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The Intimacy Secret: Transformative Exercises for Creating Deep Connections

how to create intimacy

You and your lover are intertwined and interconnected, not just physically but also emotionally and intimately. You’re so caught up in each other’s dance that you don’t know where you end and they begin. Your bodies, breaths, hearts, and flow are one. You now genuinely are sensual soulmates.

Here are four free “embodied” sensual skills that turn your mate into your sexual soulmate, even if you’ve just met.

Taken from my Amazon International #1 best-selling book, Sexual Soulmates: The 6 Essentials To Connected Sex.

Embodied means “from your body” and not your mind—this is the root of sensual intimacy.

And, pay attention to this:

MAKE LOVE LIKE SEXUAL SOULMATES (sexual intimacy exercises for couples)

Embodied sex uses your body to increase intimacy. Some “ground rules” will ensure success using these skills to make for the most passionate pleasure ever.

First, you should understand the concept of “presence.” Being present means your attention is on the sensations and emotions between you. Bring yourselves out of performance mode and into co-creative pleasure and connection.

Try to be 100% present with your partner during lovemaking instead of “strategizing” when you’re together. Presence is a practice.

Secondly, ensure each other’s safety and create a comforting yet exciting “loverspace.” Ensure you both feel safe to be completely uninterrupted, and the mood is conducive to lovemaking.

Next, lay the groundwork for surrender by using feedback loops. I call this the Sexual Soulmate Pact. Have an agreement and make it easy to give each other feedback by acknowledging you both desire different things each time you make love. 

Start moving towards pleasure by running small, seductive menus for each other. Would you like to kiss or have a sensual massage? Would you like me to rub your feet or kiss you?

Keep offering hugs, touch, and sensual pleasures that escalate as your arousal climbs.

Now that you have a solid foundation for bliss:

  • Presence
  • Loverspace
  • Feedback 
  • Sensual Menus

You can integrate the embodied sex techniques below.



Your eyes are the windows to your soul. 

I’m not suggesting you sit on meditation pillows and practice eye-gazing, although that’s a direct way to jack into each other’s limbic brain. That’s a bit much for most people, especially if one of you is eye-shy. Start by looking at each other across the dinner table. Be present and truly LOOK at your partner. See them. Be seen.

Next, start playing with eye contact during lovemaking. Look into each other’s eyes while kissing or pleasuring each other. Another perfect time to lock eyes is at the moment of climax. The wondrous, soulful connection in the shared appreciation of your partner in pleasure is indescribable.


Stroke your partner’s face. Their eyelids. Their lips. The back of their neck. 

Trace your fingers down their spine. Tiptoe your hands all over their bodies.

Let the movement between the two of you flow as if you are one being.

Hold each other’s hands and give each other melting hugs. Tickle and tease each other, and give each other sensual god and goddess massages.


Knowing how to slow down and synchronize your heart rates expands your limbic bond. It also goes a long way toward reducing stress levels every day. 

In the same way, you can synchronize your heart rates and coordinate your breathing. A tantric practice known as circular breathing is beneficial for strengthening the bond between sexual soulmates. This is what I talked about in my last email to you. 

In addition to the stress-reduction effects, breathing together has a powerful impact on your arousal. The more deeply you breathe into your genitals, the more fire you’ll feel.


I’ve found that being calmed first allows me to tap into the fire of desire. That is true for about half of us. Some people need to be aroused straight away. 

Others need to calm down before being aroused. And sometimes, we switch. This is why reporting in from your animal and letting your lover know what you need each moment is vital.


As you learn new bedroom skills, your sex life improves. Though I may have only been introduced to you recently, I’ve been a trusted hot sex advisor to millions of people worldwide for over a decade.

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