I was combing through our sex life satisfaction research this week. Nearly 14,000 people have taken this survey over the last eight years. I was comparing what women want versus what men want and how they express their desires.
I like to teach you these passion techniques and bedroom communication skills. And I also like to “decipher” the opposite sex for you.
What I noticed is that there are two kinds of respondents. The ones who are unhappy and are drawn to our advice because they want their relationships to be better. And the others who are enjoying their relationships and want to take it up to the next level.
Both are improvement mindsets.
Which mindset best fits you?
If you think about it, most people just either suffer in silence, squander their intimate lives, or give up. But you, you are different. You are more rare, special and precious than you know. Because you are one of the few who —whether your relationship is great and you want to pour fuel on your fires of desire or you’re dissatisfied and willing to work to make things better —you are doing something proactive about having a better intimate life.
That is why your best days of passion can be ahead of you.
Even though the world is more complex than ever, your experience deepens as you mature.
Each moment you spend in another’s arms adds to your treasure trove of wisdom.
If it’s bad now, your intimate life can get better.
If your intimate life is great now, it can become spectacular.
Even if your body is aging, your emotional intelligence is growing, your heart is opening and your love is expanding… if you allow it.
And as you mature you become more soulful. You slow down and connect more deeply. You become a more masterful lover. A more responsive partner.
(That’s why women say, “Tantric Lovemaking” would have the MOST impact on their intimate life. Because “tantric” signifies slow, emotionally connected, sensual lovemaking.)
Plus there are incredible regenerative technologies that are reversing aging in our physical bodies.
And you have Dr. Patti, Tallulah, Jim, Sloane and I to keep feeding you delicious morsels of relationship advice to amplify your prowess.
So dig into the feast we’ve cooked up for you.
More delectable advice from your trusted hot sex advisor and her team of experts.
Thanks to all of you who have been sending messages asking for my lovemaking and relationship advice. I am humbled by your trust in me and I do my best to get back to everyone in a timely manner.