Gals, this one is for you but I am letting the guys read it because they will be cheering us on!
One of the best ways to please your man is to be generous with your body.
Allowing him to taste, touch, smell and look at your body as much as he wants to is a true gift of love.
So many women change in the other room, hide in the dark during lovemaking and don’t let their men look at their genitals.
I get emails from guys all the time practically crying because they feel starved for the flesh of their woman.
LET HIM IN
Let him love you up and drink you in.
The feminine invites and allows.
Create the conditions and boundaries with your man that allow you to open yourself to him willingly.
He doesn’t want you to do it for HIM. He wants you to love your body and share it with him.
There’s a subtle mind shift where you just have to say to yourself, OK.
I’m going to give myself to him and let him enjoy me. I’m going to push self-criticism out of my mind. I’m going to overcome my shame. I’m going to take my rights as a human being and enjoy my sexuality.
YOU’VE GOT IT – FLAUNT IT
He doesn’t give a hoot about cellulite. He loves your fleshy plumpness.
Spread your legs wide and let him learn every nuance of your anatomy.
He’s your lover, your most intimate human connection. Trust that he loves your body.
Flaunt it. Enjoy it. Clad yourself in lingerie and delight him.
“YOU GIVE YOUR BODY SO GENEROUSLY”
My new boyfriend was in a 10 year marriage.
I am his first girlfriend after ten long years of the sex not being great for him.
And the one thing he texted me that really hit home was, “Aww, so sweet you are. I really appreciate how always-ready you are, how horny and imaginative you are, how open and generous with your body you are. And you are super clear, no bull, no drama, no whining, no neediness, just pure, full-on, f#ck-me-you-stud right now fantastic ness.”
It struck me that it’s just that easy.
Men are pretty simple in some ways.
They want to be wanted by us women.
And it’s just so easy to allow them to enjoy our bodies, to open to them.
So when you find yourself holding back, let go.
Prance around in lingerie.
Rub yourself up against your man.
Take a bath or shower with him.
Let him look at you inside and out.
Let him grab big handfuls of fleshy feminine perfection.
Give him the gift of your body.
Email me if you read this and are feeling hemmed in or held back.
Let me know what it is that prevents you from following this advice.
In Susan’s program, Revive Her Drive, there is an entire module on Sexual Sticking Points and another on Overcoming Resistance Issues. This program can help a woman who wants to revive her libido and desire as much as it helps a man lead his woman to her sexual awakening.