How to Give a Better Blowjob: 5 Essential Tips for Women

BJs.

Yes, those incredible pleasure bombs men LOVE.

And women need to figure out HOW to give.

Now, here’s the thing about BJs.

For a man, it’s like winning the jackpot. A guy’s pleasure when his woman takes him in her mouth is beyond words.

Yet, women who want to give this eyeball-rolling pleasure are often either hesitant that it will take too long, fearful their mouth will get sore or don’t like swallowing.

Fair enough! But I have a solution.

Read this email from Billie Jean (not their real name):

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“I wish you had some oral pleasure tips for me. I am new at satisfying my male dates. I want to do some exciting things. If you have any tips, please send them my way. When I started a couple of years ago, I was nervous and afraid to swallow, but after accidentally tasting my date’s love juices – I just couldn’t stop. Now I need a few tips.” — Billie Jean.

Hi Billie,

After you’ve gotten yourself and your man comfortable so you can both relax and have a fun blow job, try this:

The first thing is to ask your guy to show you how he masturbates.

That will give you a “go-to” move you can use if you feel his arousal flagging.

Use your mouth, tongue, lips, fingers, and hands. Give it all you got, girl.

Watch this Blow Job Series on my BetterLover Channel, where I answer fans’ fellatio questions.

Third, use a lot of variety.

Do three or four of a lick, suck, or stroke, and then move to a new sensation—for example, alternate between long shaft strokes and licking the top. Tickle your man’s balls and put pressure on the perineum. Focus a lot of attention on the buried shaft, not just the external shaft and glans (head).

That will make his penis even more erect and feel even better.

Fourth, get as much spit going as possible so it’s slippery.

If your mouth gets dry, rub the tip of his penis between your teeth and gums in circles with your teeth closed. You can even stick his penis in each side of your cheek with your teeth closed. All that gets the juices magically flowing.

Fifth, do what turns YOU on.

Over time you can become quite comfortable with deep-throating. As you do that, you will have orgasms in your mouth. Then your saliva will get more like pre-cum.

As you slide his penis in and out of your throat, the slippery, clear fluid becomes more white, like ejaculate. These are all signals that you are enjoying yourself and getting off on the pleasure of pleasuring him.

If a ton of fluid comes out of my mouth, it can get cold and clammy. That is why I keep a dry towel nearby to tidy up as I go. Take breaks as needed. Enjoy yourself. Occasionally stop and stroke your man, and tell him how much you love his penis.

Cock Appreciation is a real turn-on. As are moaning and slurpy sounds. Men LOVE slurpy appreciation!

Watch this new video where I model “Cock Appreciation” or “Lingam Loving” with the adorable TJ Anderson.

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Also, Sloane wrote four influential little books on blow jobs for men. They teach guys how we women LOVE to give oral pleasure or help a woman get comfortable enough to find her turn-on in fellatio land.

DEEP-THROATING IS AN ACQUIRED SKILL

The Blow Job Secret is the main book. But don’t miss the Deep Throating book.

When you learn that, you can move on to Irrumatio. It’s when you are still, and your partner slides their penis in and out of your mouth. A woman who enjoys surrender and trust in their partner gets into this!

Once you like to have a penis deep in your throat, you can graduate to Irrumatio. That is the ultimate pleasure!

For you, 69 is a double pleasure if you like that! Such fun! #jealous Hehe.

Let me know if you have any other questions. I’m here for you.

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