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Lubes For Sex Toys And Intercourse (Mailbag)

Lubes For Sex Toys And Intercourse (Mailbag)

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I recently got an email from one of my fans who’s curious about the best lubes I can recommend for her sexy sex toys. 

Check out her email and my response below. 

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“Hi, Susan. 

First, I just want to tell you how grateful I am to have “found” you!  Since having seen your webinar at the “Stop The Menopause Madness Summit” last November, my relationship and sex life with my husband has been THE BEST it’s ever been in our 12 years of marriage!  I’m trying to absorb EVERYTHING from your websites and articles, and I purchased the “Steamy SexEd” videos and other products that you recommend (I can’t wait for my Jade Egg to arrive).

Second, I need your help regarding a good lube that I can use with sex toys and condoms.  Unfortunately, even though I’m 51 years old, I still have periods, and I stopped using birth control pills two years ago. I don’t want to get pregnant, and because I have heavy periods, I don’t want to try IUDs, so condoms seem to be our only alternative.  We’ve been using the Shine Organic lube from getting Maude lube, and it’s pretty good, but I wonder if you have a better recommendation. Thank you so much!” 一 Mandy (not her real name) 

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Hi Mandy,

Thanks for your kind email. Consider a copper IUD or the Daysy fertility tracker so you can ditch the condoms.

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Semen is very good for you, and there are only about six days you could conceive, and at your age, it’s a slim chance anyway.

Both of these methods are non-hormonal birth control. I have my daughter on the copper IUD, and it’s been great. Zero issues. Many people don’t know the ease and convenience of a simple copper IUD.

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If you want to stick with condoms, use these Trojan Supras. They are polyurethane and can stand up to natural oils because natural oils are the safest form of sexual lubricant.

The Shine product you asked about is full of icky thickeners and chemicals. Skip it. For a brand to call a product a lubricant, it has to have preservatives in it. 

The best thing about natural oil is that you can wipe it right off and engage in oral sex without any nasty chemical taste. As well, your vaginal mucosa is delicate and absorbs chemicals right into your bloodstream. You never want to use those ugly drugstore products.

I recommend this avocado oil from Hobe or the Sweet Almond oil, which is organic. I’m working on my organic avocado oil. Stay tuned for that. For now, you can find the ones I’ve tested and think are safe here:

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We also like the Curious natural lubricant. The Curious is an excellent blend of natural ingredients. 

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⇐ Curious Natural Body-Safe Botanical Products

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If you’re using quality silicone sex toys such as those from

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, you will not break down the material with these natural oils. I mean, maybe, after ten years of heavy use or something, but I’ve always used natural oils and cleaned off my toys, and they last and last.

I hope that gives you plenty to work with, and I am sending much love to you.

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