In a perfect world, couples long to be intimate as often as possible.
Sadly, that’s not how it is.
In fact, over time, a woman’s desire for her partner decreases. Part of it is that the “new relationship energy” wears off. And part of it, depending on the guy, might include:
He stops romancing her.
Issues outside the bedroom don’t get resolved, and resentment builds.
Her body issues increase.
He stops seducing her and just tries to get sex.
He lets himself go with a potbelly and dirty teeth.
He shuts her down in little ways that build up resentment.
She gets bored with the same old bedroom moves he’s used to repeatedly.
He doesn’t spend enough time doing foreplay.
He stops treating her like a sexy goddess during the day.
He doesn’t lead her to her sexual potential and makes it safe to keep expanding sexually.
He doesn’t learn new sex techniques.
He stops being fun to be with and is primarily cranky.
I’m not saying it’s your or your partner’s fault.
Nobody is given an education on how to make love. Porn doesn’t show it. Your parents certainly didn’t teach you. That’s for sure. Anyone can make a baby, but few people are natural-born lovers.
Sex IS a two-way street. But men are the sexual leaders who must take charge behind closed doors. Guys waiting for women to initiate become very mad and frustrated. Women are repressed by society and religion, and we don’t get any passionate lovemaking information either!
Not only that, but we will submit to sex, resent it, and not want it anymore instead of speaking up and saying what we need. We will rush sex and not give ourselves time to get warmed up. Then it doesn’t feel good. We don’t orgasm. And we blame our partner.
I know!
It’s madness!
But I want you to know that you can not only rewind to how it was when you were first hot for each other. By retaking charge, you can have an even better sex life than you ever dreamed of!
And by taking charge, I don’t mean being bossy and dominant.
That’s where so many guys get it wrong. They demand intimacy. They demand reciprocation. They cannot believe she wouldn’t want to have sex and assume something is wrong with her.
What drives a woman’s desire is worlds apart from a man’s. Most men are filled with passion and desire all the time. For women, our desire is fluid. There is a word for this. You have spontaneous desire due to your testosterone dominance. We women have a responsive desire because of our estrogen.
That is why I created an online program with a quick start guide and conversations with experts on bringing back a woman’s desire, advanced orgasm skills to get her to come when he penetrates and goes down on her, how to romance her in a way that leads to sex, so they both get what you want and much more… all the things NOBODY BUT ME teaches.
PLUS, how to stay the course when you get frustrated… because it took you years to get here, and sometimes either of you (or both) backslide into old behaviors that die hard.
Does my approach work?
I’ve helped thousands of husbands revive their relationships from a dead stop, like a flaming phoenix rising from the ashes.
Here’s what one reader had to say about the advice in Revive Her Drive.
Revive Her Drive ⇐ Spark Intense Intimacy And Passion Back Into Your Relationship
FLAMING PHOENIX
“I know you don’t remember me, but we exchanged a few emails when my partner of 8 years pulled the plug on intimacy.
You told me the importance of understanding women’s “emotional side,” her needs, and how it differs from men’s.
I changed how I talked to her and started doing essential things. I stopped asking for intimacy all the time. I asked for nothing in return.
I just did all the giving for a while. At times, I wanted to quit. But I didn’t.
She texted me at 11 p.m. and asked if I wanted to come over the other night. I said yes.
It was like it was in the beginning. I couldn’t believe it!
The following day, she texted me this:
This weekend we are going to a romantic B&B. Thanks for your spot-on advice.
I’m not a young guy anymore, but you’ve turned the clock back, so at least I feel like I am. You know what you’re talking about. And because you’ve been with the same man for so long, you practice what you preach, too. And that’s important to me.
Many thanks again, Susan!” — Jeff (not his real name)
Revive Her Drive ⇐ Spark Intense Intimacy And Passion Back Into Your Relationship
Don’t wait for your relationship to turn to dust in front of your eyes.
Men, start reviving your partner’s drive tonight.
Ladies, show this to your lover. And open yourself up to your desires.
. I created this program because I almost lost my husband because I didn’t want to have sex with him anymore. For all the reasons I listed above.
Revive Her Drive is what we learned and did to bring back and go on to have the best sex of our lives. And you can, too, because I make it easy, step-by-step, and understandable to give her what she needs to want you again for sex regularly.
