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Feminine Sacred Sexuality: Shakti Queen

Feminine Sacred Sexuality: Shakti Queen

 

Watch The Video ⇒ Shakti Queen: Sacred Female Sexuality

We’re discussing Amara’s training program, the Shakti Queen, and what the Shakti Queen does to nourish her relationship with her partner. When we say man, we mean the masculine, and when we say woman, we mean the feminine, wherever you are across the gender spectrum. It’s easier for us to get our point across by keeping it simple.

How does a Shakti Queen show up as the feminine to her masculine partner and how does she nourish him?

 

With a partner on the masculine spectrum, the tendency is for women to lean in too heavily into their masculine. We start taking over the show and crowding out the men in our lives, which means we have risen and become so independent and strong, that we’ve had to take care of business.

Eventually, it becomes uninteresting and exhausting and we long for something else. When a woman reaches the point where she wants more masculine energy in her life, it’s exciting because she’s reached a limit where she doesn’t want to come across as not needing a man. We’re not weak. We can handle it. Men feel this. They want to be wanted on a deep and instinctual level. They want to be genuinely needed, desired and hauled toward.

A Shakti Queen realizes that she needs men at a very deep level. So, there is sadness, disappointment and frustration when we inadvertently and unconsciously crowd out the men in our lives. As they begin to separate, they begin to look for other sources of feminine energy.

I call this a great period of the softening. We must soften ourselves and become far more receptive. When we become receptive to good masculine supportive energy, it is fantastic!

Watch The Video ⇒ Shakti Queen: Sacred Female Sexuality

Here’s a story regarding the topic. I was working with a woman who was a big account executive a while ago in New Zealand. She really was the one taking care of business. Her husband was a chef and a musician – very sensitive, very artistic, and their sexual life was flat. So, I gave them an assignment because I could see that she made every single decision. She decided where they would live. She said how much money they were going to make. I could tell by the way they interacted that she was really in charge. He was an intelligent, brilliant man. They had a country cottage in New Zealand where they were going to spend three days. I told her not to make a single decision for those three days. Let him make all the decisions. I took the steering wheel out of her hands and gave it to him. I told her that she could only express her feelings. This activates the male response of “I’m looking for an opening, I can see that I am needed in some way when we express our feelings.”

Her response was absolutely hysterical. It was very cold one night and normally she would tell him to turn on the heater or get her a blanket. She said “I’m cold” and then she had to really restrain herself from telling him what to do. Because that’s what we tend to do. We tell them what to do all the time, and then half the time we criticize for them for what they did. So, this gentleman went outside and starts chopping wood.

Meanwhile she’s sitting on the couch and not moving because she didn’t want to run the show. So he comes in like a peacock with the wood he chopped for her.

Watch The Video ⇒ Shakti Queen: Sacred Female Sexuality

The secret is we give men the space to do it their way. They’re problem solvers. They want to fix everything anyway. They may not solve it how we would like them to and we have to relinquish that. Give them the space to be creative and let them do it their way and then praise them.

Make your man do it and make them win. Guys need to feel like they’re winning. They need to be respected. If you tell them what to do, you don’t respect them.

I like the distinction of saying how you’re feeling and not what you need done. It also works between two women and two friends as well, because we can become over-masculine all over the full spectrum.

When we begin practicing being vulnerable and expressing how we feel, we leave a space for the universe to resolve it.

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