Here’s a note from Harry that he said I could share with you. Many men experience this same confusion. Perhaps you have had the same concerns about your partner?
“Your blogs and emails have been nothing short of amazing. Your newsletter is a blessing for relationships everywhere! As a result our lovemaking has been over the top. We now find ourselves not only wanting more lovemaking but actually having more. Believe me my wife’s sexual desires are much stronger now and she is in her mid 50′s. I want more and she wants more.”
— Tom
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Susan,
I’m trying to share what I’m learning from you with my wife (gradually) about sexual anatomy, arousal, erectile tissue and engorgement. I asked her if she has ever felt the physical sensation that comes from “engorgement” when we have sex (I describe what it is and how it feels to me when I have an erection).
She says she doesn’t know. She cannot distinguish the physical feeling (which I would call the feeling of being “horny”) from her emotional desire for intimacy.
I’m sure she gets engorged (is it possible that she doesn’t?) but just doesn’t recognize that feeling (that’s so hard for me to imagine!)
Does it feel the same to a woman as it does to a man?
Why do you think she doesn’t feel this, or doesn’t recognize the feeling?
How can I help her to recognize it so I can better gauge what feels good to her and what doesn’t?
It seems like nothing I do (and at least some of what I do should be working…I really think I’m doing it right) gives her that physical turn-on that comes with engorgement.
Do you think I’m moving too fast for her?
Have you any advice?
Thank you so much.
Harry
The great majority of men, even if you include sexual men who have a lot of experience and numerous lovers, never gets beyond very simple sexual technique. Most men, probably 99% of ALL men on the planet, never acquire the skills to have an Expanded Orgasm practice with a woman, learn how to give her ejaculatory orgasms, or even learn to properly escalate her arousal over a long enough period of time for her to get engorged.
If you are reading this you are in the upper echelon of men who put their attention on being particularly excellent in lovemaking.
And it takes a special woman to want to explore her sexuality with a lover. Harry, your wife is slowly blossoming in front of your eyes. I’m thrilled for you and I know from our past correspondence, that you have been study how to open her.
Click here to read my advice about this question:
“It seems like nothing I do (and at least some of what I do should be working… I really think I’m doing it right) gives her that physical turn-on that comes with engorgement.”
Susan, when I read this my eyes clouded up with tears of joy, feeling like you were talking to me, one-on-one. Thank you, a thousand times! Beyond all I’m learning from you, your support is priceless. I can’t thank you enough.Love,Harry
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I have met several women in my life who I would call horney. One was in school with me and she always wanted my hands on her. She really enjoyed being felt up regardless of where we were. Another I met when I was in the Armed Forces in Europe. She was without a doubt the horniest I ever met. She enjoyed allowing men to undress her and fondle her. She came from a marvelous family and I’m sure her parents were very distraut with her Another woman wanted to ride to Paris with the hockey team. She was allowed,and, on the way to Paris she had sexual intercourse with every man. I cannot tell you what motivated these females but I’m quite sure if they ever got married that their husband should be on the lookout for extra marital affairs. I know that if sex doesn’t happen often enough for a normql wife that she will look for it elsewhere. I will quote the bible only once. Jesus said,”any man who divorces his wife , causes her to commit adultery” I expect that Jesus knew that women had some sort of sexual need which had to be implemented.If anyone can explain the information I gave please write it down and explain it.
George