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Magical Relationship: Rekindling Connection and Banishing Signs of Lost Interest

signs your husband is losing interest

Where is that guy who used to love and want you like crazy?

Why won’t he answer any questions that involve feelings or your relationship?

Has he become a shell of a man who doesn’t know what he wants? Or the guy who never romances you anymore? Doesn’t pay enough attention to you? Is he a workaholic?

Bottom line: What do you do when he wants nothing more than permanent residence in his man cave?

If this rings familiar, read on.

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I get many emails from my female followers about similar issues. Many men, unable to deal with their frustrations at work or home, retreat from their relationships.

Women miss their husbands’ love and affection.

So today, I’m about to show you a course of action to get your husband back.

First, I want you to think about something.

Tip #1: Loving Memories

When you knew your husband loved you, what was he doing then that he’s not doing now? Make a list of things he used to do that made you feel loved. Hang onto that list.

Now, I want you to understand something.

Being testosterone-driven, men are usually pretty happy when we feed and have sex with them regularly.

Women need more romance, conversation, full-body touch, and verbal appreciation, being estrogen-driven.

Men and women are wired differently. Hence, women must be very specific so that men know what to do.

Tip #2: Guys want a to-do list. 

It assures them of a win. Giving your man a list of things to make you feel loved will help him understand what you need.

Let’s talk about your man’s inability to put things into words, which is quite familiar. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. He doesn’t understand how vital conversation and verbal appreciation work for you. That’s quite common. Most men don’t know they need to keep wooing us with words.

Tip #3: Don’t Put Him In A Trap

If it’s not your guy’s natural inclination, don’t drag him into conversations. 

That will just push him further away. Better to go into “stealth mode” and figure out his relationship values—and yours. Then you can get busy building your relationship on solid ground.

Here’s how.

Start by doing what I said above: Make a list of what he used to do that made you happy. Include what you want from him at this stage in your relationship.
Then go through the exercise in my book Relationship Magic to uncover the values behind the actions. That will help you understand YOUR top four relationship values

How To Create Relationship Magic ⇐ Why Treating Your Partner How YOU Want To Be Treated May Be Ruining Your Relationship (And What To Do Instead) 

Once you connect those dots, you can give him a list of behaviors, actions, and desires he can execute. Each time he does one, you reward him. Men need to feel they’re winning. So make a BIG FUSS over him, knocking stuff off your list.

This trains him to enjoy meeting your needs. At the same time, I want you to do three things for him:

  1. Get dressed to make you look very appealing and feed him a home-cooked meal—bonus points for showing some cleavage and shaking your booty.
  2. Start being more physically affectionate. Give your man a wet kiss when you greet him after work. Press yourself up against him in a hug. Sit on his lap. Put your hand on his crotch in the car—stuff like that.
  3. Get even more intimate with him. Give him directions so he makes you feel terrific. Encourage him to enjoy you. This alone can bring your husband back. 

Do this even if you are pissed at him for being so emotionally disconnected. Take the high road. Do you want your man back? Then meet him more than halfway and drag him back with the things that guys need.

Almost all men will respond positively when you tangibly demonstrate your love. Feed him. Be physical with him. Teach him how to make you happy. That will reinvigorate your marriage.

Make sure you keep it up. Even if you get discouraged, keep it up for at least a month.

From time to time, let me know how it goes.

I can’t wait to hear from you.

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I’ve been on television MANY times talking about the power of this simple workbook. Give it a try. You’ll be amazed at how it will bring you back together as a couple.

3 Responses

  1. I feel rather insulted by this article, you realize men are human beings not dogs? Im not nearly so simple as whats suggested above, nor would any of this work on me.

  2. I am a man reading what you have to say about this.Almost all of what you said is true. In fact all of it would work with me.
    Can I make 1 suggestion please. Never use the work “train” we don’t want to be trained, we want to be honored & respected. Training does not sound like either of those.
    Thank you
    Ramona, CA

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