Recently I wrote to you about the 30 Day Sex Challenge my niece and some of her girlfriends in the Chicago area are doing with their husbands to keep the passion alive.
I suggested that they integrate the 21 Erotic Sandbox Date ideas into their plan so that by the end of their challenge, they have a new skill that allows their husband to give them 15-30 minute orgasms!
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What You Can Expect in Each Week of the Expand Her Orgasm Tonight Program
Suggested Structure: Week 1 (Cycle 1)
In Week 1, we’ll be focusing on our bodies, in giving and receiving attention.
I will share lots of information in our first week together. You’ll be using this information throughout the entire program, so it may seem like there is a lot to learn all of once. In a way this is true.
Just like learning how to drive a car, at first you have to learn a lot all at the same time: about the brakes, steering, road signs, pedestrians, other cars, ignition and so on, and that’s just before you even pull out of the driveway! But you do need to learn all of this just to get started.
Fortunately, what you learn is additive. What you learn on Day 1, you carry with you into Day 2, and what you learn on days 1 and 2, you carry into Day 3.
People tend to rush things along too much. That should not be the goal here; rather the goal should be pleasure (remember Rule #1?). In this course, part of the fun is learning that Expanded Orgasm is a path and a journey as well as an outcome.
The true master will enjoy each step (including those wobbly first ones) along the path of learning. I encourage you to do just this with your practice in Expanded Orgasm. A solid foundation sets the stage for a great outcome.
The solid foundation you will build for creating Expanded Orgasms will last you a lifetime. The time you invest in developing a strong foundation will pay you back many times over sensually and sexually, and in intimacy as well.
So in some ways it’s true that Week 1 is a busy week. Please plan to dedicate yourselves to this program to get the most out of it, understanding you are forming a very solid base for what is to come.
In each week, Day 7 is a mostly freeform day. We structure it that way, so that you are free to focus on those things you want to work on, or play with. Mostly on this day, we want you to have fun, and in doing so, you will find yourself enjoyably weaving together the many lovely strands and themes from the week. Nevertheless we’ll give you a bit of a framework if you’d like to use that.
Week 2 (Cycle 2)
In Week 2, you will build an excellent foundation from which to begin to learn at a higher level of awareness. Expanded Orgasm is not just physical technique. You must add in your awareness as well as your energy. Your awareness is an overlay to everything you’ve learned in Week 1, which is why it’s so important that you bring your skills from Week 1 into Week 2.
You will learn and practice using all your senses to develop an awareness of the date’s energy and intensity, manage that intensity, map out changes that your partner is traversing, and guide you both on a hot passionate journey.
As with Week 1, the seventh day ends the week with it special attention on the heart. When you are connecting lovingly and playfully, you intuitively and instinctively create exactly the date that’s most wonderful for you. The two of you will become each other’s teachers, a powerful experience in itself.
Week 3 (Cycle 3)
In Week 3, our focus rounds another turn. A strong foundation, and an awareness of the energetic forces of skill, feeling, and noticing, enables you to go on an Expanded Orgasmic ride. Now it’s time to learn how to engage the mind, intention, and finesse so that you can expand your ability to give and receive a full-body, full-being experience.
In Week 3, you will continue to practice your physical and awareness-type skills. And, you are going to add in your intention and the power of your mind, as you practice Expanded Orgasm with your partner.
For our purposes, the mind gives two very powerful and useful abilities: the ability to make distinctions and the ability to utilize imagination. These two abilities are somewhat interwoven, although we may separate them out a bit for training purposes.
As you engage your mind ever more fully (as both giver and receiver), you will discover new methods to fine-tune the precision with which you can give and receive Expanded Orgasms. Thus you begin to open the doorway to the higher reaches of mastery.
Precision, finesse, and intention allow you as giver to know just what to do, when to do it, and how to be in each moment. These same qualities allow you as receiver to know how to receive pleasurable energy and to smoothly manage the intensifying energy “current.”
You will discover how to take in ever more pleasurable sensation, while simultaneously giving your partner clear and useful guidance (when desired). This “guidance” is expressed in the form of feedback -visually, using sound, or by the way you feel to your partner kinesthetically.
As this program progresses, you’ll learn intuitively (though guided experience) how to coordinate your brain waves into resonance with your heart, your energy, and your physical presence. It’s my intention that you experience just how full-body and full-being you can be as you create and explore Expanded Orgasms.
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