If you want to mature your lovemaking and deepen your intimacy with your partner(s) you must stretch beyond who you have been and become who you want to be.
“We’ve distorted what intimacy is, how it feels, how much we really want it and how best to get it.Once we realize that intimacy is not always soothing and often makes us feel insecure, it is clear why we back away from it.” — David Schnarch, PhD.
You frequently read my advice about “giving her your presence” and “being vulnerable” and in this conversation with Michael, we get deeper into what “being present” is really like and why it’s such a valuable communication tool in bringing your woman closer and being more intimate with you.
There are 5 key areas of focus if you want to cultivate a relationship that just keeps getting more passionate:
Not only will SHARING FRAMES increase the erotic energy between you two, Frames also give your lover specific examples about what really turns them on.
Each time she divulges a valuable nugget of feedback and you simply say, “Thank you,” you reinforce the fact that you won’t take it negatively, or personally and you value and appreciate her helpful reports.
The Favorite Frames technique expands and deepens your experience.
A frame is like the frame or border around a picture – it’s a snapshot in time (or a short time sequence).
There are four basic languages of touch. The more you touch her, the more intimately connected she becomes to you, and the more she will want your touch.
If you want to mature your lovemaking and deepen your intimacy with your partner(s) you must stretch beyond who you have been and become who you want to be.
“We’ve distorted what intimacy is, how it feels, how much we really want it and how best to get it.Once we realize that intimacy is not always soothing and often makes us feel insecure, it is clear why we back away from it.” — David Schnarch, PhD.
You frequently read my advice about “giving her your presence” and “being vulnerable” and in this conversation with Michael, we get deeper into what “being present” is really like and why it’s such a valuable communication tool in bringing your woman closer and being more intimate with you.
There are 5 key areas of focus if you want to cultivate a relationship that just keeps getting more passionate:
Not only will SHARING FRAMES increase the erotic energy between you two, Frames also give your lover specific examples about what really turns them on.
Each time she divulges a valuable nugget of feedback and you simply say, “Thank you,” you reinforce the fact that you won’t take it negatively, or personally and you value and appreciate her helpful reports.
The Favorite Frames technique expands and deepens your experience.
A frame is like the frame or border around a picture – it’s a snapshot in time (or a short time sequence).
There are four basic languages of touch. The more you touch her, the more intimately connected she becomes to you, and the more she will want your touch.
