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“My new lover can’t make me orgasm.”(Mailbag)

Can’t seem to come the way you want? 

Don’t worry. In my personal experience working with singles and couples for more than a decade, I’ve discovered any woman can teach her body to climax. 

That doesn’t mean there aren’t any challenges along the way. 

That’s why we teach tried and tested techniques that help women gently guide their bodies to orgasmic pleasure safely and intimately. 

We also talk about some helpful tools that will make the journey much more manageable. 

Keila sent me an email about her orgasm woes. Check out her email and my response below. 

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MAKE ME COME 

“Hi, Susan,

I had read some of your work, like the Magic Pill Method, and was curious if you had any thoughts to share on this issue as I am at a loss, and it’s negatively affecting my relationship with my partner.

I’ve had lots of sexual partners, probably at least 80. Most of these were not from self-love or desire and were during my days as a self-hating alcoholic (using sex to numb/mask pain. I don’t even remember lots of my encounters). 

To my knowledge, I have never had a vaginal orgasm in general, and I’ve only had a clitoral orgasm with one other partner when I was stimulating myself at the same time as him. I’ve concluded it’s psychological and a protective measure from my body/psyche, which I had for good reason.

Fast forward to today, I’m finally in a loving, committed relationship. 

My partner and I have fantastic sex, and I know how deeply he loves me, and I love him so much too… and I still can’t orgasm. 

It feels terrific, and I can feel my body is too tense to allow me to release even when I feel complete enjoyment. It seems to be affecting my partner’s self-worth. He knows about my past but thinks that if his love for me were enough, it would cut through my protective mechanism and allow me to open up. I’ve tried to explain to him it’s a learned pattern and takes time.

Do you have any advice?

Thanks so much in advance for your time. 

Blessings.” —Keila (not her real name)  

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Hi Keila,

I have the utmost faith that your body wants you to have pleasure, is willing to heal, and will be there to support you in finding the orgasms that are inside you waiting to be released.

There are two things I find the most helpful in breaking through this jam. 

A loving Yoni massage with G-Spot healing and awakening. And a solid vibrator to drive sensation into your being, wake it up, and engorge your genitals (get the blood and juices flowing).

I recommend the WeVibe wand for external clitoral and vulva stimulation. I recommend Miss Bi or Lady Bi for internal and external stimulation. Lady is just longer than Miss. If you have a petite yoni, use the Miss. 

Use your fantasy, whatever turns you on, and don’t feel guilty about it. Use the vibrators while your partner is holding you, whispering loving thoughts into your head, and stimulating your breasts and nipples. Take your pleasure. If you don’t come, don’t worry.

Also, have him give you a vulva massage, and follow our program, Female Liquid Orgasm, which starts with G-Spot pleasuring and awakening. 

Watch the videos and read the books together.

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Then experiment.

Try this for the next month in no hurry. Just be in the moment. Whatever your responses are are legitimate and welcomed.

Let me know how this goes.

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