Janet’s first orgasm at 46.
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The “Sweet Spot” Oral Sex Technique ⇐ Free Sex Position
The Orgasmic Breast Massage Game Plan ⇐ Free Sex Technique
8 Playful Bedroom Adventures ⇐ 8 Free Ways To Have More Orgasms
The Sexual Soulmate Pact ⇐ Bedroom Communication Skill Ignites Passionate Lovemaking
Janet is 46 and has a new boyfriend…
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She’s unable to orgasm and is worried he will break up with her if she can’t climax during sex with him.
TECHNIQUES MAKE THE DIFFERENCE
I had her watch this video about bridging the orgasm gap which prompted her to change things in her environment that were distracting her during sex.
Janet writes:
✅ Last night, he helped me make a list of things I think about or worry during our lovemaking so that we could eliminate those thoughts.
✅ We changed the music to nature sounds or instruments instead of actual songs. Reflecting on the things that run through my mind during sex, I often listen to the words of those songs and it takes me back to a past memory with someone else. Then I wonder if that song is making him think of his ex or past lovers as well. So that music is being eliminated & replaced with something completely different that is going to make me focus on us & the moment.
✅ We’re also going to actually light the candles in our room instead of letting them collect dust.
✅ Last night we also bought 2 fun games. The first is a set of intimate questions to get to know your partner better. These questions will eliminate any awkwardness either of us may have in wanting to know anything specific sexually about each other. I thought this might be a good way to feel closer to him. I already feel safe with him. The other deck of cards are different positions we can try. Some of them looked goofy. I’m sure both of us laughing while attempting some of these will create a fun and more comfortable moment.
Janet is doing a great job identifying what the environment needs to be like for her to relax.
Here is a technique called, The Sexual Soulmate Pact. (From my #1 best-seller, Sexual Soulmates.)
The Sexual Soulmate Pact ⇐ Bedroom Communication Skill Ignites Passionate Lovemaking
This is a bedroom communication skill —a feedback loop —for you two to use to get better at pleasuring each other.
Give that a try. You’ll see that it makes an instant, positive impact on your ability to receive and feel the kind of pleasure you need to relax into orgasm.
I also recommended to Janet to make sure that her boyfriend gives her a lot of full-body stroking, kissing, breast massage and genital massage before they move into more sexual stimulation such as oral or intercourse.
Also, I suggested she try going down on him a little after kissing. You don’t need to stay long, just long enough to relax and let yourself get aroused by his penis in your mouth. If he can play with your breasts and touch your body and tell you how sexy you are to him while you’re doing it, it’s going to stimulate your orgasmic contractions, making in easier to have an orgasm.
After your genital massage but before intercourse, also have him go down on you. His tongue is delicate and can act as a lubricant.
Here is a cunnilingus pillow plan that you can set up to help you relax:
The “Sweet Spot” Oral Sex Technique ⇐ Free Sex Position
Here is a breast massage game plan so he can learn to massage your breasts to bring you into more arousal:
The Orgasmic Breast Massage Game Plan ⇐ Free Sex Technique
And here are 8 Playful Bedroom Adventures you can add to your fun and games. These games actually help you become better lovers by learning new techniques together. It’s great to “make things up,” and it’s also highly-rewarding to actually learn specific techniques you want to try out.
8 Playful Bedroom Adventures ⇐ 8 Free Ways To Have More Orgasms
Let me know how you do with these awesome free techniques.
