Mike, one of my lovely readers, recently reached out to share his and his wife’s struggle with intimacy, specifically a challenge they refer to as “vanishing clit.” Let’s discuss this concern more specifically and I have effective solutions to address their connection and pleasure. I hope you can pick up a thing or two from the insights I’ll be sharing!
“Susan Me and my wife are older and she has what she calls “vanishing clit”. It is increasingly difficult for her to orgasm. How can I help her to orgasm, technique, clit sensitizer, please help.” — Mike
Hi Mike,
“Vanishing clit” is from atrophy. The tissue in her vulva shrinks over time, just as the tissue in your penis does.
Here are the best steps for reversing atrophy of all the erectile tissue systems in her genitals. Because there are three erectile tissue chambers that contribute to pleasure, it’s best to treat them all, not just the clitoral tip. This image shows the entire erectile tissue cluster that surrounds the vagina (the bigger red tube is the vagina).
All of this tissue atrophies. Not just that purple “tip.”
The single best thing she can do is GAINSWave for Her. This is a treatment you go into a practitioner to get. It’s a series of six sessions where they run a wand all over her vulva on the outside. The waves penetrate the tissue and stimulate new tissue growth to reverse the atrophy. It takes about 90 days for the tissue to regrow and to achieve the full effect of the treatments. This also helps with vaginal lubrication, vaginal laxity (where she feels loose and bigger in the vagina), and incontinence. GAINSWave for Her is the single most amazing “sexual regenerative” treatment available on this planet today. And we are lucky because there are practitioners all over the USA but not yet around the world.
GAINSWave for Him will reverse your atrophy, improve your erectile function, reverse any ED you are having as well. So it’s great to get treated at the same time.
Second component to reversing atrophy is hormone replacement therapy. Most GAINSWave practitioners also provide this service. For you, they can check testosterone levels and give you options. Watch this video with Dr. Mohit Khera for the latest on TRT.
For your wife, a combination of estrogen, progesterone and testosterone replacement will work wonders for her long-term health as well as for short term sexual function. An easy way to start immediately is with Glow Below vaginal serum. Start on that to get the tissue rehydrated and work with your doc for the hormone replacement strategy.
I also recommend that you start giving her vaginal massages a couple times a week. Use the Foria oils as they are very clean and don’t have chemicals in them. The Awaken Arousal Oil goes on first — just a few drops. Then use as much Sex Oil as feels good to her for massaging. She can also insert Melts whenever you’re planning to have intercourse. That will improve her lubrication inside her vagina. The CBD is a healing ingredient but there is a CDB-free option as well.
Couple the oil with a Laya iii vulva massager. Your hands are great for massage, but the Laya iii penetrates into the erectile tissue to bring more blood flow in. That blood flow is what heals and plumps that tissue so she can feel more pleasure again. This will also give her some nice orgasms!
And finally, you should both start taking FLOW Nitric Oxide Booster daily and before lovemaking. By the time we’re 50 we have half the nitric oxide production we did in our 20’s. You need NO to get blood to your pelvic bowl so the erectile tissue can fill up with blood. When it’s plump, or engorged, it has more surface area which sends more pleasure signals to the brain so she can feel orgasmic. It works the same for you. A flaccid penis doesn’t feel as good as a hard one. And she has the same amount of erectile tissue in her vulva as you do in your penis. You share the loss of NO. You share the same atrophy. We have the same parts, just one is an “innie” and one is an “outie.”
For you, I also recommend the Whopper penis pump. There is a Lady Pump for the clit and vulva too. But GAINSWave for her is just much more effective and fast. But for your penis, if you’re having hard erections but you want to keep atrophy at bay, the Whopper pump is perfect for you. Pump twice a week when you can and you’ll see that you’ll get even harder after a month or two, even in as few as a couple weeks.
Here are links to everything I mentioned with all my discounts. I try a LOT of things. And this is my current set of best-of-breed sexual regenerative therapies that work synergistically.
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