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The Seduction Secret to get her wanting frequent sex. (Mailbag)

Some time ago, a reader emailed me that he was having trouble with his sex life because he feels something’s “blocking” his wife from surrendering to pleasure and erotic bliss.

Remember, if something isn’t as great as you want it to be, there’s always a way to improve it.

And you also shouldn’t expect things to get better out of the blue.

I always tell people that having a successful relationship and sex life is something you must constantly work on together with your partner.

It is not a packaged product you can get from the grocery store. 

It’s a project.

Here’s what he said and my reply below.

Click Here To Watch The Seduction Presentation ⇐ She Wants You to Make The Offers That Fit Her Perfectly So She Can Surrender to Her Passion and You


This information applies to EVERYONE: single, married, and anyone across the gender spectrum.

“Dear Suz, After my wife had our first, she started having hot flashes. Then a few months later, she started having anxiety issues. I just wonder if something happened to her when she was young. She’s been taking Lexapro now for a while. She also might be holding on to something inside she doesn’t want to talk about. Maybe something that happened during her childhood?

I just wish she would look at me and say, “you need a piece of ass.” That’s all. And fuck my brains out.” — Jeff (not his real name)


Hormonal stability affects anxiety.

Some doctors are freaking idiots because they medicate with anti-anxiety drugs without knowing about endocrinology.

Cortisol IS a hormone too. And if you have too much or too little, it can create anxiety.

Go to an endocrinologist or a functional medicine doctor who knows hormones and has your hormones, including cortisol levels, checked. You will have to pee for 24 hours into a bucket and send them test strips of your pee. It’s easy.

Watch This Video About Best Hormone Tests

Ask her about her childhood too. See what happened. Was she abused? Shamed? So many of us were…

Get to the bottom of it and help her solve her anxiety.

You’re a good man.

Also, teach her how to be that piece of ass you’re looking for and help her want to make love to you the way you want. Bring her out. Seduce her toward pleasure. Be her guiding sexual light. Bring her to her sexual potential.

Check out our Seduction Trilogy program. It shows you how to bring your partner (of any gender persuasion) toward their sexual potential.

It includes the Four Keys to Seduction, an INCREDIBLE model you can use in your love life, work-life, family life, anywhere you need to move other humans toward more joy, pleasure, and connection.

There’s a section on sexually training your partner with integrity and a whole loving heart.

Click Here To Watch The Seduction Presentation ⇐ She Wants You to Make The Offers That Fit Her Perfectly So She Can Surrender to Her Passion and You

It will show you what to do.

And you can always ask me questions.

It’s a worthy endeavor. Fun. And will turn your partner into a whole new happy human.

I wish they had taught us this in school! But at least we do. Dr. Patti’s Seduction Trilogy is TRULY life-changing.

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