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Couple’s Sexual Energy Practice

Try this erotic bedroom exercise together! This video talks about specific practices for playing with sexual energy, guaranteed to make you a better lover.

I’m super excited about the topic in this video: specific practices for playing with sexual energy together that are guaranteed to make you a better lover.


When two people decide to play with sexual energy consciously, it’s best to begin by simply looking into each other’s eyes with a soft gaze. Let go of your thoughts as much as possible. Let go, too, of the assumptions you’ve made about the person in front of you. Become curious about who they are beyond all that, beyond what you already know.

Now bring your attention back to yourself and notice how you feel physically, emotionally, and mentally. If you’re a spiritual person, tune in to how this affects you.

If the eyes are indeed the window to the soul, what do you see through that window?

It has also been said that the heart is the doorway to the infinite. Now feel into your own heart as you gaze into your lover’s eyes. What is in your heart as you gaze at your beloved?

You can take this practice to the next level by shifting the focus, going back and forth from attention on yourself to attention on your partner as you breathe in and out.

When you’re ready, add the element of touch by reaching out and taking your lover’s hands or placing your hand on their heart.


You might also climb into your partner’s lap and sit in what is called yab-yum position, facing each other with your legs intertwined.

If you’re uncomfortable doing this in an upright position, find a comfortable way to do so lying down. Synchronize your breaths and feel what happens to your sexual energy.

You can expand your repertoire of sexual-energy play in many ways that don’t involve lovemaking and add to the build-up of sexual energy.

The best way to do this is to engage your five senses. Use aromatic oils. Play soft music. Massage each other. Bring a beautiful bouquet into the room. Get creative and find ways to delight all of your senses. The sexual energy will build, and before you know it, you’ll be kissing and caressing each other.

Once you start making love, breathe deeply together, use your intention to start spreading the sexual energy through your body.

Men, be especially attentive when you are inside a woman. Send your sexual energy down through your manhood and into her body very intentionally. Focus more on feeling her than pushing in and out of her.

Women, allow yourself to open and receive their energy. See if you can allow it to flow through your vagina and into your body like a river, then allow it to flow back into his body.

And most importantly: have fun with it! Play with sexual energy and allow it to lead you into higher and higher levels of pleasure. Your sexual potential is literally infinite.


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In the next video in this series, we’ll go into Advanced Sexual Energy Techniques.


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One Response

  1. Perfectly said…

    But i already know my appetite, breakfast lunch and dinner is perfectly provided by the most tantalising man i have ever met

    You have no idea what your doing to me….

    You are going to be just as lucky…i promise

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