This article is in response to a female fan’s question. Still, guys will also benefit significantly from knowing how to lead their lovers to heart-connected, intimate surrender to pleasure and squirting orgasms.
Pressure is the killer of arousal.
And when guys make it their knightly duty to make their lover orgasm (without knowing how to do it the right way), the mood is just ruined.
He gets performance anxiety. She feels she’s not good enough because she can’t orgasm quickly enough. Pfft.
Much like an email from a fan, she talked about how two of her lovers just “gave up” because they didn’t know they had to “seduce” her body to surrender to pleasure and intimacy.
They put too much pressure on themselves to make her gush her feminine waters, almost forcing her to do it, which isn’t possible.
Check out her email and my response below.
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SQUIRT YOUR HEART OUT
“Hi, Susan,
I desperately need help with orgasms and squirting orgasms.
As embarrassing as this is for me and need help. I am a 57-year-old woman. I never had an orgasm until I was in my 30s. And after having four children, I was fortunate enough to have had a wonderful man in my life to be patient and loving.
We tried so many things & positions, but it took several years to figure out what helped me get there. But I still never orgasmed each time we had sex.
Now, I am with a new lover that has a hard time dealing with me not having an orgasm every time we have sex. Up until about three years ago, I had never heard of squirting orgasms and did not know how to have them. My new lover has made me squirt twice, but we were both a little tipsy, so I couldn’t tell him where or what to do, and he tried so hard to make me squirt every time we had sex.
It puts pressure on me to come so that he will be satisfied with his performance. He has left me because he said he feels like he can’t please me, making him feel bad about himself.
Should I go to a doctor, or is there something I can do to condition myself better? Please, I need help. I don’t want to lose this man forever.” — Shiela (not her real name)
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SQUIRTING ORGASMS
Dearest Sheila,
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. You do not need a doctor or need to feel embarrassed. You need the Sexual Soulmate Pact and the Sexual Soulmate Embrace techniques to use with your boyfriend. He needs to stop tying his orgasms to his performance and self-love.
Pressure is the killer of arousal. Relaxation and ease are what you both need more of.
The Soulmate Embrace is a holding technique that allows you two to start more relaxed.
Then he needs to slow down and help you understand what your body needs during that particular lovemaking date because all dates are different. After all, women are different every day.
The Sexual Soulmate Pact is a verbal agreement you use in the bedroom to feel comfortable knowing what your body wants and telling him so he can give you the kind of pleasure you need to have orgasms.
These are free techniques from my book, Sexual Soulmates: the 6 Essentials of Connected Sex.
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You are an orgasmic woman. Don’t you forget that. You can ejaculate when you are relaxed, which is why being tipsy helps. Get my program, Female Liquid Orgasm, and watch it together. Then you will both know what to do so you can have female ejaculatory pleasure with ease.
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Call your boyfriend and tell him you want him to come over and have a few learning sex dates together. That’s what it takes to get good together: practice.
Let me know how it goes. You’ll be fine from here.