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Kinky Sex Toys For Couples: Blindfolds And Restraints (VIDEO)

Let’s get kinky. 

I’m joined again by my gorgeous girlfriends Amy Baldwin and April Lampert of the Shameless Sex Podcast in today’s video.

And we dig into some of our favorite kinky sex toys. 

Discover tools and tricks for bondage, power play, sensation play, domination, and everything you could ever fantasize about while still being sweetly sexy. 

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We also go a little deeper into sensation play, which is about removing one of your lovers’ senses during sex to heighten their experience with their other senses. 

Then, we also discuss why deep down, women long for and even crave being dominated and overcome to surrender to their lover.

We also share some kinky pleasure-heightening techniques that make things hotter and hotter each time. 

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2 Responses

  1. Hello Susan, I love foreplay and I love giving oral to my girlfriend. She has always had a hard time with her body and how she thinks it looks even way before we met. She is 61 and I’m 53. I always have let her know that I feel in love with her for who she is on the inside and that no matter what her body is like I’m still going to love her the same. She has told me that she has always had issues with her weight, from childhood till now, and she always thinks that she is too heavy for me even if we are just laying on the bed holding each other with her on top off to one side and her head on my chest. We both like that feeling of being wrapped up in each other. She might have me by 10lbs. She also has never had a full body massage until I gave her one last year. She is not a large woman at all she just has a few extra pounds. What can I do to get her to just let go and let us flow in the moment and not be so self conscious about her body? I love it when we are skin to skin and so does she, but I don’t like that I can’t even see her face because it has to be so dark. When I go to kiss her I like to see what I’m kissing. It’s weird when I kiss her eyeball instead of her soft lips. One more thing is that she just wants me to go straight for penitration without any type of foreplay and I always say baby let’s get you warmed up first and get some juices flowing first. She just wants me to pound her from the start. I’m in need of some help here please. Thank you for what you are doing to help people like myself. It’s hard for me to be confident when she can’t be. I hope that you understand what I’m saying. Thank you Susan.

    1. Hi Troy,
      Just tell her every day that you love how she looks and feels and you don’t want to be with any other woman. That she is the one for you. And then give her very specific examples of what you find attractive about her. You love the sweetness of her face, the way her hair smells, the color of her vulva, the feel of her breasts in your hands, the curve of her hips… Just keep telling her every day. And it about 20,000 days she might begin to believe you. And you both will have been the richer for all that verbal appreciation.

      Women being more estrogen dominant are generally more worried about things, and more judgmental of our looks. This is exacerbated by the media. So we are very deeply programmed to feel negatively about our bodies. You can break her of this by telling her when a negative thought enters her mind, remember how much you adore her and change the channel to KLUV.

      Try suggesting candlelight and lingerie that “hides” the parts of her she’s shy about.

      Keep asking her to let go of judgement and flow in the moment with you. It’s a learned skill. Practice makes perfect.

      Get a hand mirror and ask her to look at how beautiful her lady parts are. To bathe in the miracle of her body. The more she looks the more she will discover how her vulva changes from day to day. She will build appreciation for herself.

      And finally and most importantly, I’m glad you are not just pounding her from the start. She will benefit from manual genital massage and oral pleasuring before penetration. So you have to stand up to her and refuse to take the short cut. Tell her it’s high time she learned to receive pleasure. And you are going to insist that she relax and let you touch and taste her genitals and learn how amazing it is to be made love to. Sometimes with the most resistant women, it takes a strong, masculine hand to get them to open up.

      If she gets really mad, sit her down and tell her it’s unfair that she lets her sexual shame ruin both your sex lives. That there is a mature and responsible aspect of being in a relationship that includes allowing herself to be loved and respected.

      Here is a video I did with Ariel Giaretto, a somatic trauma healer. It’s very good for partners who are with a lover who has shame, which is a part of trauma.

      How To Enjoy Sex Again After Sexual Abuse and Sexual Trauma

      See how all that goes and report back.


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