Adore Her Mind, Worship Her Body

“You want her to feel surrounded by your love and penetrated by your lust.”

Here’s a secret most guys don’t know about women.

What she wants most from you is to feel both cherished and desired in equal measure.

Note: If you’re a woman, show this to your partner. If you’re a guy, pay rapt attention. I mean, like, MEMORIZE this.

At first, this may sound like an exercise in semantics. You might wonder if I’m just splitting hairs, making what she wants more elusive and mystifying.

Not so. My purpose in all that I teach and write is to guide you toward more love, more and deeper intimacy, and a more fulfilling romantic life than you ever thought possible. 

I promise you that once I explain the difference between making her feel cherished and feeling desired, you will be crystal clear about how to delight her. 

Even more importantly, you will have key information that is both practical and actionable. You will know precisely what to do to make her feel like the luckiest woman in the world.

So, let’s get down to it. What are these two feelings?

First, let’s talk about making her feel cherished and adored.

When you cherish a woman, you appreciate, admire, and honor her. You treasure her as a person. You hold her in high esteem. You naturally want to safeguard her well-being, care for her, and protect her to cultivate the love between you. 

In short, you treasure her. I highly recommend you add these words of adoration to your repertoire of “sweet nothings” to whisper in her ear:

“I adore you.” 

These three brief words can cast a powerful love spell, so be prepared to watch her blossom.

Okay, so you’ve cast this potent spell over her mind and heart. How do you fan the flames to include her body—and her sexuality? 

Is it possible to express your lust and desire without breaking the spell you have put on her heart? 

Absolutely. You have reverence for her body. Don’t worry; I’m not asking you to prostrate yourself (unless, of course, that’s your thing).

Right now, just take a moment and sense the difference wherever you are. You adore her being; you worship her body.

When you adore a woman, there’s a subtle stepping-back in awe. 

She takes your breath away. Stops you in your tracks. Awestruck, you might say words such as, “You are gorgeous,” or “What a knockout!” If you’re in public, you can pull her toward you protectively and say, “You’re quite the head-turner today, my love.” 

This lets her know that she’s also being admired by other men, making her feel even more special like she is your treasure, the one you cherish.

In contrast, when you worship a woman, you move toward her. You are attracted to her physically. She magnetizes you. Her yin pulls you toward her and amplifies your yang. 

It’s a directional thing. The magic words that make her feel desired might be: “I can’t wait to get you alone,” or “I love the shape of your ass.” You might even say: “I can never get enough of you,” or, “I want to devour you.”

What’s tricky is finding the balance between adoring her and expressing your lusty desire. You want her to feel adored and desired, ideally simultaneously and, ultimately, all the time. You want her to feel surrounded by your love and penetrated by your lust. It’s a balancing act you can perfect if you pay attention.

Listen up. 

This is the important part and the thing you most need to understand. If you only focus on adoring her, she won’t feel sexy. If you only focus on how sexy she is, she will feel like an object. So, you must focus on giving her a balanced ratio of compliments.

Of course, every woman is unique, but she still needs that toggling. Once you have this distinction and feel the difference between stepping back in awe and moving toward her with desire, the feedback loop will become obvious. You can adjust your point of connection to match her mood and, in time, influence and uplift her with your love and desire.

And when that becomes true, your relationship turns into a love-drenched, erotic dance. 

I dig much deeper into all this in these specific programs: (commit to relationship excellence)

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