You need CHOICES, honey!
“I’m so ready and done at the same time.”
“I don’t want to meet anyone else. I want him.”
“I want her back.”
“I’m willing to put up with his crap… I love him.”
“Every time I ask for sex she says no.”
If you are in a relationship and it’s full of drama…
Or you’re getting ignored… frozen out… or are under appreciated…
Or any other reason your partner is not really, truly meeting your needs…
That is a problem…
WHY? (scroll down)
INCREASE YOUR DEAL FLOW
Because you are fixated on ONE person, instead of having choices.
The more choices you give yourself the more resources you’ll have to decide if this person is worth the heartache you’re experiencing now.
What I’ve noticed over a decade of having people pour their deepest issues out to me is that we tend to get STUCK.
Get yourself unstuck.
Play the field.
Date a lot.
Don’t look for perfect, just get yourself out there.
This week I want you to set up at least ONE new date.
And I want you to do that for the next month.
Please go out with four new people this month.
You can ask your friends to fix you up.
You can join any number of online dating sites.
You can introduce yourself to people you see while you’re out and around.
Try all the angles.
But for goodness sake! Get OUT there!
Stop settling because you don’t have enough variety, enough choices, enough great people in the pipeline to find a perfect match that makes you happy.
That’s what “deal flow” is. You have a lot of prospects and one is going to be the best deal for you.
Go get a hair cut. Get your nice clothes on. Eat really well this week. And get a date.
Do it for me.
Stop making excuses.
Climb out of that rut and go grab life by the balls.