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How to Have a Good Relationship: Building Bonds Beyond Bacon and Lingerie

Happy Sunday!

This happened a few years ago. 

Tim snapped this pic of me that morning as I served him some pesto scrambled eggs, a rasher of bacon, and an orange and jicama salad with pomegranate.

I got up that morning, put on a cupless bra and sexy pants and high heels, and fed him a yummy meal.

There was a time when I thought wearing lingerie was demeaning. In my thirties, I was focused on being a mommy and a successful executive. My women’s liberation ideologies poo-pooed lingerie as something men wanted from women we didn’t like.

I was SO WRONG!

I’M A WOMAN, W.O.M.A.N.

There is something so lovely about indulging my husband in a bit of sexy frivolity. His #1 relationship value is PASSION. 

That means he wants to feel like he’s intimate with me. He loves me to feel so sensual and confident that I want to wear lingerie around the house. He loves when I ask him for Sandbox dates. He loves going in our hot tub and Sunlighten sauna naked together. He appreciates my dirty jokes and double entendres. And he loves that I keep my lady parts shaved smooth for his massages.

During the first decade of our marriage, I didn’t understand how vital these things were to him. They are the most critical aspects of his relationship with me. He doesn’t want to be in a relationship that isn’t sensual. It’s his deal-breaker.

And until we learned about “Relationship Values,” we were mucking up our marriage by treating each other the way WE wanted to be treated instead of how they wanted to be treated.

Once we discovered each other’s top four Relationship Values, our marriage became a massively satisfying rocket of love.

This technique has been so powerful that we’ve helped 169,478 people figure out their top four relationship values in my downloadable workbook, Relationship Magic.

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Now I have a closet full of sexy outfits, and I prance around the house in them as much as possible.

I don’t know what YOU need, but I bet you’d love to figure it out with my amazeballs workbook.

It’s fun to do together, and it’s fun to do as a single. The more you know what is deeply important to you, the easier it is to get it. 

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