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How To Rekindle The Passion That Was Once There

How To Rekindle The Passion That Was Once There

“Now, we get into something nobody ever told you to rekindle the passion and keep your married sex life exciting. You’ll find that although you thought you were a “nice guy,” you were emasculating yourself with your actions.”

(Girlfriend, this is written to a guy, but you can teach your man how to do these techniques as a rekindling project. And here is an article about Why Men Stop Having Sex.)

“You will begin to understand how to take the next steps to turn her body back on, seduce her, and retake control of the bedroom…”

AM I ATTRACTED TO MY PARTNER?

Many of my friends are a lofty group of venture capitalists, philanthropists, artists, and technologists.  Now they are in their 40’s,  50’s and 60’s and are turning to me for personal sex advice.

They’re mostly men who had put their career above personal life in striving to get ahead of the high-tech rat race — to help them rekindle the passion in their marriages.

Some of them email me from time to time, asking for advice.

They are getting to the age where they feel they’ve squandered their passion with their partners in exchange for career success. They are wondering if it’s POSSIBLE to rekindle their sex lives with their wives. Or if they are even attracted to their partner anymore.

Here’s one email I received from a brilliant and successful guy, and my response below.

Relationship Magic ⇐ Synchronize Your Romantic And Erotic Needs And Desires 

Passion Patch ⇐ Where To Touch A Woman To Turn Her On In 30 Seconds Flat 

30 Romance Tricks ⇐ Romantic Ideas To Rekindle The Passion And Move Your Woman Physically And Emotionally Back To That “Courtship” Feeling

Revive Her Drive ⇐ Rekindle The Passion And Bring Back The Fiery, Hot Love Making You Both Deserve

Steamy Sex Ed Video Collection ⇐ Over 200 Advanced, Slow, Heart-Connected Lovemaking Techniques, Sensual Massages, And Oral Play Ideas (Only 8 New-In-Box Copies Remaining) 

Seduction Trilogy ⇐ Your Blueprint To Seducing Your Lover Into An Endless Erotic Experience

YOU DESERVE LOVE AND INTIMACY

“Hi, Susan,

I’m wondering what instructional material you would recommend I start with? I am married and looking to restart my passion and explore together. 

(Name withheld)”

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Of course, I wasted no time and gave him the best advice I know, which I share with my clients and readers.

MY REPLY

Hi! 

First, start with my Relationship Magic workbook.

This is an exercise you do with your wife on a dinner date. It explains how to approach her to get her to do it.

Doing this workbook together will help you understand if you are meeting her needs ultimately. It will help her tell you how to make her happy with you so that nothing blocks her from wanting to be with you sexually.

“If mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.” 

This will give you a simple checklist of what she needs most from you. Once her needs are met, the path to proceed toward romance and then sex is apparent.

With women, some conditions must be met for them to want to be physically intimate. Having her basic relationship needs met is the foundation condition.

And lest you think this is all about her, the Relationship Magic Values exercise will also help you explain to her how important affection and passion are for you, sowing the seeds for the next part.

The next part is inside my book, The Passion Patch. If she’s been avoiding being affectionate with you and afraid to “start something,” these touches will rekindle the passion and awaken her muscle memory that she likes to be touched.

Start using the under-the-radar touch techniques in The Passion Patch and notice which she responds best. During this part of the rekindling process, you are reminding her body that it likes your touch.

Doing the Relationship Values exercise is overt. You do it with her.

It’s a “relationship check-in.”

BUILD A PLATFORM

But The Passion Patch touch is covert. You do this in stealth-mode because directly asking her for sex will get you rejected, or get you mercy sex. And what you want is her to WANT you. 

You want her to initiate intimacy. You want her to be excited about sex. And head-on touching her to get sex will backfire at this point.

Next, select a few romantic ideas from my book, 30 Romance Tricks That Work Like Magic. Your wife needs to be emotionally returned to the time of courtship with you. Focus particularly on the romance gestures that MOVE her body. Moving her body moves her emotions. She needs to begin feeling you again emotionally before she will want you sexually.

The good news is that all three of these books, Relationship Magic, The Passion Patch, and 30 Romance Tricks, are short and to the point with specific instructions that decode your wife’s reluctance to have wild, passionate sex with you. They are what you need to begin moving her toward sexual pleasure.

Another piece of good news is that you’ll be having fun. You’ll be talking about your relationship in the first part, which she loves. You’ll be touching her and be romancing her again in ways you’ve likely neglected.

Remember that you are building a platform of fun before adding on any sexual structure.

Essentially, you’re filling up her love tank in the way women need to be filled to want you for sex.

LAY THE GROUNDWORK

You’re laying the necessary groundwork for her to rediscover why she married you in the first place. You must be consistent with the touch and romance. Show her you can hug her without it turning into a bid for sex. Don’t rush things. Savor being her romantic hero. 

Now, we get into the stuff nobody ever told you about keeping your married sex life exciting. You’ll find that although you’ve thought of yourself as a “nice guy,” you were emasculating yourself with your actions.

If you have any resentment or anger, try and let it go now. You’re on track to rekindle your passion, and this is where you learn how to be the husband she wants to hop on top of and have wild, passionate sex with. So stay with me here. 

If you have to, write down in your calendar what you’re going to do a couple of times a week to romance her. Making plans for fun dates will increase her attraction to you. A man who makes plans for romance is a masculine leader. Women want to have sex with romantic men. So make it happen.

This is where we begin to move into teaching you what you don’t know about long-term monogamous sexual desire. While working on the Passion Patch touching and the Romance Tricks wooing, you will be reading the Revive Her Drive Fast Start Guide. Do not share this with your wife. This is about YOUR education.

In Revive Her Drive, you will begin to understand the Four Elements of Revival. This is where you revive her sex drive.

THE FOUR ELEMENTS

  • Romance Her (you do this with the romance tricks)
  • Re-awaken Her Rekindle The Passion Sensually and Seduce Her Mind (you do this with the Passion Patch touch)
  • Re-inject Polarity (you do this with romantic dates and how you touch her)
  • Advanced Sexual Mastery Techniques (DO NOT RUSH THIS ONE).

You’re going to listen to or read all the Revive Her Drive modules (I suggest you both internalize the ideas).

After you skim the Fast Start Guide to get the big picture, you can listen to and read the modules in any order you feel. You’ll want to listen to a few of them more than once. By listening to them, you will get an understanding of how to take the next steps to turn her body back on, how to seduce her*, how to retake control of the bedroom, and other valuable insights into how to handle a woman’s body and sexuality, from Zone Theory to taking over her nervous system and on and on.

I have helped thousands of men around the world of all ages have the best sex of their lives — beyond the newlywed sex they once thought was their gold standard — by following the four elements of revival. We have battle-tested these techniques. They work. 

Every relationship is unique. There are specific simple mechanisms at work between the sexes, and then there are all the individual experiences that comprise your sexual dynamics.

Think about Revive Her Drive as a newly constructed house. I’m going to give you the foundation and the framework. Then, you will cherry-pick from numerous techniques in the program to add the drywall, the fixtures, and the flooring.

WATCH HER RESPOND

You will have a good sense of where you can bolster your skills as you listen to and read the modules. They are bursting with fantastic, fun, sexy ways to get your wife to come to you again for physical intimacy.

Do you have some “work” to do? Yes. But it’s fun. 

You will see her respond almost immediately to the values exercise, the romance, the touches, and the four revival elements.

I am here if you have any questions. And yes, you will hit roadblocks, you will backslide into old, needy behaviors. That’s ok. You are rewiring the way you interact. And in a few months, you’ll look back and see that you and your wife are having a renaissance in your relationship, and especially in your closeness, your nude cuddling, your kissing, touching, and laughing.

The advanced sexual mastery techniques inside Revive Her Drive are just a start. 

From here, I can teach you how to give her multiple orgasms, expanded orgasms, ejaculatory orgasms, and more. (From Keep Her Coming, Expand Her Orgasm Tonight and Female Liquid Orgasm.) I can teach you how to overcome genital atrophy — yours and hers. I can show you how to have everlasting stamina through our ME Breath technique inside Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men

IT IS NOT JUST TECHNIQUE

But it’s not just about technique. It’s about becoming sexual soulmates. It’s about transforming sex into passionate lovemaking. In my decade of field-testing methods with people from around the world, from all religions, single and married, across the gender spectrum, there are six essentials for connected sex. I’ve explained to them in terms so simple you two can start doing them the next time you have sex. These six essentials are outlined in my #1 international best-selling book, Sexual Soulmates

You can do things to her, or you can move to a passionate interplay as lovers. Sexual Soulmates are the map to that territory. Once you’ve rekindled her desire, you can read and learn together.

When she’s enjoying the new pleasuring techniques and soulmate skills, both of you can watch my Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection together. Just promise me you’ll start with the first module and work your way up together.

Because women are a wood fire, and men are a light switch. You might be always on, but she needs warming up. You might be able to watch the sex position stimulators or oral pleasuring modules, but she needs to start with a sensual massage. Then work up to an erotic massage and then move on from there. Rushing makes everything take LONGER.

This is your path to pleasure. It’s a long, beautiful journey. You put one foot in front of the other. Take her hand. And lead her there.

Rekindle Your Passion Now!

Love,

Susan

P.S. If you get to the seduction stage and want more in-depth information about running menus and small offers that are mentioned inside Revive Her Drive, dig into The Seduction Trilogy. It will show you how to lead your woman toward more pleasure with a killer seduction model that works on wives.

REKINDLE THE PASSION

There you go.

I know that was a long read. However, it’s the blueprint to turn you into a phenomenal lover so you can rekindle the passion.

And if you’re single, you can use this to prepare yourself so you won’t have to go through the usual mistakes a lot of people go through in their relationships.

You’ll already have the knowledge and skills necessary to take on anything that comes your way.

And if you’re a woman, this is incredibly excellent information you can pass on to your husband. You can even read these yourself to get the ball rolling and bring back that fiery, hot passion.

Remember, it’s a process.

Nothing here is instant because your relationship and sex life isn’t a temporary thing.

So you’ll have to invest a bit of time and energy in this.

The great news is that this gives you a proven-to-work path ahead of you: no more dead ends, detours, and U-turns.

A RECAP OF MY BOOKS AND PROGRAMS

Relationship Magic ⇐ Synchronize Your Romantic And Erotic Needs And Desires 

Passion Patch ⇐ Where To Touch A Woman To Turn Her On In 30 Seconds Flat 

30 Romance Tricks ⇐ Romantic Ideas To Rekindle The Passion And Move Your Woman Physically And Emotionally Back To That “Courtship” Feeling

Revive Her Drive ⇐ Rekindle The Passion And Bring Back The Fiery, Hot Love Making You Both Deserve

Keep Her Coming ⇐ Ride Her Sensual Wave Of Pleasure And Give Her Multiple Orgasms 

Expand Her Orgasm Tonight ⇐ Give Your Woman The Heightened, Expanded Orgasmic Experience That Stops Time And Keeps Her Saddled On A Never-Ending Climax 

Female Liquid Orgasm ⇐ Give Her The Experience Of Wild, Explosive, Gushing Climaxes She’s Never Had Before 

Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men ⇐ The 3-Step Technique That Gives You Unlimited Stamina, Rock-Hard Erections, And Triggers Her Vaginal “O’s.” 

Steamy Sex Ed Video Collection ⇐ Over 200 Advanced, Slow, Heart-Connected Lovemaking Techniques, Sensual Massages, And Oral Play Ideas (Only 8 New-In-Box Copies Remaining) 

Seduction Trilogy ⇐ Your Blueprint To Seducing Your Lover Into An Endless Erotic Experience (Rekindle The Passion)

 

 

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3 Comments

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