Some lovers miss out on a simple tool that could multiply your intimacy and passion by leaps and bounds. The simple tool I’m talking about is the “Feedback Loop.”
Many couples don’t know how to give (and receive) feedback in a constructive loverspace. (Loverspace is a special place where you are intimate.)
How much fun, intimacy, and passion would you and your lover have if you regularly received feedback and welcomed it?
You would be amazed if you thought about it.
FEEDBACK LOOP IS A WONDERFUL GIFT
It can be positive or negative. It can be about your relationship, intimacy, finances, communication… anything.
The feedback isn’t as important as being honest, open, vulnerable, and positive.
Think about it.
We can’t develop love skills without practice. And we don’t get training because we don’t know how to give each other feedback.
We don’t know if we’re doing the right things… or NOT doing anything right at all.
Is your communication good?
Is your intimacy exquisite?
Is the passion still as fiery as before?
Are your thoughts, opinions, and requests heard?
Is your input respected?
YOUR FEEDBACK LOOP
Here’s an easy way to get practice giving and receiving feedback.
Have fun giving each other massages and making requests during the massage.
Tell your partner how to do it just how you want it.
Then have them do you, and give them feedback this time around.
And in the future, you can move on to things like how your partner looks, eats, sleeps, listens to you, and shows you how much they love you.
The more open and welcome your feedback loop is, the better your relationship will be.
These are just a few simple ways to incorporate healthy feedback into your relationship.
Another way is to receive advice and feedback from other people.
People like older, more experienced couples. Close friends who you can trust.
Even experts like Susan Bratton, Tallulah Sulis, Sloane Fox, and myself.
You can send us an email anytime or leave a comment, and we’ll help you as much as we possibly can with our experience, expertise, and advice.
