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How To Fix An “Attention-Deficit Marriage.”

Where is that spouse who used to love you and want you like crazy?

Is she a workaholic? Is he holed up in his man cave?

Are you experiencing an “attention-deficit marriage?”

We’re busier today than ever because we come home tired and stressed and forget to pay attention to our partners and how they want it most from us.

Many partners, unable to deal with their frustrations at work or home, retreat from their relationship.

If you’ve been feeling ignored, lonely, neglected, or unappreciated, I have a solution that will work wonders for your relationship.

I call it the  “The LUV Formula.” L. U. V.

Today, I’ll show you three steps to regain your partner’s affection.

But first, you should know why you are going through these relationship ordeals.

According to research by Arizona State University, the longer you’re married, the more chance you have of becoming dissatisfied.

Their study involved “subjective well-being”—how positive the spouse felt—and found a correlation between marriage and well-being.

However, that feeling was more potent in younger married folks than older and more robust in earlier studies than in more recent ones. 

THE LUV FORMULA

Step #1: Layout A Plan To Re-Engage 

Explicitly commit to re-engagement. Break the cycle of emotional disconnection. Intentionally focus on each other. Schedule time to connect both physically and passionately with each other. 

Set dates on your calendar.

Reminder alerts on your phone for check-ins during the day.

Plan a romantic vacation.

And when you’re together, focus on listening and staying present. And when your attention wanders, bring yourself back and be willing to ask your partner to repeat what you missed. Attention is a muscle that takes practice and awareness.

Step #2: Use Physical Touchpoints

  • Look each other in the eyes more often.
  • At a minimum, kiss hello, goodbye, good morning, and good night. And when your partner arrives or departs, get up to greet or hug them goodbye.
  • Take turns giving each other daily foot, neck, or face massages. A great time to massage is in the evening if you watch TV.
  • Cuddle each other to sleep. Hug when you arise.
  • Plan romantic outings that include moving your bodies together. A walk, a hike, a bike ride, dancing, yoga, or a swim in the ocean. Moving your bodies together moves your emotions, which keeps you more connected.
  • Breathing deeply together lowers your stress and deepens your connection.
  • Hold hands whenever possible. Put a hand on your partner’s knee if you’re driving the car.

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Step #3: Verbally Give Attention

Put emotional focus into your relationship. There are five types of verbal attention that partners appreciate most:

  1. Reassurance
  2. Respect
  3. Gratitude
  4. Appreciation
  5. Encouragement

People love to be acknowledged for their contributions and efforts. When your partner does something good, make a fuss over them. Look for opportunities to make your partner feel like a winner. By looking for ways to appreciate your partner, you’ll feel more satisfied and happy in your marriage. 

Relationships require work for them to bloom. However, it doesn’t have to be confusing if you know what to do. 

I created the Revive Her Drive program to make it much more manageable. No more confusion. Couples no longer have to do it in the dark or independently.

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The techniques are for guys to fix their relationships with their partners. However, the fundamentals work for all genders and identities across the spectrum

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All information from Susan Bratton, Personal Life Media, The20, and our collective brands are personal opinions. The statements made within this email/website have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These statements and the products of this company are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease. Always seek consultation from your doctor.

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