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How To Bounce Back From Heartbreak

Sometimes we already know what’s good for us. Learn about creating and maintaining magical relationships.

We know what we should do and how we should feel.

Yet, it takes someone to SAY it to us to start believing we were right all along.

Just like how one reader felt about her ex-boyfriend…

However, before we go into her email, I’d like to point out something important. 

Most fights, breakups, heartaches, and divorces are because lovers mistakenly follow the “Golden Rule” of relationships. 

“Do unto others what you’d have others do unto you.” 

I believe that ideology causes rifts in relationships, and I talk more about it on the Relationship Magic website.

Now, let’s go back to an email a reader sent us.

Here’s what she wrote: 

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“THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU! You gorgeous, beautiful gals!

How did you know those were just the words I needed to hear?

I haven’t been with a guy or even wanted to be with one since my ex-boyfriend ripped out not only my heart but also my soul, mind, and bank account to shreds about a year and a half ago.

And I feel so stupid because I’m still in love with the idiot.

I’ve tried everything to get over him. The pain and stress were so bad I had a stroke.

Thank god for toys, right!

But still, I needed to hear that. I will go out on Friday and email you Sunday (cause I might still be busy Saturday, wink, wink) to let you know how my weekend went.

I save every one of your emails for when that right guy comes along, and we can start using them. You chicks are my heroines!

Love Ya! Stay Cool! xoxo

Clarisse (not her real name).”



Hi Clarisse,

It sounds like you had a nervous breakdown from being upset. 

That is very common. I have had a few of these rough times in my life, as has everyone.

And you can bounce back better than ever, having learned from your experience.

You must eat very well (lots of organic leafy greens) and eat a lot of quality fats such as avocado, nuts, and seeds, as well as MCT oil.

And of course, you should rest.

Lots of rest, meditation, yoga, walks in nature and swimming in oceans or lakes. You have to rejuvenate your nervous system.

Then, figure out your relationship values.

Use my Relationship Magic workbook to do the exercise and determine the four things that are most important to you in a relationship.

Having come through a bad one where you loved someone who wasn’t good for you is the best time to think about what you loved and hated about the relationship and why. 

This will help you determine your four “must-haves” so that when you meet prospective partners, you will be able to determine if they are healthy for you or not.

Here’s a discount link.

Relationship Magic ⇐ How The Golden Rule Has Been Ruining Relationships (And What To Do Instead)

And when you’ve done it, let me know your Top Four Relationship Values.

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