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How To Make Her Sex Drive Alive Again

How To Make Her Sex Drive Alive Again

When the husband tries to “be nice” and not push her. And then they fall out of the habit of sex, never to re-establish it.

Men write to me alllllll the time asking how they can bring back the spiciness in the bedroom.

They can’t quite get their lovers to “get it on” with them anymore.

They’re no longer making love as often as they used to.

If you’re in this situation, and you feel like you’re stuck in a rut… don’t worry.

It’s not your fault. However, there IS something you can do about it.

Just like Ron, who emailed me about how his sex life’s been so dry lately after he and his wife had kids.

Scroll down below for his email and my response…

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“Hi Susan,

Do you have a program in mind that could help me and my wife reconnect on a sexual level or help my wife regain her sexual confidence?

It’s been really hard since the birth of our first child, as my wife is feeling really down since she gained about 20 extra pounds— and has been struggling with her weight/body image her entire life.

Any advice would be appreciated, these days. I feel a bit lost about what I can do make her feel desirable again.” — Ron

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Hi Ron,

I’m really glad you want to try to revive your wife’s sex drive.

It’s so crazy that men have testosterone which drives them to want sex. And women have estrogen which makes them worry about stuff like an extra 20 pounds. And Madison Avenue showing us airbrushed perfection we can never attain. Then kids sucking our energy dry. And add to that the fact that we are told, “good girls don’t” and all that societal and religious repression.

Generally humans span the bell curve in their sexual desire. There are a lot of women who are hornier than their husbands. But one of the most common scenarios is that the wife’s drive diminishes after she turns her attention to the children.

SEXUAL DESIRE BELL CURVE

And the husband tries to “be nice” and not push her. And then they fall out of the habit of sex, never to re-establish it.

For many women, MANY WOMEN, the sex is just not that good anyway. And they appreciate the excuse of being too tired for sex or looking too fat.

That’s because intercourse is only a part of why women want sex. And the husband gets a little pissed at her lack of sex. So he stops romancing her. He withdraws emotionally. He focuses on work instead of being exciting to her. And he only touches her for sex. Or she stops touching him so he won’t want sex.

It’s hard for guys to believe women don’t want sex. Because it feels SO GOOD to them. And it’s hard for a guy to hear that he’s not good enough in bed to have her wanting him. But if he was, she would be asking for sex even if she was tired. She’d find a way to manage the schedule to get laid.

So the chasm widens.

And twenty years later when the last kid goes off into the world, she divorces him because he’s not emotionally there for her. And he’s like a deer in the headlights. He never saw it coming. He was being patient with her. And then she leaves him.

The good news is that you’re catching this in time and you can prevent all of this from happening.

There are FOUR STEPS to getting her to want you for sex again.

First you must go back to romancing her. She needs to remember why she wanted to have sex with you in the first place.

And you can’t just go through the motions. You have to show up and be fun and interesting and put your full attention on her. (even if you’re pissed)

Here is a downloadable ebook (gift) called, “30 Romance Tricks That Work Like Magic (To Get You Laid)”

Don’t overthink it. Just do these things in any order any time. Set an intention to just frigging DO IT. No excuses. Figure it out.

Number two. Remind her body she likes to be touched. There are different kinds of touch. You can’t just touch her for sex. She needs stroking. Kissing. Holding. Hugging. Ass grabs. Eyelid kisses.

You are essentially petting her animal body without trying to have it escalate to sex. You’re earning her trust.

If every time you touch her you’re trying to get sex, she will become elusive and you’ll end up sleeping in another room or a kid will end up in your marriage bed wedged between you two.

The third step is re-establishing the masculine:feminine balance in the bedroom. When she controls all the sex… When you two are platonically running the family and your lives together… And especially if she makes more money or manages the money in your relationship… you’ve lost your masculine edge.

She’s not interested in fucking her friend. She wants a MAN to ravish her.

When you’re afraid to even ask for sex, it’s hard to ravish her.

So I teach you HOW to become that man again in the bedroom and not let her become the alpha male that shuts you down.

I have all these steps with all the examples of what to do outlined in my program, Revive Her Drive.

Most guys who go through this program say that they thought they were buying it to “fix” their wife. When in hindsight they actually realized they had to regrow their balls. And that was what made the major difference in getting back to having hot sex again.

Trust me. Nobody but me teaches this stuff. So don’t feel like other guys know this and you missed the memo. It took me YEARS to figure this out and make a program that men could follow while customizing for their relationship and their wife’s personality.

The success stories guys send me are heartwarming. They are SO happy when they see a breakthrough.

But don’t share that you are going through this program with your wife. You have to hold the masculine frame. She doesn’t need to know you are learning how to be the man she desires.

And there will be setbacks. Old habits die hard… for both of you.

So #1 is becoming romantic together again. #2 is reawakening her sensual side. #3 is taking masculine control in a way she LOVES and doesn’t resist.

And #4 is learning how a woman’s body works so you can play her like a violin… no, like a symphony.

There is a lot of sexual stimulation information you can add to your knowledge to show her her orgasmic potential. At this point, she might think she’s doing great having one orgasm.

What she doesn’t know yet is that you can give her 30 orgasms in a single sex date. That she can come from clitoral stimulation, G-Spot, P-Spot, vaginal intercourse, anal sex, breast massages, kissing, going down on you, having you go down on her… even from a foot massage!

So your job, should you choose to accept it, is to slowly unfold for her what she is capable of sexually.

This is half masculine sexual leadership and half sexual education on your part that you teach to her.

I have many other programs you can go through to learn how to stroke her clitoris into half hour orgasms, how to give her female ejaculatory orgasms, how to give and receive incredible oral sex… There is SO MUCH FUN in being a couple that has Erotic Playdates to learn together.

“Couples that play together, stay together… especially in the bedroom.”

Boom!

But you can’t put the cart before the horse.

Go listen to the audios and read the short ebooks in Revive Her Drive. Start doing some of the romance tricks.

And then as you start to see her respond, I’ll help you figure out what the next sexual pleasuring skills are you need to turn her into a total slut for you in the bedroom.

30 Romance Tricks That Work Like Magic ⇐ To Get You Laid

Revive Her Drive ⇐ Respark The Intimacy, Passion, And Explosive Romance

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