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4 Keys to Seduce Your Lover

A fan emailed me that he was having trouble with his sex life because he feels something’s “blocking” his wife from surrendering to pleasure and erotic bliss.

Remember, if something isn’t as great as you want it to be, there’s always a way to improve it.

And you shouldn’t expect things to get better out of the blue.

Here’s what he said, and my reply below.

“I just wish she would just look at me and say “you need a piece of ass.” That’s all I really want.”

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“Dear Suz, After my wife had our first, she started having hot flashes. Then a few months later, she started having anxiety issues. I just wonder if something happened to her when she was young. She’s been taking Lexapro now for a while. She also might be holding on to something inside she doesn’t want to talk about.. Like something that happened in her childhood?

I just wish she would just look at me and say “you need a piece of ass.” That’s all I really want.”

–Jeff (not his real name)


Hi Jeff,

There are two steps to take here.

  1. She needs her hormones tested for imbalance.
  2. You need to learn how to get her out of her mind and into her body with “right-sized” seductive offers. I have a little free technique for you called More Sex More Often.” Start doing that immediately.

Anxiety is factor in hormonal imbalance.

Cortisol is a hormone that keeps you from feeling stressed, But if you have too much or too little, it generates anxiety.

Having a child is stressful in its own right. And post-baby, hormones can get whacky.

Take your wife to a functional medicine doctor who specializes in hormone-balancing. Make sure the doctor you go to uses the DUTCH 24-hour dried urine test and NOT a blood test.

Blood tests take one data point at one moment in time. They are old technology. The DUTCH test samples her circadian hormones in a 24-hour cycle. They also test more than estrogen and progesterone –they test cortisol and other important hormones.

And don’t let any doctors put her on the birth control pill. That contributes to anxiety in women too. Use the Daysy Fertility Awareness Method or the non-hormonal IUD to prevent pregnancy.

Get her onto a good nutrition program that includes a lot of healthy fats (avocado, nuts, seeds, coconut oil), organic vegetables and no processed foods. Eat the Whole 30 diet with her as nutrition is ground zero in reducing anxiety.

Ask her about her childhood too. See what happened. Was she abused? Shamed? So many of us were…

Get to the bottom of it and help her solve her anxiety.

You’re a good man.

Also, teach her how to be that piece of ass you’re looking for.

Trust me. She doesn’t want to feel anxious. She wants to feel sexy.

But having kids really can take its toll on some women. So they need their man to be extra focused on making time for her to fully relax into your arms.

The best way I know is to seduce her. Which means to move her toward pleasure.

She’s so caught up in mommie-land that you have to help her get back to that woman who does remember that you are a hot piece of ass.

Bring her out. Seduce her toward pleasure. Be her guiding sexual light. Bring her to her sexual potential.

Check out my mentor, Dr. Patti Taylor’s book, More Sex More Often, to discover how you move a woman — especially a woman who is anxious — toward more pleasure.

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It will show you what the steps are to seducing your woman with integrity.

It’s a worthy endeavor. Fun. And will turn your partner into a whole new happy human.

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