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“My boyfriend doesn’t ejaculate from blowjobs…” (Mailbag)

Men love receiving blow jobs.

It’s a skill women should learn to love and get good at. And I often do get emails from female readers asking for my best BJ tips, just like the email from Lisa, whose boyfriend doesn’t seem to want to ejaculate during a blowjob.

She also feels her mouth is too small for his BIG man cannon.

​​Check out her email and my response below. 

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“Hi, Susan!

I like giving BJs to my boyfriend; obviously, he does. 

However, he can’t ejaculate with oral sex alone. He just enjoys it. And when I’m done playing with his penis, we move on to intercourse or other sexual practices. The same goes for handjobs. 

He doesn’t want to ejaculate during foreplay because he may get tired and not have the energy to make love after. 

As for me, I like oral sex, and I generally know how to give it, but I think my mouth might be too small. When I try to get him deeper inside my mouth, he bumps and scratches my back teeth, hurting him no matter how open I keep it. 

So, we end up keeping it nice and shallow. Our sex life is excellent, but I want to take it to the next level.

So, 1. How do I make him cum with oral sex? 

And 2. Is it possible for every woman to deepthroat every man?

If you need more details, you can ask me anything. I just wanted to keep it short and sweet for now.”

— Lisa (not her real name)

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Hi Lisa,

Great to hear from you. Do a lot of tongue kissing before you take him into your mouth. Also, have him play with your breasts and nipples. Have him go down on you first to open your Yoni, which opens your throat and relaxes your mouth.

The more turned on you are, the more your mouth will open.

Relax more as you go down on him, and take your time. Do what is pleasurable for YOU, not try to make him come. Get yourself off on his penis rather than thinking you’re giving him a blow job. 

You’ll find that the more you relax and get turned on, the more turned on he will get.

Use your hands and mouth—he might like it when you tickle his balls. Moaning also will get you both more aroused. 

For more of the best blowjob techniques and sex positions you could ever find, check out the Blow Job Secret by our very own Sloane Fox. 

This link will get it for you for $9.95 instead of $27. I promise the information in these short ebooks will give you so many amazing ideas for pleasure!

You could also try putting a

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like the PleX or a gloved hand with one finger and lube up inside him while going down on him. That should take him over the edge!

You can slowly turn up the vibe while you’re suckling him. I love imagining you being in control while he loses his mind.

THE PLEX

If he wants to save his ejaculate for penetration, that seems fine. Keep yourself goal free and just enjoy. He doesn’t need to ejaculate. He wants to save it from coming inside you. Whether he comes or not has no bearing on how much he loves you fellating him. Honor his boundaries and make it about him, while equally getting yourself off.

You two sound like a great match!

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