Breaking your own emotional and relationship boundaries.
Ask me the #1 most important thing for having long-lasting, REAL relationships, and my answer will surprise you.
It wouldn’t be anything freaky.
And it wouldn’t even be “good communication.” Or a bedroom skill.
It’s “relationship boundaries.” Understanding what is OK and what is off limits at the moment and generally with a partner.
Once you know where the agreed-upon limits are, it gives you the freedom to take your relationship right up to the edges of those limits.
This creates the perfect combination of security and variety — safe danger. The toggling between safety and novelty makes for the hottest passion.
Intimacy begins in relaxation: polarity — the tension between the masculine and feminine.
Stimulating and then waiting for a beat for the body to surge toward wanting more stimulation. (We call this “peaking.)
Boundaries are the bedrock of rocking the bedroom.
But they also keep you in chains… which stalls your relationship’s growth… if you aren’t regularly breaking your limitations.
While you don’t want your partner to break your boundaries because trust is lost, you want to bust through YOUR limitations.
The ones you put on yourself that hold you back from growing…
Pride. Anger. Jealousy. Past hurt and trauma. Pessimism. Anything.
By pushing yourself to pursue that slightly edgy thing that helps you grow as a loving partner, your life becomes more exciting and rewarding.
Getting out of your comfort zone by trying something new that suddenly piqued your interest…
Maybe something you NEVER thought you’d do, but now you might…
This is what gets you to the next level of passion.
Breaking your limitations is exciting!