“My ex-boyfriend ripped out my heart and soul, mind, and bank account to shreds. The pain was so bad I had a stroke.”
Sometimes we already know what’s good for us.
We know what we should do and how we should feel.
Yet, it takes someone to SAY it to us to believe we were right all along.
Just like how one of my fans felt about her ex-boyfriend. (Story below.)
However, before we go into her email, I’d like to point out something important.
Most fights, breakups, heartaches, and divorces are because lovers mistakenly follow the “Golden Rule” of relationships.
“Do unto others what you’d have others do unto you.”
But I believe that ideology causes rifts in relationships in the first place. I will talk more about it on the Relationship Magic website.
Now, let’s go back to the email a reader sent over.
Here’s what she wrote:
Relationship Magic ⇐ How The Golden Rule Has Been Ruining Relationships (And What To Do Instead).
FOR SINGLES AND COUPLES ALIKE
“THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU! You gorgeous, wonderful gals!
How did you know those were just the words I needed to hear?
I haven’t been with a guy or even wanted to be with one since my ex-boyfriend ripped my heart, soul, mind, and bank account to shreds about a year ago.
And I feel so stupid because I’m still in love with the idiot.
I’ve tried everything to get over him. The pain and stress were so bad I had a stroke.
Thank god for toys, right!!
But still, I needed to hear your words of encouragement. I’m going to go out on Friday and email you on Sunday (cause I might still be busy on Saturday, wink, wink) to let you know how my weekend went.
I save every one of your emails for when that right guy comes along, and we can start using them. You chicks are my heroines!
Love Ya! Stay Cool! Xoxo
Clarisse (not her real name)”
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Hi Clarisse,
It sounds like you had a nervous breakdown from the upset.
That is very common. I have had a few rough times, as has everyone.
And you can bounce back better than ever, having learned from your experience.
You must eat very well (lots of organic leafy greens) and eat a lot of quality fats such as avocado, nuts, and seeds, as well as Brain Octane Oil.
And, of course, you should rest.
Lots of rest, meditation, yoga, and walks in nature. You have to rejuvenate your nervous system.
All that disappointment dumps a bunch of cortisol and serotonin, and your adrenal system needs time to heal and stabilize.
While you’re recovering, take time to figure out your relationship values.
Use my Relationship Magic workbook to do the exercise and determine the four most important things in your relationship.
Having come through a bad one where you loved someone who wasn’t good for you is the best time to think about what you loved and hated about the relationship and why.
This will help you determine your four “must haves” so that when you meet prospective partners, you can decide whether or not they are healthy for you.
Here’s a discount link as thanks for being a fan!
Relationship Magic ⇐ How The Golden Rule Has Been Ruining Relationships (And What To Do Instead)
And when you’ve done it, let me know your Top Four Relationship Values.
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