One of my favorite sexual fantasies involves being fully naked in my bed with scented candles everywhere, my lover dripping a little bit of sweet chocolate syrup and whipped cream on my body as he eats me like a birthday cake. This already happened! It was messy, and I loved it.
Would you believe me if I told you that your sexual fantasies are coping mechanisms for shame, guilt, and other fears?
HOT FANTASY SEX
Your sexual fantasies begin to form before you can talk.
What you fantasize about is the direct result of how your parents treated you and how SAFE you felt as a child.
Your unconscious mind creates sexual fantasies to make you feel safe enough to become aroused.
We use fantasy to alleviate our guilt about our sexual desires.
That’s what Dr. Michael Bader reveals in his book, AROUSAL: The Secret Logic of Sexual Desire.
What Your Sexual Fantasies Tell You About Yourself ⇐ READ FULL ARTICLE
Here’s my review and further explanation of his theories as they relate to all kinds of fantasies, including:
- Dominance or Submission
- Golden Showers
- Rape Fantasies
- S&M
- Men Wearing Panties or Diapers
- Gang Rape
- Multiple Partners
- Exhibitionism and Voyeurism
- And more…
If you like to self-psychoanalyze, you will find this article fascinating.
And if you’d like to share your fantasies safely with your partner, consider Dr. Patti’s Seduction Trilogy, which includes the book “Be Her Sexual Trainer.”
This book will show you how to nurture her deepest cravings—to encourage your partner to divulge her most hidden, passionately wild fantasies and yearnings. The techniques you’ll discover inside will give her a profound sexual excitement and curiosity. You’ll be able to create an environment where she revels in being sexually open, adventurous, and insatiable with you.
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I love wearing ladies lingerie
taking small steps o touching, massaging and fingering all the erotic zones to charge the body along with the mind with skillful lip play, increasing the pressure and releasing it and with very gentle feather touch of the fingers ignites a fire of lust and willful begging sex. let her become the wild cat of the bed and for sure she won’t leave you till she has drenched you. then there shall be oneness of leaks and ahhs and tightness with relaxed satisfied sex. men to be patient and persistent and involved in this is a must. it shall be rewarded much more then expected..
Try it..