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How To Confidently Ravish A Woman In The Bedroom

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Here is some advice if you haven’t yet had much sexual experience. Start by watching my video called “How To Lose Your Virginity,” which’s gotten over 50,000 views. Learn how to ravish a woman.

What should I do the first time I’m with a woman?

This article is for a man, yet a woman can equally benefit from these instructions on confidently ravishing a woman in the bedroom. That way, you can guide your man to do some of these things for you. Men need encouragement to ravish you the first few times. They don’t want to go over the line, so pick what you like and tell him.

I often get emails that are about not having much experience in bed. Something like this:

“I have minimal sexual experience. What should I do the first time I am in bed with a woman?”

Here is some advice if you haven’t yet had much sexual experience.

First of all, take a deep breath. Sexuality comes naturally, so everything will be OK if you decide to take the pressure off yourself and have fun. Women are very different in what they like sexually, so there’s no way you can know what to do. Moreover, every woman is different every day – we are hormonally cyclical creatures. So one day, we might like a very boisterous, passionate romp, and the next time we might want to be held and touched very lovingly.

The best lovers ask, “During our time together, I want you to be comfortable telling me what you are in the mood for and your boundaries that I need to be careful of.” That puts you on a level playing field where you’re figuring things out together and removes performance anxiety.


If you’re single, this is also time to have the safe sex talk. The #1 way to make sure a woman will feel comfortable having sex with you is to discuss contraception and STI protection before sex. Not only does this NOT ruin the mood, but it also makes you seem like a caring, mature, responsible man. This consideration allows her to open up to her pleasure with you because she knows your agreements about contraception and condom use.

There are three things women are looking for from a man they’re going to have sex with. The first is good grooming. Make sure you’re showered, well-shaved, manscaped, and your nails (fingers and toes) and teeth are as clean as possible. Husbands get especially lazy about this, and it affects your sex life more than you know.

Secondly, women want a guy’s presence. She doesn’t want you to be in your head strategizing about what you’re going to do with her. She wants to connect in the present moment emotionally. The minute you take off your attention from her and think ahead, you’ve lost the connection. Stay tuned to her in each moment, and sex will feel more effortless and intimate.

Third, she needs to be warmed up like you build a fire. Where you’re like a light switch, ready to go, she needs kindling started and wood added to her fire over time, which means start with a full body massage. Touch her with long, sweet strokes that feel as good to your hands as they do to her body. Again, stay present. Don’t rub her. Feel her and awaken her body with your touch and kisses. Don’t touch her breasts or genitals at first. Please wait until you feel her body responding to you. You want to kiss her lightly at first and then more intensely over time as well.

Here is an excellent video I made that steps you through an entire lovemaking date.

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how to ravish a woman


This is important: Don’t grab her genitals right away. And don’t go right for her clitoris once you have her clothes off. YOU want her to put her hands on your penis asap, but that’s not how women prefer to be aroused. Instead, work your way with your hands, mouth, and tongue slowly from the outside-in.

Slowly and steadily escalate sensation and watch for her cues. Wait for her to invite you to give her oral. If she doesn’t, ask her if she’d like you to go down on her. Some women are quite shy about having their genitals seen. So take your time.

If she green lights you to go down on her, tell her how beautiful her Yoni looks. And how nice she smells and tastes if that is true. Women are shy about their lady parts.


Also, don’t just lick her clitoris. Work all around her vulva, inside and out. Alternate light sideways licks rapidly across her clitoris, with circles around it. Then slide your tongue up and down her slit. Be present and enjoy the pleasure of her vulva on your tongue and lips.

Playing with her breasts and lightly twirling her nipples while your face is between her legs will turn her on at a higher level. You’re slowly warming her fire up. You can take breaks and kiss and hug. She might offer to go down on you. You’ll be happy you manscaped now!

Once she’s ready for penetration and you have an erection, slide the condom on and ask her to help guide you in. Look her in the eyes. Tell her how much you’re enjoying her and how beautiful she is. Ask her to tell you if she wants more or less speed or pressure at any time. Kiss her. Enjoy the pleasure of your bodies locked as one.


Premature ejaculation is the top concern for most guys. It’s not easy to last when you’re inside a woman. That’s why giving her as many orgasms with your hands and mouth before penetration is adequate insurance that if you can’t last that long the first time, she will still feel satisfied enough to have sex with you again. Keep breathing and relax. Slow down and even take a break if you must.

Click Here To Watch My Video ⇐ How To Ravish A Woman With Masculine Dominance In The Bedroom 

Stamina comes with practice. Here is a technique called The Stallion’s Secret Stay-Hard Mind Trick you can use.

If, on the other hand, you have trouble getting or keeping an erection due to performance anxiety, grab my three hard-on techniques in this free book, How To Get Hard Instantly On Command. One of them will work for you in a stressful situation. Best to be prepared by knowing what to do in advance.


When you’ve had your fill of lovemaking, don’t forget to thank her, tell her how wonderful it was and how much you appreciate her. Women need to hear those words of appreciation.

The great thing about sex is that it can just keep getting better. The older you get, the better lover you become. The more time you have to make love with a woman, the better in bed you get together. Learn how to ravish a woman gently.

Relax, have fun, and stay safe!


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