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Today we are talking about Expanding Male Potency and Erection. This is an amazing topic… vulnerable, and yet, full of potential as well. Many men (and their helpful partners) want to know what they can do to augment the size, quality, and duration of their erections and orgasms. So many products and services make promises… who and what is a man supposed to believe? So, today we will have that conversation, and of course, do so in a way that adds in expanding our ability to make intelligent choices, and purchase! Find out more about Dr. Gary Schubach’s perspectives as a sex educator, lecturer and writer. Learn why he feels our society does not teach people the necessary interpersonal relationship skills nor do people acquire this information naturally. Learn why people acquire “erection issues” and why the name “erectile disorder” may be blown way out of proportion! And, find out what types of solutions he recommends to his clients. Learn the pros and cons about herbal products, pharmaceuticals, teaching methods for erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, male multiple orgasm, the value of male G-spot and prostate massage, and the value of emotional connection in this valuable, rich and informative exchange. Men everywhere will be glad to get this information - and will love it if their partners hear it, too.

Have you ever wondered about adult films? Who watches them? Are there differences between them? Are all of them pornography, or can some of them be educational, or turn you on, even if you’re not into porn? Can they expand your consciousness? Here today to discuss this fascinating topic of Conscious X-Rated Adult Films is our guest, Dr. Gary Schubach, an Associate Professor at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality who lectures on at various universities and institutes worldwide. One of his lecture specialties is the uses of media to express human sexuality.

Learn what do we mean by the term porn films? And what is the difference between porn films and sex education films? How is each term used by the public? What are Sexual Patterning Films? Find out about Gary’s top ten Adult Film picks of all time, and some of his favorite scenes. Find out which films men might like, and which, the women might go for, and why. Join as we discuss women’s issues around pornography, and other social and relationship issues connected to X-rated films. Are adult films good for a relationship? For society? Listen in as we wrap up this juicy show!

In this exciting show, Dr. Patti Taylor and Scott Catamas continue their conversation about learns about Compassionate Communication (a communication methodology founded by Marshall Rosenberg), or Nonviolent Communication, (NVC). Learn how popular Robert Gonzalez has become, and what Scott is doing to make his work available to the world. (Dr. Patti, for one, is extremely excited about Scott’s work in this area!) Hear a few heart-opening stories of relationships that have been saved with Compassionate Communication. They’re true… one of them is Dr. Patti’s own story! Learn, and then remember the famous two words that will make this whole show worthwhile!!! Learn a thought process you can use when you are plugged in to sort things out quickly. Dr. Patti and Scott role-play two upsetting situations, and then focus on how using Compassionate Communication not only gets them out of their painful predicaments, but adds to the love and connection. Discover how you can also use NVC to boost the pleasure and turn-on when the sex and passion are flowing. What magic words open you to greater vulnerability? What about using Compassionate Communication to reveal fantasies and push the intimate envelope? Find out how all this can be done, with passion, juice, and love! A show to inspire everyone to have more love, connection, and communication in their lives!

In this exciting show, Dr. Patti Taylor learns more about Compassionate Communication (a communication methodology founded by Marshall Rosenberg), or Nonviolent Communication, (NVC). Scott is a brilliant videographer of many of the leading teachers of NVC, committed to sharing a profound message of turn-on, connection, peace and understanding to singles, couples, and groups. Scott has used NVC as a basis for his own practice of teaching Compassionate Communication. Find out how the founder, Marshall Rosenberg, and one of his protégés, Robert Gonzalez, have revolutionized the communications world with Rosenberg’s model, NVC. Learn why it is an attitude and mindset as well as a method. Find out why giraffes and jackals are used in role-playing and the basic model’s structure. Learn why “what we tell ourselves” can have such important consequences. Follow Patti and Scott as they role-play a situation in which Patti gets Scott’s sensual attention in ways she doesn’t want… and how Scott handles it, overcoming his own “inner jackal” as well as Patti’s clearly upsetting “jackal” tone. The self-empathy is a repeated crucial piece to this exchange! Learn what simple things can be said, with experience and compassion, to turn even loaded, triggered situations like this around in short order! A fun show,, and true to life! Scott even offers a worksheet for those of us wanting some “training wheels” in highly charged situations, which is available on the Personal Life Media site, under the his personal episode page, and the Expanded Lovemaking Show. Yay!

Dr. Patti talks with Baba Dez Nichols, a Daka and transformational guide currently living in Sedona and Hawaii. Baba Dez has studied with many masters around the world for over 20 years. He is the founder of the Sedona Temple, a renowned school that has trained hundreds of men and women to become sexual healers, and he is the author, along with Kamala Devi, of the new book, Sexual Healing, the Shaman Method of Sex Magic.

We are going to focus on some of the bigger issues of orgasmic energy as BIG Energy! Baba Dez is certainly a master of big energy… which will be quite evident when you look at his accomplishments… and how he has circulated this energy. So we will ponder the issues of culture, and manifestation, and, orgasmic energy, and of course, what this means for you!

Learn the important of connecting up the inner masculine and feminine, vs. looking to the outside to accomplish this. Find out why manifestation is connected to the healing of the core wound and why this energy is best circulated, not kept inside of you. Learn about the amazing Sedona Temple, and the significance of this reemergence of “temple energy” for the planet. Discover what this means for the people that go there to study the sacred sexual healing arts. Find out what orgasmic practices you can do on your own to begin to build skills towards greater manifestation. An amazing, two part show on core wounds – their hidden nature, their power, their discovery, and their ability to be transformed into love, energy, and manifestation beyond your greatest dreams!

Hear Dr. Patti talk with Baba Dez, a Daka and transformational guide currently living in Sedona and Hawaii. Baba Dez has studied with many masters around the world for over 20 years. He is the founder of the Sedona Temple, a renowned school that has trained hundreds of men and women to become sexual healers, and he is the author, along with Kamala Devi, of the new book, Sexual Healing, the Shaman Method of Sex Magic.

Many of us can remember a time when we were sexually innocent… and then, and our stories got in the way. Find out how what core wounds are and how they got buried in our cultural milieu. Today, an entire industry has evolved that helps us remove our personal stories so we can reclaim the magnificence of our truly liberated beings… including our sexuality, but so much more. Find out why the core wound is a precious part of your soul and why you need to discover it… and heal it… before it gets to you! Discover how going deep to uncover and transform your sexual story is the flip side of opening your whole being to radiance. We’ll learn more about Baba Dez’s own journey and the work he does with others.

Dr. Patti talks with Françoise Devresse and Susan Tarantino, instructors at the Welcomed Consensus, an internationally known center for education of matters intimate, sensual, and sexual. They are most famous for teaching the Deliberate Orgasm, or D.O. (the “Do”), a technique for giving a woman exquisite genital orgasmic gratification. The Welcomed Consensus has put out an amazing array of DVDs, videos, and courses to help the public learn the practice of Doing and to have better intimate relationships. Discover what’s in it for men to get involved in the practice of Doing, why their orgasms may also get better. Find out how to communicate during a do date. (Yes, there’s a  great DVD on this, too!) Find out some of the ladies’ favorite DVDs: A new one on female masturbation, all agreed… ah… but find out why Françoise, Susan, and Dr. Patti love this DVD… each one has very different and specific reasons! Find out why Dr. Patti loves the peaking DVD… it goes beyond the fact that one of her guests was the star! And finally, learn about the range of juicy, fun, and playful courses that the Welcomed Consensus offers. If that’s not enough, just sign on to their clit board, at welcomed.com, where you can get an entire education, starting immediately, for free! A fun, fast paced interview, that will open your eyes to the amazingly rich world of Deliberate Orgasm.

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Françoise Devresse and Susan Tarantino, instructors at the Welcomed Consensus, an internationally known center for education of matters intimate, sensual, and sexual. They are most famous for teaching the Deliberate Orgasm, or D.O. (the “Do”), a technique for giving a woman exquisite genital orgasmic gratification. Find out who this more about the Welcomed Consensus.  Learn what this practice is. Why are women so changed (for the better) by it? How do you do it? How pleasurable is it, anyway? Learn which of the three women in this interview had an orgasm (or several orgasms) beforehand? (Hint, it can be one, two, or all three of them!) How many times a day does a woman have an orgasm in this practice? Why is this a “female model of orgasm?”  What are “thunk spots” and when is the best time to touch them? What are some of the key guiding principles that practitioners live by?  How has it changed the lives of people in this practice? You will walk away full of ideas and inspiration after listening to this show!

Dr. John Gray, author of the world’s best-selling book, Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus, shares from his newest book, “Why Mars and Venus Collide”. We learned in Part One about gender differences, oxytocin, and testosterone, and the profound effect that they can have on relationships. Now, let’s find out how all this translates in the bedroom. First we find out what oxytocin can do for a woman’s orgasms, physically as well as emotionally. We learn the important ways to stimulate oxytocin both in and out of the bedroom… in order to turn her on sexually… and Dr. Patti agrees these strategies work for her! Then, our attention goes to the man. Learn about age-specific strategies for getting a man to feel his testosterone levels go up, too. Find out, what can a woman say and do in bed to make a man feel he is being productive? Learn the various types of sex that couples can have to stay sexually active through the years. Learn why Dr. Gray wrote The Mars and Venus Diet and Exercise Solution, and engaged in much research, about the effect of nutrition on romance, sex and happiness. Find out which supplements help men and women be in a more loving mood for one another. Finally, take in Dr. Gray’s inspiring final thoughts to keep studying and learning in this ever-changing world. Truly this two part show is a world-class program you will want to hear and digest many times over. 

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Dr. John Gray, author of the world’s best-selling book, Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus, and his newest book, “Why Mars and Venus Collide”. Author of 16 relationship books, learn why Dr. Gray feels that this book is his best ever. Find out why stress, and women entering the work force, have changed the dynamics of the relationship scenario in ways that alter a woman’s hormone, oxytocin. Find out what must be done to restore oxytocin, and what happens when it is not replenished. Learn about the man’s important sex hormone, testosterone, what is needed for it to flourish, and what can happen to compromise it, as well. Enjoy Dr. Gray’s stories about romance when the hormones are working in concert… and picture what happens when they are not! Find out what men and women can do naturally to restore hormone balance, both in and out of the bedroom. Rev up your relationship by getting your brain chemistry to work for you! It’s fun, easy, and feels great!

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Kamala Devi, co-author of Sacred Sexual Healing (along with Baba Dez Nichols), about the ancient secret ritual of sexual magic. Who does it? What can you ask for? What is not a good way to ask for things? Find out why ritual will empower your requests even further. What is the way to do a ritual? How can you intensify orgasms to add fuel to the fires? Is there a best way to make love? Can single people, and single-gendered couples do these rites? Learn the entire ritual as laid out in the SHAMAN method in their new book and find out just how often is appropriate for you to be asking for, and manifesting, all the dreams you’ve been desiring! Find out how easy it is, and how you just might be adding to world peace in the process!

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Kamala Devi, co-author of Sacred Sexual Healing (along with Baba Dez Nichols), about what it takes to be a healer, and, to be healed. Learn what is a daka (male tantric healer) and a dakini (female sexual healer). What is a shamanic healing tradition? Why go outside western medicine? Learn why healing and being “healed” is so important as on ongoing process that is a part of the normal, natural life cycle, and not just for “sick” people.
What are some of the symptoms that might indicate that you would benefit from shamanic healing? How do body, mind, heart, and spirit all contribute to sexuality? Why is the orgasmic energy so important…. even if your problem is about orgasm? What is one practice you do to get the orgasmic energy flowing more smoothly? Listen as Kamala describes a session with a woman who comes in with a problem with low libido and be a fly on the wall as you hear a professional at work. Find out how Kamala’s and Dez’s new book empowers everyone to be a healer if they so choose, in the privacy of their own home.

Hear Dr. Patti interview Bernie Prior in Part Two of this exciting two part investigation into Love Beyond All Words. In Part One, Bernie has already described the masculine and feminine energies, consciousness, and the value of trauma and drama. He now goes on to describe “truth”… a knowing. Bernie points to this ineffable quality poetically in a number of ways as he keeps Dr. Patti (and no doubt, thousands of our other listeners) spellbound. He describes love, as it impacts men, women, and people (beyond gender). Find out his way of using movement (called the “Form”) to end the experience of duality in the body and mind, and listen as he describes his process. Discover why we may think we have or want a soul mate for one reason… but really call one in for entirely different reasons. Learn more about the value of self-love as the opportunity to support all loving relationships, starting with yourself, but including everyone you meet, including your partner. Bernie’s pure Tantric principles are sure to educate, delight, inspire, and motivate you. Learn about his work worldwide, and how he transforms people, and their relationships, with what he teaches. As a special treat, Bernie shares a poem that has been moving crowds profoundly - that just might melt your heart, too. A show to be heard over and over!

Have you ever wondered how to take your love life to the next level? Or, how to get your love life out of a seemingly endless loop of confusion, anger, and mystery? Well, the answers may lie in pure, Tantric teachings. Listen as Dr. Patti interviews Bernie Prior, a realized Tantric master, who gives an illuminating perspective on the nature of men, women, lovemaking, consciousness, and more. Find out why we are so much more than just men and women, and what it really means to embody the masculine and feminine principles. Find out why “trauma and drama” have such great value that propel us forward in our growth, and take us to this very moment of presence! Learn why going beyond the ego-mind of consciousness will pave the way to deeper love, and what this deeper love is like. Find out what you have to do, and “be”, in order to experience the profound states of consciousness that occur when embodying the pure masculine, and feminine - as well as the combined state of unity. Learn what lovemaking from this state is like as well! Are these states available to you? Learn how they are, and what you can do on a practical level to live in this place of love on a day to day basis. A deeply inspiring show that is sure to open your heart to new ways of living, and loving so much more!

Hear Dr. Patti continue her juicy chat with Daka Raj about the art of doing a woman. “Doing”, which is the  act of giving someone genital pleasure, can be used to take a woman to the heights of prolonged ecstasy, felt in the body, mind, heart, and spirit of both the giver and receiver. We begin with considering ways to stay “in the flow” of the date, and what to do when the giver starts wondering, “what’s next?”

We consider ways to bring a woman into higher states of pleasure, until a giver chooses to take her over orgasmic edges. Learn what strokes you might try to accomplish this! Find out what to do once you’ve brought a woman over the orgasmic edge to keep her there. And, discover the fun there is to be had on the “downside” or aftermath of a do date. All this and more is way fun, as Dr. Patti and Daka Raj get totally turned on, just talking about talking…and  teasing… giving exquisite pleasure… and more!. You’ll even learn a little more about what Patti is up to next.

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Daka Raj about the art of doing a woman. “Doing”, which is the  act of giving someone genital pleasure, can be used to take a woman to the heights of prolonged ecstasy, felt in the body, mind, heart, and spirit of both the giver and receiver. Discover why Dr. Patti has found this to be such a rewarding lifelong practice. This program is chock full of specific details. Learn about positions, and what to do to get a woman engorged. Why this is so important? Find out more about finding “her favorite spot” and staying on it. Learn why continuity is so essential, and how to know when to keep doing the same stroke vs. making changes. Find out what to do with your bottom hand, too. Join in as Patti and Daka Raj have a virtual date, - the chemistry is high! Join in and become inspired to have this kind of pleasure in your own life.

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Barbara Carrellas, sex educator and author of the bestseller, “Urban Tantra”, about giving and receiving orgasmic awaking erotic massages to women. Find out how you can use breath to go into orgasmic states. Learn that you really can “fake it till you make it”. Do Dr. Patti and Barbara use breath to enhance feeling by breathing? If so, is there more than one kind of breathing? What would these kinds of breaths sound like? Then, learn some of the kinds of strokes that you can give a woman on her labia, heart, abdomen, clitoris, and internally. Find out where Dr. Patti and Barbara have similar tastes in pleasuring! And, is a hard woman good to find, and if so, why? (Hint: use the word “engorgement” in your answer.) Is an electric vibrator a good thing, and if so, what is the optimal type, large or small? How might you use one? Where might you use one? The answers may surprise you. This show is full of fun, surprises, and turn-on! Your girlfriend or wife will thank you many times over for taking careful notes and listening more than once to this show, full of useful facts that will be helpful, as well as thoroughly entertaining!

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Barbara Carrellas, author of the bestselling book, Urban Tantra, Sacred Sex for the Twenty First Century. Find out how Barbara defines Urban Tantra, and neo-Tantra. Learn about the all-important “resilient edge”, and how you can tell if you’re doing it right, at cocktail parties, and, on cats! Discover the art of “seeing energy”. Then, learn how to give and receive the male erotic awakening massage. Find out why breath is the most important element of all. Is orgasm important? Find out just why it is, and isn’t. What are the goals of this type of pleasure? Learn this, and so much more, as Barbara thrills, enchants, and educates with charm, knowledge, and turn-on. What types of strokes do you give a man’s cock, and body? How do you spread the energy to prevent ejaculation? What do you do with the breath to send yourself into an amazing mind-blowing experience? Your fellow will be so happy you listened to this show!

In Part Two of this interview, hear Dr. Patti chat with Gayle Michaels. an anthropologist, a sexologist, a writer and an Intimate Dance Teacher. She is the author of the book, Vinyasa Tantra Illustrated, How to do The Intimate Dance.

In this show, you’ll learn more about this elegant and sophisticated style of making love that involves transitioning through numerous positions while remaining intimately united with your lover. Gayle describes the Intimate Dance so beautifully, you can feel the energy pouring right out through, and over the air! Find out what women need to know about the physical requirements for engaging in this dance. Learn more details, such as what non-orgasmic women have discovered about this art form, and how some clients and students of the Intimate Dance have had life-and-relationship altering experiences. Learn why Gayle feels this art form contributed so much to her own orgasmic awakening, and why she feels that this work helps make the world a more loving, safe, connected place for everyone.

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Gayle Michaels. an anthropologist, a sexologist, a writer and an Intimate Dance Teacher. She is the author of the book, Vinyasa Tantra Illustrated, How to do The Intimate Dance. She works with clients in person and by phone and is located in Austin, Texas.

Gayle has developed the series of lovemaking positions designed to give you that ultimate lovemaking experience, which she calls The Intimate Dance. In this show, you’ll learn more about this elegant and sophisticated style of making love that involves transitioning through numerous positions while remaining intimately united with your lover.

In Part One of this interview, hear Dr. Patti and Gayle describe the positions, some of the emotional and spiritual requirements for doing this to perfection. You’ll also learn about the physical requirements for a man to go through all eleven positions and other details, such as how hard (or easy) is this to learn and how long does it take? Find out how it feels to achieve this state of bliss!  You’ll also hear the experiences of some of the people who have studied this method.

In Part Two of this interview, hear Dr. Patti talk once again with Drs. Steve and Vera Bodansky about Instant Orgasm. Discover how the art of being playful can help partners overcome resistances to pleasure and be a part of the building up of pleasure. Find out all about peaking, and why peaking is so important to having a prolonged sense of pleasure. Learn how you can incorporate the art of Instant Orgasm into an Extended Massive Orgasm date so that the energy will stay fresh and juicy. Listen as Drs. Steve and Vera describe what they do in their client consulting, and how peoples’ relationships, and lives, are being transformed by becoming more orgasmic. Great work! The Bodanskys are modeling being totally (instantly) orgasmic as they write, teach, talk, and go about their lives.

In Part One of this interview, hear Dr. Patti talk to Drs. Steve and Vera Bodanksy, the famous teachers of the art of Extended Massive Orgasm. Learn what is an “Instant Orgasm”, and why they feel it so important to emphasize learning the skill of having one. Find out what you can do to become “instantly orgasmic”. When and where and how often can you have these? Learn how developing connections between your genitals and other body parts can make your whole body respond more orgasmically. Find out how can you practice Instant Orgasm, and how Instant Orgasm relates to their other teachings on Extended Massive Orgasm? Discover the value of resistance, as the Bodanskys role-play overcoming resistances as a part of building turn-on with hot and juicy dialog. Everyone’s having massive “instant orgasms” all through the show! So join in and learn how you can, too.

In Part Two of this interview, women will learn new ways to give oral sex that open up their throat area and allow more pleasure to flow through. Men will find out new ways to give a woman oral pleasure as well. Then, find out more about the g-spot… what is it, and how to make love to your woman so as to hit this fabled place. Find out reasons why you may not have been finding the g-spot and what to do about it. Learn how a man’s penis size can be taken into account when making love. All this and more fun, juicy, sexy conversation between Dr. Patti and Kim Switnicki, which is sure to inspire you to try all sorts of new ways to connect with your loved one.

In Part One of this interview, hear Dr. Patti talk to Kim Switnicki, an expert in promoting pleasure between men and women. Find out how to get started in expanding your lovemaking and intercourse repertoire. What are some new positions you might try? How can you get your lover interested in exploring? What are the accessories that help your experiments be comfortable for both of you? You will be inspired to try self-loving, manual, and kissing as well as many intercourse positions in this juicy, sexy show!

In Part Two, we talk again with Mariana Bozesan, social and serial entrepreneur, parent, and inspirational speaker, about the Tantric dance. Discover how this is so deeply connected to achieving the highest levels of relationship. Learn what you can do as a couple to overcome stuck places, and also, practices that will get you relating fully. Find out what the most passionate people on the planet have about them that makes them so charismatic and desirable. Can you achieve the highest levels of relationship or is this a state meant only for highly evolved world figures? Learn what Mariana shares with her own students about the world of living a successful life that will feed your passion forever and fuel it to ever-increasing depth and richness. 

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Mariana Bozesan, social and serial entrepreneur, parent, and inspirational speaker, about how to transcend the roles and identities that keep all of us stuck at a certain level of relationship. In Part One of this interview, you will learn about the four levels of relationship, and how each one uniquely contributes to our abilities to experience more passion. Learn the risks inherent in staying at only one particular level of relating, and what it takes to do the inner work to be the kind of person you would want to make love to.

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Richard "Anton" Diaz, the founder of Sexy Spirits and Club Tantra. based in New York City. He is the creator of Taontric Massage, a teacher in Expanded Orgasm Technique, a Taoist Instructor and student under Master Mantak Chia, and currently developing a 4 level training program entitled, Becoming Orgasmic Providers for Women.

I think our listeners will love this show because Anton will show us all how he has developed a very successful program for men to become orgasmic providers for women. He teaches the psychological skills as well as physical and mental touches that send women into bliss once they’ve agreed to have a sensual or sexual date.

Hear him explain further details of this amazing program. Listen in as he and Dr. Patti role play a live date situation in which the woman freezes up, and how Anton expertly uses Power Dialogues to get her to see the real issues behind her actions. Listen as he shares other examples of the power and juiciness of his program, and even a story from his personal life.

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Richard "Anton" Diaz, the founder of Sexy Spirits and Club Tantra, based in New York City. He is the creator of Taontric Massage, a teacher in Expanded Orgasm Technique, a Taoist Instructor and student under Master Mantak Chia, and currently developing a 4 level training program entitled, Becoming Orgasmic Providers for Women.

Anton has developed a very successful program for men to become orgasmic providers for women. He teaches the psychological skills as well as physical and mental touches that send women into bliss once they’ve agreed to have a sensual or sexual date. Learn a little about the history of the “do” date. Find out how to meet women by posting an ad offering them pure orgasmic and/or sensual pleasure, and why women would want to come to meet you through an ad. Learn the value of “no strings attached”. Find out why the course is in four parts … and why all four parts are essential!  And, get a great example of what has happened in the course by applying Anton’s principles.

In Part Two of this Two Part Series, hear Dr. Patti interview Rev. Charmaine, ordained by the New Seminary, a school of interfaith theology in New York City. She is a Reiki Master, certified hypnotherapist, trained aroma therapist, and tantric energy specialist. Learn about the yoni (or pussy, or female genital) massage that a man (or woman) can give a woman that will give her great pleasure, healing, and joy. Learn how this blessing technique shifted the way Charmaine viewed life, her body, and more. It’s easy to do, if both partners have the intention to give and receive love. Find out the intricate details of how to do it to perfection in a variety of settings, and how special an event this can be! Learn more about some of the other work Charmaine does, how she uses energy reading to work with couples, and naked erotic ecstatic gatherings!

In Part One of this Two Part Series, hear Dr. Patti interview Rev. Charmaine, ordained by the New Seminary, a school of interfaith theology in New York City. She is a Reiki Master, certified hypnotherapist, trained aroma therapist, and tantric energy specialist. Hear Dr. Patti and Charmaine discuss what it means to be connected in heart, body, mind, and spirit. What is a prayer? Learn about masturbation mediation (can that also be a calling to the divine)… and whether or not… or how much… you can access your sexual energy for all of life’s needs. Why is this important, and how can it contribute to stronger partnerships and more orgasmic energy?
 
Find out why Charmaine chose this path, what you can do to combine your own sexual and spiritual energies, and be inspired by Rev. Charmaine’s passion about her practices. Find out what she teaches her clients, why she feels this connections of spirit and sex will contribute towards planetary healing, and your own healing, vitality, and joy for life! You may feel inspired and amazed at what you hear on this astonishing series of revelations!

This show is a perfect precursor to the topics we will cover in Part Two.

Hear Dr. Haiden and Dr. Patti discuss the latest findings in the field of integrative medicine, and how they might relate to sexual libido and mood. Find out some basic things to look for in wondering if you’ve been “affected” by the environment, in terms of your sexual performance. What areas should you be concerned about? Can you test yourself to see if your hormones are in balance? How would you know if they are out of balance? What other factors might come into consideration if you are not quite “in the mood” the way you want to be? Is there hope for reversing the effect of living in today’s environment? Dr. Haiden feels there is, and offers suggestions that you can practice at home, as well as tests you can request from your doctor. If you feel that there’s more to you than you presently have to offer a partner, and you are not quite sure why you can’t find it… it might just be that this show will open your eyes to many new possibilities! Dr. Ann’s blog, www.gogreenlivehealthy.com, fills in where this show leaves off to give listeners much to hope for and lots of inspiration and knowledge, to clean up their lives inside and out… and along the way, enjoy better, hotter, greener sex!

In this unique show, Hear Dr. Patti, the regular host of our Expanded Lovemaking show, talk about her introduction to self-loving, or masturbation, at a late age, her reactions to it, and her choices of how to respond. She gives suggestions about how to begin. Dr. Patti recommends other Expanded Lovemaking Show interviews to listen to that are relevant, and even good toys to help create the perfect self-loving date. Decide if “witnessing” is for you, either secretly or openly, and how to use masturbation as a teaching device for a more orgasmic experience with yourself or a partner. Hear how to discover more about your own changing body. Learn how to apply this knowledge to accompany intercourse for more orgasmic experiences there as well! This sensitive topic addresses concerns that many men and women share. So many newcomers to sex, as well as experienced lovers, have the potential to benefit. Find out why!

Hear Dr. Patti and Victor Gold, author of “The Potency Principles”. Discuss the principles of Potency for Men that all men will want to lean in order to become better lovers and gain access to a more connected body, heart, spirit, and mind. Learn how we are all generating sexual energy and how we can spread that energy to our hearts. Find out what positions in lovemaking generate the greatest relaxation. Learn why men have different challenges than women, and how to overcome these. Learn how opening the heart energy helps men have “heart-gasms”— and what even women can do to open their hearts as well. Find out what using the breath properly will do to your orgasmic energy. Why did Victor write this book? Is there such a thing as sex magic? How is it used properly? Would more sexual energy transformation change the world? See if this program in your life starts you feeling, thinking, and manifesting in totally new ways!

Hear Dr. Patti and Victor Gold, author of “The Potency Principles”. Discuss the importance of male retention of ejaculation and how this will bring pleasure to his partner and himself. He describes how to do it, and ways in which your female partner can benefit. Victor discusses his favorite ways to explore the women’s g-spot as well. Learn the benefits of relaxation and how these practices lead to spiritual transformation and profound connection to yourself and all around you. Listen as Dr. Patti and Victor delve into some juicy details of specific lovemaking sessions, and ways to use all the extra orgasmic energy that has been saved as a result of not being spent. You and your partner will be inspired and educated by this information!

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Regina Lynn, sex-ed columnist for Wired.com and author of two books, including the just-released Sexier Sex: Lessons from the Brave New Sexual Frontier. Discover just how many people are using all sorts of technology - cell phones, web cams, and the Internet for fun, spice, and even healing.  Hear Regina reveal her own journey as she and her partner get exposed together to the online world, and Regina learns to be orgasmic for the first time.  Can you be orgasmic with an online partner? What instruments could you use?  What would online sex sound like, or look like? Enjoy Regina’s descriptions of red-hot oral sex online, and how people might have hot encounters with their partners as well. Did you know you can send sexy pictures, voice messages, and more to a loved one?  We even cover how to do this safely! Regina busts the myths that the Internet does not have “ordinary” people on it.  It is full of normal people, though many of them may be trying on all sorts of new personae, or personalities.  Learn Regina’s viewpoints on the future of online love. In the show, she gives lots of links and also shares some excitement with Dr. Patti about her fantastic new book, truly a comprehensive reference for anyone looking to meet new friends in this vast online world we live in today.

In this show, hear Patti talk to Dr. Johanina Wikoff, a couples counselor, and well-known, widely-experienced, widely-read Tantra teacher who is passionate about her lineage, Kashmiri Shaivism, and its teachings.  Discover how she has found a way to bridge the gap between the esoteric writings of illumination, ecstasy, and transcendence, and, the bliss of embodiment through orgasm.  Discover Johanina’s amazing upbringing.  Get her observations from her recent trip to a World Congress on Spirituality in India on differences between Eastern and Western means of practicing transcendence in the body, and why Johanina feels that Western practitioners may have an edge!  Johanina describes orgasm, and gives us some practical examples of how to spread orgasm through the body. Drs. Patti and Johanina go into an amazing riff on just what is orgasm, what is it feel like, and why and how it changes as we age?  This alone is so priceless, that you may want to hear the show many times over! Learn that orgasm, for those who seek awakening through spirituality, can be so much more than just sex.  Learn the differences that men and women cope with when seeking to experience awakens sex with one another, and how to navigate those differences.  Listen as Drs. Patti and Johanina role-play a couple wanting more enlightened sex. This episode will truly uplift your mind, body, heart, spirit, and soul. It may also inspire you to begin practicing new ways to awaken to more types of orgasmic, awakened pleasure, starting today!

In this show, get ready for the sensational and extraordinary Ms. Diane Greenberg, a professional stripper, love coach, Tantric healer, and creator of the instructional DVD, The Sacred Art of the Striptease. Learnhow to strip to please ourselves and our audiences of one or a hundred! What does a good striptease consist of? Who is a good candidate for stripping? What if you have body issues? (Does everyone?) How will stripping change your life forever, in the best possible ways? Why is this a sacred art? Then listen in as Diane thrills Patti and listeners everywhere with a smokin’-hot strip show, that she details move by move. Diane reveals her self-assurance and profound inner beauty, which translates perfectly over the airwaves. She tells us exactly what is going on inside her mind, and what moves to make, to drive herself wild, as well as to guarantee that temperatures soar for all watching! Hands, hair, butts, breasts, backs, legs, bras, panties, are all going sensuously up and down, in manners playful, posing, elegant, luscious, oh-so-naughty, and more. Well, it’s whatever Diane wants, as she makes it up, moment by moment. Learn how you can strip, too, and discover the deep inner benefits that may surprise you and bless you in all areas of your life! Diane shares stories of students and clients… but wait, there’s even more: Dr. Patti confesses her joy of stripping that has come from taking Diane’s class! You’ll want to hear this show many times over!

In this show, you'll meet Dr. Dain Heer, a chiropractor who travels the world teaching people how to have way more sex, fun, pleasure, money, and yes, even orgasms in their life!  Learn the key differences between sex, sexuality, sensualness, and copulation which will help you make the kinds of offers that potential partners will gladly say yes to.  Find out : are women are really more aggressive than they often let on, given the right opportunity? What would you say to make a good opening offer for sexual fun? What can we do to reclaim the full potential of our orgasmic nature? Dain gives us several suggestions for bedroom play designed to wake up our orgasmic senses. Just listening to Dain will wake up your senses! Learn how all of us have can be better receivers and how having more sex, fun, and copulation will lead to having more money in our lives!  Dain gives us several useful tools for clearing out the mind- stuff that gets in the way of our having everything we want in all these areas.  He also inspires us with true stories of people that have achieved phenomenal results in a matter of days after using these processes, that he teaches to thousands of people all over the world. Isn't it nice to know that we can all have more sex, orgasm, fun, and money, if that is what we truly desire, and it can be an easy, joyful choice?

In this show, Dr. Patti talks to Northstar, an awakened, well-traveled, well read Tantra teacher who has taken it upon himself to develop his skills and talents over the years, all while holding down a nine to five job in Jackson Hole, Wyoming. Starting with a profound sexual awakening experience while at college, Northstar has relentlessly pursued classes, workshops and experiences to further develop an expanded consciousness, through all sorts of workshops, including meditation, movement, dance, and sexuality. He shares with us his own unique techniques for enhancing the amount of kundalini, or vibratory chi energy that flows through one's body.  He then gives us a technique for spreading heart energy, and tells us how to use this energy to enhance orgasmic intensity and pleasure.  We can also use this technique to increase connection with a beloved. Learn how to send and receive energy through special eye gazing and energetic resonance that will have you seeing colors and even hearing music during lovemaking! Apply these techniques, with breathing techniques, in a layering fashion, along with your expanded orgasmic touches, to create a symphonic expanded orgasmic experience. Discover his opinion on whether reading books will help you learn to be a teacher, whether you can raise kundalini on your own, and how and where to meet partners. Hear Northstar and Dr. Patti discuss other issues related to becoming your own self-taught teacher of love. And inspiring show for everyone!

Discover Karinna Kittles-Karsten, the best-selling author of “Intimate Wisdom” and creator of the DVD “Sexual Kung Fu”, who combines Eastern and Western wisdom.  Learn how in the Taoist system of sexual mastery, people find it normal to practice their sexual skills, such as Tongue Kung Fu. Find out the types of motions you can make with your tongue, such as tongue flittering, tongue scooping, and tongue diving. Next, learn some applications for these tantalizing tongue skills, and where you might use them on a lover’s body. Note: unexpected places, like ears are also candidates!  Learn how obvious places, like lips, genitals, necks, and more can be skillfully pleasured with a knowing tongue. Tongue skills require connecting ourselves to our emotions, which explains why on one day, we may feel shy with our tongues, and bold on another day.  Hear Dr. Patti and Karinna explore intimate situations, and how to handle them, when one person is feeling tentative or nervous and the other person wants to initiate more playful engagement! Find out how to tongues figure into “69”, mutual oral sex position.  And learn about “Ambrosia”, the art of tasting one another. This show is one in a million, and Karinna, charm, and sweep you off your feet with her presence of warmth as well as the value of her information.  This is surely a show you in your partner will listen to, and want to go home and try to many tips, as soon as possible. I know I'm inspired!

In this show, Learn as Dr. Patti goes into depth with John Zielinski about why the Taoist system is so powerful. Hear about the energetic “storm” that is created at birth, that helps create males and females, and the energy streams that give us all life force energy stream. Why is this significant? Learn about the BIGGEST Taoist secret of all: The Microcosmic Orbit: how it works, and how you can incorporate it into your sexuality. Can both men and women can use it? Learn how men can use the “big draw” and “little draw” to influence ejaculatory patterns.  Discover the yin-yang exchange that will help lovemaking go to the deepest levels imaginable, and how to create this exchange with a beloved. Now, do you need to be in a particular Taoist position? If so, what or which are best?

John shares with us the specific books, DVDs, and learning that help us study sexual Taoist sexual mastery. He illustrates why couples find this system a rich resource for building passion as well. He discusses and answers the “ejaculation” question – should men ejaculate, and if so, on what frequency? John generously gives us some more great “pieces” to add to our “building blocks” of “must-have” knowledge about the valuable Taoist system of lovemaking!

This show ties in to our EL Show #28 very nicely, where we interview his teacher, Mantak Chia, on the overview of Taoist Lovemaking. A rich show, chock-full of information and inspiration!

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Destin Gerek, a Sexological Bodyworker, sex educator, artist, video producer, and, of course, the original “Erotic Rockstar”. Just who is this fascinating persona? Think of those times you seen someone reaching out to an admiring audience, or otherwise welcoming person, confident in love, and voil&agra