I’m currently waiting for my girlfriend’s first child to be born. She is having a home birth. And I am helping her have an “ecstatic birth.” No bright hospital lights. No drugs to induce early. No beeping machines. Just friends and family – her “birth posse” to guide her daughter into our waiting arms.
She’s had to have a LOT of resolves to hold to her vision for an ecstatic home birth. So many people are afraid of home birth and want to shame and scare her into the false certainty of hospital labor. But she has a commitment to seeing through her home birth as a pleasurable, sacred experience.
To overcome life’s daily trials, you must turn to your inner strength.
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Sure your family and friends can offer a hand or a shoulder on which to cry if you’re lucky….
However, your final hope and the most substantial bet will always be your resolve.
Your ability to rise against life’s odds and actively seek solutions instead of wallowing in your frustrations means the difference between a life well-lived or a life squandered.
That’s why you should build your fortitude each day with mindful awareness of the bigger picture of your life’s goals.
I appreciate you and am thinking about you today. I’m sitting in my studio recording some new relationship advice for you. My friend and I are making a video series on Ecstatic Birth Massage. I have a new Quiet Vibrator Challenge for those of you who live with others and need quiet tools. And I’ve just recorded a series with a doctor who helps people with HPV heal themselves so they are no longer positive. I
I APPRECIATE YOU!
There’s a growing trend where people are now more insecure, defensive, hot-headed, easily-offended, and quick to judge.
When someone challenges our opinions or values, we feel attacked. Then we reciprocate with the same type of negative energy. And this cycle continues on and on.
I believe it is in part due to a lack of oxytocin. We need certain gut bacteria to generate Oxytocin. Taking antibiotics has ruined this for so many of us. You can take lactobacillus Reuteri and you can hold and hug each other to generate more Oxytocin. The Soulmate Embrace is an Oxytocin-generating hug. Try it.
If you build up your inner strength, self-control, and patience each day, this cycle of negativity can’t take root.
Just as I talk about getting on the upward pleasure spiral instead of letting your sex life spiral down the drain, I also ask you to let go of your judgments, victimhood, anger, and resentment. And begin to live in the present moment and enjoy the gift of life.
When the world hands you a bad day, think about the lessons and realizations you’ve learned during the experience. There are bound to be a few.
Don’t act in anger or frustration when your partner’s opinions or actions trigger you. Instead, find out why. Maybe there was something you overlooked? Maybe there was a miscommunication?
So much drama in the world and our personal lives today occurs because we are quick to react in anger, frustration, hate, and even fear instead of looking to our inner strength to guide us into making the right decisions that benefit everybody involved.
Bring your loving heart to the day.
And starting today, if you haven’t been doing so already, take the time to build up and seek your inner strength before making rash decisions.
I guarantee your life will be much better.
Yes, I’ve been giving my Ecstatic Birth Partner Yoni massages for the last three months. I do to her a lot of what Tim does to me during our Expanded Orgasm dates. And I will hold her and give her pleasure during her birth process. I helped her make her mind-body connection to her genital system and have brought her pleasure as her vulva ripens for birth. It’s the kind of thing women should be doing for their female friends. I live life by my own rules, as does my girlfriend. We are partners in forging this important connection to pleasurable birth.
