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Sandbox Date from Expand Her Orgasm Tonight “Sharing Favorite Frames”

Sandbox Dates

I want to share one of the 21 Erotic Play Dates that take you both up the learning curve together to Expanded Orgasm dates. All twenty one are listed below.

This couples sex-learning date” is called,  “Sharing Favorite Frames.”

Frames are a descriptive snapshot of shared experience.

If your woman enjoys it when you talk to her, and you enjoy talking about sex together…

The Favorite Frames technique expands and deepens your experience.

A frame is like the frame or border around a picture – it’s a snapshot in time or a short time sequence.

I like to share favorite frames after making love so my partner can take even more pleasure in experiencing my experience as I tell him about it.

People find they enjoy re-living specific date experiences, and also they find they can enjoy new details that they missed at the time.

You might think this happens only when you hear your partner’s frames, but I think you’ll find that when you share a frame, you will recall something you missed at the time.

Talk about your experience during (if appropriate), and afterwards:

This is done in a specific way.

Each of you shares one specific frame —or snapshot in time — of the experience, that relates to something you felt in your body, that you really enjoyed.

For example, John might say, “Sue, when I hugged you more tightly as we kissed, I noticed you relaxing and letting go. I felt a warm rush of energy and love for you.”

And then Sue might say, “John, when you took me in your arms, I felt my whole body sink down to a new level of letting go and opening up, and this rush of sensation came up through my pussy, that then shot right up into my belly, like white-hot heat.”

As you’re getting started, I recommend you share frames relating to your dates such as:

• How the room looked or felt
• The music you liked, and its effect on you
• Specifics about your partner’s appearance that pleased you
• And your experiences during the physical and communication components of the date

At other times, you may find it fun to share frames around non-date moments, such as how delighted you were when he fixed your computer or how much you enjoyed being surprised when she cooked your favorite dinner – and even cleaned up afterward.

Note: “Hi, this is Susan, commenting on Dr. Patti’s post here. I can tell you that sharing frames with Tim is one of my favorite sexy things to do with him. It’s like a “post mortem” or a look backward through the senses of your body. Try it! Be willing to be a beginner together. She’ll really enjoy you sharing your sensual experience of your time with her.”

A lot of people ask me what the Erotic Sandbox Dates are called in Expand Her Orgasm Tonight. You can scan them here:

  1. Sharing Favorite Frames
  2. Sandboxes
  3. The Centering Breath (The Grounding Cycle)
  4. The Centering Breath (Short Form)
  5. Entraining Your Being with Your Heart
  6. Red Dot Exercise
  7. Responsible Grounding after the Date
  8. Touching with Feedback
  9. Asking for Changes
  10. Questions to Consider and Discuss
  11. Genital Grounding (grounding at the end of the date)
  12. The Clock Method Process
  13. Breathing Together
  14. Play Stop/Start
  15. Touch for Rapture
  16. The Spreading Breath
  17. The Three Opening Strokes
  18. Touching from Center to Center (Touching All of You with All of Me)
  19. Basic Kinds of Touches
  20. Basic Strokes
  21. Feel Your Thinking/Think Your Feelings
  22. Alternative Do Positions and Special Situations

With love,
Patricia Taylor

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5 Responses

  1. Aloha Sensation Susan! “Just John” here in Paradise, aka Honolulu! lol

    Quick question. Does Dr. Patti have a full-blown EHOT premium program where the Erotic Sandbox Dates are covered. If so, can you have your support people send me info on purchasing the program?

    I already have the “teasers?” =o) –EHOT Reports 1-3.

    Hope all is well with you, Tim and business. God bless.

    Just & Always Outrageously Joyous John! ^_^*

    1. Hello again, oops from above “SensationAL Susan!” lol

      I’m more astute than I thought I was and answered my own question from above. I do have another question though, any specials, aka price, going on for Dr. Patti’s premium EHOT program? 😀

      Aloha Shalom,

      Just John ^_^*

  2. I started to frame our wonderful previous night’s experience with/to my wife (it had been one of those amazing breakthrough night’s where she broke out of her shell)and she blurted “not to talk to about it”. She’s an introvert (1.5 of 10) and I’m 5 to 6 of 10 (50/50 intro extrovert). I felt kind of shutdown and said but it would be nice if we could share like that. No reply. So we got on with rest of our day as if nothing special had happened .. Wondering how can I reward the break out of the shell the behavior and keep it coming (pun intended).

    1. For some people, cultural, familial and/or religious repression can make talking about sex very edgy. Add to that the fact that different people process information in different ways… for example, visual/auditory/kinesthetic… and a person who doesn’t like to “talk things out” can also prevent the sharing of frames.
      Have you considered writing her a little note as a way to share your frame? Reading and absorbing your perspectives may make it easier for her to take them in.
      I wouldn’t stop trying to share your appreciations with her — just continue finding the path to make it a delight for her.
      Keep trying!

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