence. There are hundreds of websites promoting BAD G-Spot strokes that will only work on a porn star.
Guys need to know that these are not what to do with a woman—especially if she’s not an experienced squirter or is reluctant to give him feedback on his technique.
The aggressive come-hither motion is the WORST place to start if a woman is going to have the incredible release of a liquid orgasm. That’s not how to make a woman squirt! It’s just plain bad advice that can turn a woman off to the point where she will give up on having the wet and wild orgasms altogether.
Some men can be too rough when they go after a woman’s G-spot—especially guys who’ve been watching porn.
You can’t learn how to make a woman squirt from porn! Porn stars are professionals; they can have sex for hours during a single day of shooting.
I wouldn’t be surprised if they don’t have calluses on their genitals!
A man doesn’t need to jackhammer a woman’s precious Yoni (another word for a woman’s vulva or genitals) to get her fluids to flow. Better to coax it out of her, not bang it out of her. Be patient.
Soft. Sweet. Loving.
She needs lots of foreplay and G-spot stroking to get fully engorged. She needs plenty of clitoral orgasms and a steady stroke.
Use copious amounts of lube and, once her waters start to flow, apply more lube because her ejaculate will dilute it or wash it off.
Guys: if you want to learn how to make a woman squirt and have your lover soak the sheets when you make love, the best first step you can take to help her achieve this mind-blowing experience is to develop your technique. Be sure to ask her to give you verbal feedback throughout. When she’s finished just hold her, hug her, and get her some lip balm and a glass of water. She’s going to need it after all that moaning and squirting.
Women: squirting is something you deserve to experience. If you consistently play around with your ability to ejaculate, you will start to experience a little moisture. You can experiment with or without a partner and, as you gain experience and pay heed to squirting tips, tap into a wellspring of wetness.
Once in awhile, you’ll squirt like a fountain. Then those fountains will occur more easily the more they occur. In time, you will likely start ejaculating during intercourse, instead of fingering or a mix of oral and manual stimulation. Be patient as your body learns how to let flow.
Ejaculating makes a woman feel like a sensual goddess. Her body is designed for this natural pleasure. Make the effort, be patient, attend to her emotional and mental state and you will experience the delicious, fluid rewards.
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Does Menopause Affect A Woman’s Ability To Ejaculate (Squirt)?
Some women think sex is over after menopause, but there is no physical reason a woman who had ejaculatory orgasms before menopause cannot have them after menopause.
Even women in their seventies who’ve never ejaculated before can tap into this delightful aspect of female sexuality. Orgasmic capacity grows with practice, so the more squirting orgasms she has, the better they will feel. I know women in their eighties who still squirt, some even during solo sex. Sex keeps getting better throughout your life; there’s no end to the pleasure if you educate yourself and devote the time and attention to it.
Often lack of libido is due to the drop in sex hormones that comes with menopause. This can readily be addressed with bio-identical hormone replacement therapy, which recent studies have shown is safer than was once believed.
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