Expanded Lovemaking: Sex, Love, and Consciousness

Enjoy juicy and informative interviews with the acclaimed author Dr. Patti Taylor of ExpandedLovemaking.com, as she talks with world-renowned experts on sex, sensuality and real-life practitioners of the art and science of orgasm! Expanded Lovemaking is a fusion of ancient erotic wisdom and modern practices and insights, where you learn to share ever-expanding bliss with your partner. Email Dr. Patti at patti@personallifemedia.com.

Expanded Lovemaking is a profound, fun, and rewarding path for those seeking prolonged orgasmic bliss with all the intimacy, and spiritual, mental, and physical connection you desire.

Learn how to expand your capacity to receive mind-blowing pleasure, extend your orgasm from minutes to hours, use erotic fantasies and stories to spice up your love life, and get expert advice on tantric sexual positions. The show’s material ranges from exploring how we can link lovemaking to God and spirituality, to the erotic art of the strip tease, and the details of men and women’s health, hormones, Viagra, and extended pleasure.

Discover the endless depth, variety, and connection available in intercourse and how to master finding your lover’s hot spots and sensing his or her orgasmic energy. Learn playful and effective seduction strategies too.

Dr. Patti solicits expert advice on the best toys, games, and educational videos, special techniques for using self-pleasuring to be a better lover, and the intricate details of prostate massage and stroking your lover’s genitals.

Together, let’s investigate compassionate non-violent communication, the mastery of sharing Taoist chi energy and Kundalini, goddess worship, and the use of chakras in tantra. Explore the use of breathwork, whole body massage, and the magic of g-spot healing and female ejaculation.

Discover skills to delay premature ejaculation, and prolong erection. Learn the value of supplements and look at the benefits of bio-identical estrogen and testosterone for peak sexual performance.

Expanded Lovemaking interviews Spiritual Teachers in Hinduism, Taoism, Buddhism, Shamanism, and Christianity. We discuss how to free up Love and Sexual Energy for Planetary Awareness, Peace, and the Evolution of Consciousness.

Recent and upcoming guests include: Dr. John Gray (Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus), Daniel Odier (Kashmiri Shaivism); Mantak Chia (Microcosmic Orbit); Drs. Steve And Vera Bodansky (Extended Massive Orgasm); Margot Anand (The Art of Sexual Ecstasy); Ian Kerner (She Comes First); Charles Muir (The Art of Conscious Loving), Jack Johnston (Male Multiple Orgasm), Welcomed Consensus (Deliberate Orgasm), Nicole Daedone (Orgasmic Meditation), Deborah Sundahl (Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot), Dr. Gary Schubach (The Squirt and Squirting Podcast), Karinna Kittles-Karsten (Tongue Kung Fu), Bernie Prior, Satyen Raja, and so many more.

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Episode 99: Secret Maps to Sexual Pleasure (Part One) with Sheri Winston

Listen in as Dr. Patti finds out about clitoral anatomy from Sheri Winston, a teacher and counselor with an extensive background and expertise in birthing, gynecology, sexuality counseling, and orgasmic pleasure. Learn why Sheri's updated genital mapping is such revolutionary news. We start with erectile tissue -- what is it? Why is it so important? How much of it is there in a woman, and, of course, where can we find it? Dr. Patti and Sheri go, step-by-step, from the clitoral head, to the shaft, to the clitoral legs, and then deeper, into the vestibular bulbs (they are awesome!), and the G-area, and uterus, in a rousing, playful show, chock full of suggestions, ideas, and practical insights! You'll have great fun!

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Episode 98: Men, Hormones, and Sexual Desire (Part Two) with Dr. Harvey Bartnof

Dr. Patti talks with Dr. Harvey Bartnof, renowned age management medical specialist, about issues related to men, hormones, and libido. The major hormone for men is testosterone. At what age does testosterone decline? What are the symptoms of hormonal decline? How does testosterone replacement help? Who is a candidate for this? Are there risks? Learn about the amazing benefits of testosterone. I'll give you a hint: it can help significantly with erectile dysfunction! Beyond even this...learn why testosterone is being considered one of the most important hormones for male health and longevity today. What other hormones are important? Find out more about the extensive resources on Dr. Bartnof's website. And, learn why an age management program might improve your relationship life as well as your health and sex life!

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Episode 97: Women, Hormones, and Sexual Desire (Part One) with Dr. Harvey Bartnof

Dr. Patti talks with Dr. Harvey Bartnof, renowned age management medical specialist, about issues related to women, lifestyle, hormones, and the female lifecycle. While hormones, the desire for sex, a woman's age, and her relationship cannot be separated out all that neatly, we can make certain generalizations. At what age do hormones begin to decline for a woman? What would those symptoms look like? What can be done to restore a woman's body to optimal functioning? What hormones should a woman take to restore libido? What are bio-identical hormones? Should women take testosterone? Can estrogen help with vaginal dryness? What other factors play into helping a woman have an optimal sex life? What other books does Dr. Bartnof recommend? Learn about Dr. Bartnof's own Internet audio interviews, and website full of resources and articles. Dr. Patti reveals, in a powerful testimony, what she has found true in her own circle of friends using bio-identical hormones. This is a show every woman will want to hear who is interested in maintaining the quality of her sex life. Men, listen in, too!

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Episode 96: Libido: Energies of the Sexual Soul (Part Two) with Isa Magdalena, Author, Sex Educator, Healer, and Teacher

Hear Dr. Patti talk again with Isa Magdalena, author of Libido: Where Sex, Science, and Spirit Meet. She’s a sex educator, healer, teacher, and pioneer in the field. We have been talking about Isa’s model of libido, related to the chakra system, discussed in some detail in Part One of this show. Now we consider the importance of breathing and ways of moving to get libido circulating and firing up even further! Also we examine the need to ground sexual energies. How important is breathing? Are orgasms better when sex and orgasm are “full spectrum”? Can one have “higher spectrum” sex right away or does one need to practice for a while to achieve these experiences? What are stages and states in sex, relating, and sexual experience, and why are these distinctions important? All this, and more, is discussed on this fascinating and lively show!

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Episode 95: Libido: Where Sex and Spirit Meet (Part One) with Isa Magdalena, Author, Sex Educator, Healer, and Teacher

Hear Dr. Patti talk with Isa Magdalena, author of Libido: Where Sex, Science, and Spirit Meet. She’s a sex educator, healer, teacher, and pioneer in the field. What is libido? How did Isa come to study it? How does libido compare to kundalini and prana? What is her system of colors and how and why are the colors so important in her system? Dr. Patti asks about the significance of the colors… starting with red. What is the importance of this color and how does understanding it (red is our primal libido center) help us get more libido? What is orange? Purple? (etc.). Learn about the movements that can be made with different chakras, or energy centers. Why is it so important to have a balanced view of sex, energy, and libido in order to feel fully alive? What should people do to get more libido? Find out this and more on this fun, enlivening and educational show!

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Episode 94: The Alchemy of Passion (Part Two): Deepening Intimacy with Saida Désilets and Sol Sebastian, Renowned Tantric Teachers of Sexual Energy Cultivation

Listen in as Dr. Patti returns to talk again to Saida Désilets and Sol Sebastian, renowned teachers of Taoist energy cultivation. In this show, we focus on deepening intimacy. Why does the Taoist system teach alchemy, intimacy, and passion as intertwined? Why is intimacy made up of both the good stuff and the challenges? (Aka…the compost?) How do you transform everything that happens in a relationship into more intimacy? How do couples become more orgasmic? Do men or women take the lead in lovemaking? Hear these two leading teachers define key Taoist terms: What is succulence, the feminine principle? What is presence, the male principle? Get some strategic tips on how to begin and end a relationship consciously. Learn more about Saida and Sol’s exciting projects and world tour! We'll wrap up this show with some beautiful, and inspirational thoughts guaranteed to leave you eager to learn more!

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Episode 93: The Alchemy of Passion (Part One): Building Polarity with Saida Désilets and Sol Sebastian, Renowned Tantric Teachers of Sexual Energy Cultivation

Listen in as Dr. Patti talks to Saida Désilets and Sol Sebastian, renowned teachers of Taoist energy cultivation. In this show, we focus on building polarity. Learn more about the overarching Taoist system that teaches polarity as an essential starting point and ingredient for the alchemy of passion. What is polarity? Why is it important? What is a man's polarity? And what is a woman's polarity? What practices can men and women take up to keep themselves in balance? Learn about the Jade egg practices for women, and testicle breathing for men! Dr. Patti wants to know what are some of the exercises that Saida and Sol personally do that keep them looking so young, vital and turned on? Find out why being balanced within yourself is so essential as a first step in having a balanced, powerful, potent relationship. A fun, vibrant show!

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Episode 92: Mastering Male Expanded Orgasm (Part Two) with Ian Ellington

In the show, with Dr. Patti continues her conversation with Ian Ellington, Tantric shamanic healer and teacher. We continue exploring how the use of breath and consciousness expands a man's options for pleasure. Hear Ian define male expanded orgasm. Learn how it is possible, physically, for a man to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating. Find out how long it takes for a man to learn this art. Are there variations in how long it takes different men to learn this? What would a session look like in which a man created an expanded orgasm? How long do they last? Learn how Dr. Patti feels about being with a man while he is having expanded orgasms! Learn more about Ian's practice. What are some of the issues men explore with Ian? Does this work impact the world, and if so how? Ian leaves us with some profound thoughts. A truly motivational show, as we learn that male expanded orgasm is something that men really can learn to achieve!

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Episode 91: Mastering Male Ejaculation Control (Part One) with Ian Ellington

In this show, you'll meet Ian Ellington, a Tantric practitioner and Shamanic healer, who works with men of all orientations and couples to expand their pleasure and reclaim their sacred sexuality and spirituality. Find out what has happened, culturally, to have men disconnect from their full potential sensual birthright, and how tantra can be used to help reclaim a full capacity for pleasure. Learn about some of Ian's own journey, and about his own profound initiation onto this powerful path of healing and teaching. Find out more about ejaculatory control, or as Ian calls it, “surrendering to orgasm”. Learn exactly how using the breath in specific fashion can help prolong and intensify pleasure. Find out just how common is the desire to master ejaculation timing, how long it takes to learn. Find out what strategies and attitudes men and couples can use to help broaden pleasure and sensation, every step of the way. A fun, informative, uplifting show for both men and women!

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Episode 90: The Biology of Passion, Love, Lust, and Orgasm (Part Two) with Joe Quirk, Best-Selling Author

In this show, Dr. Patti talks again to Joe Quirk, author of “It's Not You. It's Biology: The Science of Love, Sex & Relationships”. Learn why women want men to learn, in so much detail, how to give them sexual pleasure. Why do women want to date both the “bad-boy” and the “nice-guy”? What can men to do compete for women successfully? Can the “nice-guy” finish first, and if so, how? Where do men with special talents and intelligence fit on this chart? Do men ever change their preferences in terms of the women they want to spend their life with? Why do men and woman have such different types of orgasms, in general? Why are we so lustful, jealous, and passionate? How can we get along, given our differences? Truly a show to enjoy, learn from, and use to have better relationships with the opposite sex!

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Episode 89: The Biology of Passion, Love, Lust, and Orgasm (Part One) with Joe Quirk, Best-Sellling Author

In this show, Dr. Patti talks to Joe Quirk, author of “It's Not You. It's Biology: The Science of Love, Sex & Relationships”. Learn about the fundamental conflict between the sperm and the egg, and how this impacts the relationships between men and women. Why are humans so unique when it comes to sexual selection? Why do women want commitment and why do men want to date as many women as possible? Find out how females influence sexual preferences in all species, and how this translates into male cock and testicle size, and female clitoral size in humans. Does biology apply to women who don’t want kids, or are past child-bearing age? Other dilemmas are pondered. For example, do women keep testing men – even after they’ve married them? Why is so challenging for a man to give a woman a clitoral orgasm? How can men succeed with women they want to impress? This show will answer these and many more questions, and leave you smiling, inspired to appreciate the opposite sex for who they really (biologically) are!

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Episode 88: Secrets of a Temple Priestess for Men (Part Two) with Triambika

In this show, Dr. Patti continues her conversation with Triambika. We begin with the conversation about men's erections. What could be more interesting to men, than how to feel and have more pleasure in their creative source? We entertain this topic from a Tantric perspective, and start with the challenge medically known as “delayed ejaculation”. Triambika offers a new viewpoint, as well as many useful suggestions for both the man and the woman for working with this situation. Learn how commonly she encounters this in her practice, and why she feels it will be a growing consideration for many men. Triambika and Dr. Patti then discuss premature ejaculation, also called ejaculation control, and how the use of breath can make a profound difference in learning to alter the outcome. Triambika gives us a beautiful breath exercise men can use to practice. She focuses on spreading energy while using breath. Learn, especially, to use heart energy in all aspects of interacting with your partner. She gives us a deeply inspiring example. Hear Triambika share her own beautiful insights on the union of sex and spirit. She then shares her vision of for her own journey ahead. An positively gorgeous pair of shows!

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Episode 87: Secrets of a Temple Priestess for Women (Part One) with Triambika

In this exciting show, Dr. Patti talks to Triambika, sexual healer, Dakini, coach, and leader of a program teaching women how to become Dakinis, or Temple priestesses themselves. A dakini is an amazing goddess archetype that men and women can learn to embody. Find out how you can become a Dakini. Hear how Triambika became dedicated to the path of tantra through her own sexual initiation, and why she is so motivated to share her passion with others. Find out the structure of what she teaches in her Dakini mentorship program for women. Learn what she feels are some of the most basic things a Dakini needs to know, and why female empowerment is so important as a foundation. Find out what you can do to become more orgasmic, and why stillness, and the ability to feel, will enhance your orgasmic pleasure, no matter what your level of orgasmic capacity. All this juicy information is interwoven amongst a backdrop of Kashmiri Shaivist tantric teachings and Triambika’s focus on staying centered in the heart. We are in for an incredible treat!

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Episode 86: The True Sacred Marriage (Part Two) with Andrew Harvey, Tantric Mystic and Sacred Activist

Dr. Patti continues her conversation with Andrew Harvey, Tantric Mystic and sacred activist. Find out why Andrew believes that the birth of a new divine humanity is trying to take place in the depths of our contemporary world crisis. We will learn that whether we create such a new birth - or not - depends on the unions of many opposites that have traditionally been kept separate. Find out just what these opposites are. Learn how to create for yourselves this fusion of opposites so that you can have a living experience of the divine nature of the body. Experience the calm and glorious energies that this awareness can release. Andrew suggests how to create “networks of grace” locally, so that everyone feels empowered to respond at a personal level to the world in crisis. Dr. Patti finds out from Andrew what people can do who are yearning to powerfully open their hearts, so that they can take that next step to action. Andrew has many beautiful and practical suggestions. A deeply empowering show to be listened to many times, and shared with friends and loved ones, too.

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Episode 85: The Return of the Divine Feminine (Part One) Andrew Harvey, Tantric Mystic and Sacred Activist

Dr. Patti talks to Andrew Harvey, a leading scholar and Tantric mystic, about how to reconcile extreme opposites, such as the bliss of lovemaking, with a world in trouble. What is a Tantric revolution all about? We will learn about the five Tantras - and how and why sexual Tantra fits into these five different types. Are we witnessing the birthing of a new humanity? And if so, what is the importance of sexual Tantra? Find out the true definition of Tantra (note: it may not be the one you learned!), and how pleasure fits into this definition. Why is the world having a crisis now, who is responsible for this crisis, who is the Divine Feminine, and how and why is she returning? What can we do on a personal level to respond? And, are you a part of this? If so, in what ways? Join us for this truly moving and dynamic show.

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Episode 84: Infuse Your Life with Enlightened Love (Part Two) with Satyen Raja, Tantric Master and Founder of WarriorSage, Inc.

Dr. Patti continues talking with Satyen Raja. We have already learned it's possible - even fun, and incredibly rewarding - to learn how to be better lovers. Discover next how we can tap into our deepest essential beings, our souls, and our hearts, by engaging our love energy. Learn some practical things we need to contend with as men and women. We work in a world that often challenges both men’s and women’s natural lover identities, and so, what we can do to help our partners? What we can do in the bedroom to take on both male and female energies? How can we increase our range in our own sexuality? What do we do with all this loving energy? Does it end with ourselves and our partners? Or can we spread it out into the world? if so, how? Is this a blissful experience? Join as Satyen shares with us a phenomenal visualization and meditation that energizes our full being – one you can use in your own lovemaking practices. Truly an amazing, uplifting and dynamic show!

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Episode 83: Master the Dynamics of Sexual Passion (Part One) with Satyen Raja, Tantric Master and Founder of WarriorSage, Inc.

Find out why Satyen inspires audiences worldwide with his dynamic instructions on exactly how to bring more passion, sexual heat, and enlightenment to your relationship. You will learn about Satyen's own relationship. Find out how he took his own slow-burn, low-excitement love-life through the roof! How did having children impact his passionate connection with his wife? What did they do to escalate their sexual desires to “off the charts”? Can love and passion be taught? Why are man/woman polarities so essential? How can we tell where we stand on the mix of sexual polarities? What do hot, steamy, truly passionate relationships look like? Can they be sustained, and if so how? How can men and women develop their natural potential capabilities as lovers to the fullest? This show is chock full of juicy examples that will inspire you to pick up the phone, and/or, run home and take action! Discover just how much you can do to boost and fuel the sex, love, and passion in your life.

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Episode 82: White-Hot Awakening to Trust (Part Two) with Saniel Bonder and Linda Groves-Bonder, Spiritual Awakeners, Teachers, and Creators of the Tantra of Trust

In this show, Dr. Patti talks with Saniel Bonder and Linda Groves-Bonder about their more advanced work in the Tantra of Trust. What is trust, and how does it relate to vulnerability? How can men and women step into embodied relationships? What do divinely human, 21st-century men and women look and act like, and what would their relationships look like? Learn more about our broken zones - those places that are broken off from our identity, and how healing them provides juice and fertilizer for increased depth in our relationships. LindaMa shares her Six Step Recognition Yoga process for getting more embodied. Dr. Patti volunteers to use it on herself, revealing a sexual secret of hers, and they practice how the sequence might unfold in the bedroom. Find out the juicy emphasis on the word white-hot. Saniel and LindaMa have exciting world plans! Might they visit your city? Find out why they are touring the world, and learn more about their profound work in the world. An inspiring show with lots of practical wisdom as well.

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Episode 81: Open Hearts Melting Into Love (Part One) with Saniel Bonder and Linda Groves-Bonder, Spiritual Awakeners, Teachers, and Creators of the Tantra of Trust

Have you ever felt alone... so alone... that you wished you had some way to open your heart to yourself as well as to another? But how do you do this? And what happens when you see inside your heart, when you’re feeling kind of scared or messy? Where do you go to get support to learn how to deeply open up? Or is it … open in? And what if we … wake up … while we … open up? And…what if we wake down (into matter) while we wake up (into spirit)? Here to give us some support and understanding about opening our hearts are today’s special guests, Saniel Bonder and Linda Groves-Bonder. Saniel and LindaMa, as she is called, explain why we feel this way so often, and why this is a perfectly natural way to feel. We explore how culture has created something Saniel and LindaMa call the “Spirit-matter” split. We examine existing cultural paradigms that tell us waking up is good, and consider their paradigm that includes “waking down into mutuality” as well. Find out how an adept can transmit healing energy, and why Saniel and LindaMa offer a free 4-part course, an online transmission, specifically through the organ of the heart. Find out how to do this heart-gazing yourselves, as well, with a partner. And enjoy Saniel and Linda’s message: No one needs to be alone, sorting out all this messy stuff by themselves. Embrace and embody it all…alone, and also, with others… and remember, love and support are there for you!

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Episode 80: The 8-point Enlightened Guide to Sexual Healing (Part Two) with David Cates

In this show, we continue our conversation with David Cates, mentor to sexual healers and Tantra teachers. Learn more about the eight points to enlightened sexual healing. We store a lot of emotions and memories that can get released during sex. So, I think we can learn all a lot from David. Find out how to remain calm and steady if the unexpected (or unsettling) arises. Today, we discuss men's issues, particularly around anal massage. Learn why working with this area can be so liberating for a man. David tells us what he teaches his own clients – sexual healers - about how to deal with the intense energies that emerge with clients. Do these same issues arise for healers themselves, and if so, what can be done? Find out how technology is changing the face of the conversation around shame and healing, and opening up new avenues for sexual healers. Listen in as David shares one of his favorite truly amazing journeys as a healer – and learn just how widespread these experiences really are!

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Episode 79: 8-point Enlightened Guide to Sexual Healing (Part One) with David Cates

In the show, Dr. Patti talks to David Cates, a Tantra “teacher of teachers”, and a professional who works with sexual healers. How many people have you known who have had some sexual issues, and whom you wanted to help? Or are you wishing someone would help you through some passages? Today we get to talk to someone whose passion in life, and lifelong specialty, is to teach sexual healers how give just this type of expert assistance. First you'll get an exercise that David recommends couples can practice to enhance connection and bonding. Then, you will learn about David's eight point guide to sexual healing, using as an example of what happens when a couple is on a date, and the man inadvertently touches the woman's G-spot and old stories and memories are unexpectedly unleashed. Learn how you can respond, lovingly, to minimize further trauma, and create safety, love, compassion, and even continuance of intimacy. As David says, he's only met two women out of the thousands he's ever met, who haven't had some old stories come up to be processed during intimate encounters. Find out how to remain present as the giver or healer during all this activity.

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Episode 78: What Men Really Want in the Bedroom (Part Two) with Susan Crain Bakos

In the show, Dr. Patti talks to Susan Crain Bakos, prolific author and sex educator, about what men really want in the bedroom. She reveals the questions men continuously asking her on her blog, and how these questions have changed over the years. What do men want, and how can women give men what they want? Learn what men want the most: the things that trump all other requests! Find out how Susan gets “dict-matized”, and in so doing, acquires the ability to give blow jobs that are a true love affair! Listen as she role-plays moment-by-moment what goes on in her mind as she and her “beloved penis” commune. Find out how to use the Orgasm Loop (or become otherwise orgasmic) while giving a man oral sex. Learn other techniques for giving a man pleasure as well. Discover the messages from Tantra that women, singles, men, and couples are enjoying from Susan’s new book, and what men can learn from Tantra.

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Episode 77: The Orgasm Loop: The No-Fail Technique for Reaching Orgasm During Sex (Part One) with Susan Crain Bakos

Dr. Patti talks to Susan Crain Bakos, renowned author and sex educator, about the Orgasm Loop, a simple, three part technique that women can learn in order to become orgasmic, while lovemaking, and, in a variety of other situations as well. Tested on over 500 women, this program has liberated many women into having longer, stronger orgasms. Some women have become orgasmic for the first time. Find out shocking statistics on how many women actually come from intercourse alone! Learn the value of coming every day, solo or with a partner. Find out some juicy lovemaking positions that support the practice of the Orgasm Loop, and learn why oral sex is naturally so ideal for this as well. Join with Dr. Patti and Susan as they reflect upon the value of being orgasmic, as a value that is precious for its own sake. Find out which women are most likely to learn the Orgasm Loop with the most ease. What barriers might exist? A gorgeous, informative show, with amazing information! Plus, you’ll learn about Susan’s really cool blog and other books, too! She’s an amazing writer with so much to say.

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Episode 76: The Tantricly-Orgasmic Male (Part Two) with Shama Helena

Hear Dr. Patti talk with Shama Helena, a Sacred Sexuality counselor at educator with 15 years experience. Find out why men have been impacted so much by society and culture, and what they can do to open up their vital energy centers by the study and practice of Sacred Sexuality. Learn why men are often reluctant to seek this education from their partner, and why training is so important. What can men do on their own, and with a partner? Learn the importance of appropriate ways of feeling, and touching, and rates of slowing down, especially in sexual situations. Fasten your seatbelt as Shama and Dr. Patti role-play an educational session in which Dr. Patti gets a lesson in how to give Shama the perfect hand job! The energy goes sky high, and no detail is left forgotten, as Shama goes inch by inch, ever so slowly over all the important parts of the this amazing experience. Discover Shama’s passion for spreading and sharing her wisdom and the wisdom of others with the world through her new media venture, Lovenlifetools.com. As a bonus, find out a unique way in which Dr. Patti and Shama met! This is surely a show you will want to hear many times over.

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Episode 75: The Tantricly-Orgasmic Goddess (Part One) with Shama Helena

In the show, Dr. Patti talks to Shama Helena, a Sacred Sexuality counselor at educator with 15 years experience. We learn her definition of Tantra, and why it is relevant to women of today. Find out the ways in which culture and society have impacted our views on sexual energy, women's roles, and self-expression, all of which Tantra addresses. Shama gives us some exercises to warm us up and get us in our bodies, and then proceeds to give us more specific instructions similar to those she gives in her classes for becoming tantricly energized. From there, we learn a few fun ways to maximize orgasmic pleasure by linking up various parts of the female anatomy. Find out why communication, self-love, and ongoing education are also vital. Shama shares from her own life experiences, and observations as to why working with the counselor can be so empowering for women. Find out the issues woman most want to work on when they visit Shama! Also, learn what Shama recommends to help empower women to become their most freely-orgasmically empowered-selves

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Episode 74: Expanding Male Potency and Erection (Part Two) with Dr. Gary Schubach

Today we are talking about Expanding Male Potency and Erection. This is an amazing topic… vulnerable, and yet, full of potential as well. Many men (and their helpful partners) want to know what they can do to augment the size, quality, and duration of their erections and orgasms. So many products and services make promises… who and what is a man supposed to believe? So, today we will have that conversation, and of course, do so in a way that adds in expanding our ability to make intelligent choices, and purchase! Find out more about Dr. Gary Schubach’s perspectives as a sex educator, lecturer and writer. Learn why he feels our society does not teach people the necessary interpersonal relationship skills nor do people acquire this information naturally. Learn why people acquire “erection issues” and why the name “erectile disorder” may be blown way out of proportion! And, find out what types of solutions he recommends to his clients. Learn the pros and cons about herbal products, pharmaceuticals, teaching methods for erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, male multiple orgasm, the value of male G-spot and prostate massage, and the value of emotional connection in this valuable, rich and informative exchange. Men everywhere will be glad to get this information - and will love it if their partners hear it, too.

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Episode 73: Adult Films (Part One) with Dr. Gary Schubach

Have you ever wondered about adult films? Who watches them? Are there differences between them? Are all of them pornography, or can some of them be educational, or turn you on, even if you’re not into porn? Can they expand your consciousness? Here today to discuss this fascinating topic of Conscious X-Rated Adult Films is our guest, Dr. Gary Schubach, an Associate Professor at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality who lectures on at various universities and institutes worldwide. One of his lecture specialties is the uses of media to express human sexuality.

Learn what do we mean by the term porn films? And what is the difference between porn films and sex education films? How is each term used by the public? What are Sexual Patterning Films? Find out about Gary’s top ten Adult Film picks of all time, and some of his favorite scenes. Find out which films men might like, and which, the women might go for, and why. Join as we discuss women’s issues around pornography, and other social and relationship issues connected to X-rated films. Are adult films good for a relationship? For society? Listen in as we wrap up this juicy show!

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Episode 72: Compassionate Communication: The Aphrodisiac of Intimacy (Part Two) with Scott Catamas

In this exciting show, Dr. Patti Taylor and Scott Catamas continue their conversation about learns about Compassionate Communication (a communication methodology founded by Marshall Rosenberg), or Nonviolent Communication, (NVC). Learn how popular Robert Gonzalez has become, and what Scott is doing to make his work available to the world. (Dr. Patti, for one, is extremely excited about Scott’s work in this area!) Hear a few heart-opening stories of relationships that have been saved with Compassionate Communication. They’re true… one of them is Dr. Patti’s own story! Learn, and then remember the famous two words that will make this whole show worthwhile!!! Learn a thought process you can use when you are plugged in to sort things out quickly. Dr. Patti and Scott role-play two upsetting situations, and then focus on how using Compassionate Communication not only gets them out of their painful predicaments, but adds to the love and connection. Discover how you can also use NVC to boost the pleasure and turn-on when the sex and passion are flowing. What magic words open you to greater vulnerability? What about using Compassionate Communication to reveal fantasies and push the intimate envelope? Find out how all this can be done, with passion, juice, and love! A show to inspire everyone to have more love, connection, and communication in their lives!

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Episode 71: Self Love: the Core of Intimate Fulfillment (Part One) with Scott Catamas

In this exciting show, Dr. Patti Taylor learns more about Compassionate Communication (a communication methodology founded by Marshall Rosenberg), or Nonviolent Communication, (NVC). Scott is a brilliant videographer of many of the leading teachers of NVC, committed to sharing a profound message of turn-on, connection, peace and understanding to singles, couples, and groups. Scott has used NVC as a basis for his own practice of teaching Compassionate Communication. Find out how the founder, Marshall Rosenberg, and one of his protégés, Robert Gonzalez, have revolutionized the communications world with Rosenberg’s model, NVC. Learn why it is an attitude and mindset as well as a method. Find out why giraffes and jackals are used in role-playing and the basic model’s structure. Learn why “what we tell ourselves” can have such important consequences. Follow Patti and Scott as they role-play a situation in which Patti gets Scott’s sensual attention in ways she doesn’t want… and how Scott handles it, overcoming his own “inner jackal” as well as Patti’s clearly upsetting “jackal” tone. The self-empathy is a repeated crucial piece to this exchange! Learn what simple things can be said, with experience and compassion, to turn even loaded, triggered situations like this around in short order! A fun show,, and true to life! Scott even offers a worksheet for those of us wanting some “training wheels” in highly charged situations, which is available on the Personal Life Media site, under the his personal episode page, and the Expanded Lovemaking Show. Yay!

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Episode 70: Orgasmic Manifestation: Channeling Creative Energies on All Levels of Being (Part Two) with Baba Dez

Dr. Patti talks with Baba Dez Nichols, a Daka and transformational guide currently living in Sedona and Hawaii. Baba Dez has studied with many masters around the world for over 20 years. He is the founder of the Sedona Temple, a renowned school that has trained hundreds of men and women to become sexual healers, and he is the author, along with Kamala Devi, of the new book, Sexual Healing, the Shaman Method of Sex Magic.

We are going to focus on some of the bigger issues of orgasmic energy as BIG Energy! Baba Dez is certainly a master of big energy… which will be quite evident when you look at his accomplishments… and how he has circulated this energy. So we will ponder the issues of culture, and manifestation, and, orgasmic energy, and of course, what this means for you!

Learn the important of connecting up the inner masculine and feminine, vs. looking to the outside to accomplish this. Find out why manifestation is connected to the healing of the core wound and why this energy is best circulated, not kept inside of you. Learn about the amazing Sedona Temple, and the significance of this reemergence of “temple energy” for the planet. Discover what this means for the people that go there to study the sacred sexual healing arts. Find out what orgasmic practices you can do on your own to begin to build skills towards greater manifestation. An amazing, two part show on core wounds – their hidden nature, their power, their discovery, and their ability to be transformed into love, energy, and manifestation beyond your greatest dreams!

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Episode 69: Orgasmic Radiance: Moving from Personal Story into Overflowing Ecstasy (Part One) with Baba Dez

Hear Dr. Patti talk with Baba Dez, a Daka and transformational guide currently living in Sedona and Hawaii. Baba Dez has studied with many masters around the world for over 20 years. He is the founder of the Sedona Temple, a renowned school that has trained hundreds of men and women to become sexual healers, and he is the author, along with Kamala Devi, of the new book, Sexual Healing, the Shaman Method of Sex Magic.

Many of us can remember a time when we were sexually innocent… and then, and our stories got in the way. Find out how what core wounds are and how they got buried in our cultural milieu. Today, an entire industry has evolved that helps us remove our personal stories so we can reclaim the magnificence of our truly liberated beings… including our sexuality, but so much more. Find out why the core wound is a precious part of your soul and why you need to discover it… and heal it… before it gets to you! Discover how going deep to uncover and transform your sexual story is the flip side of opening your whole being to radiance. We’ll learn more about Baba Dez’s own journey and the work he does with others.

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Episode 68: Deliberate Orgasm: Learning How, from Basics to Mastery. (Part Two): Dr. Patti talks to the Welcomed Consensus

Dr. Patti talks with Françoise Devresse and Susan Tarantino, instructors at the Welcomed Consensus, an internationally known center for education of matters intimate, sensual, and sexual. They are most famous for teaching the Deliberate Orgasm, or D.O. (the “Do”), a technique for giving a woman exquisite genital orgasmic gratification. The Welcomed Consensus has put out an amazing array of DVDs, videos, and courses to help the public learn the practice of Doing and to have better intimate relationships. Discover what’s in it for men to get involved in the practice of Doing, why their orgasms may also get better. Find out how to communicate during a do date. (Yes, there’s a  great DVD on this, too!) Find out some of the ladies’ favorite DVDs: A new one on female masturbation, all agreed… ah… but find out why Françoise, Susan, and Dr. Patti love this DVD… each one has very different and specific reasons! Find out why Dr. Patti loves the peaking DVD… it goes beyond the fact that one of her guests was the star! And finally, learn about the range of juicy, fun, and playful courses that the Welcomed Consensus offers. If that’s not enough, just sign on to their clit board, at welcomed.com, where you can get an entire education, starting immediately, for free! A fun, fast paced interview, that will open your eyes to the amazingly rich world of Deliberate Orgasm.

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Episode 67: Deliberate Orgasm: The Practice, the Pleasure, and the Power (Part One): Dr. Patti talks to the Welcomed Consensus

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Françoise Devresse and Susan Tarantino, instructors at the Welcomed Consensus, an internationally known center for education of matters intimate, sensual, and sexual. They are most famous for teaching the Deliberate Orgasm, or D.O. (the “Do”), a technique for giving a woman exquisite genital orgasmic gratification. Find out who this more about the Welcomed Consensus.  Learn what this practice is. Why are women so changed (for the better) by it? How do you do it? How pleasurable is it, anyway? Learn which of the three women in this interview had an orgasm (or several orgasms) beforehand? (Hint, it can be one, two, or all three of them!) How many times a day does a woman have an orgasm in this practice? Why is this a “female model of orgasm?”  What are “thunk spots” and when is the best time to touch them? What are some of the key guiding principles that practitioners live by?  How has it changed the lives of people in this practice? You will walk away full of ideas and inspiration after listening to this show!

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Episode 66: Why Mars and Venus Collide: Sexy Solutions (Part Two) with John Gray

Dr. John Gray, author of the world’s best-selling book, Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus, shares from his newest book, “Why Mars and Venus Collide”. We learned in Part One about gender differences, oxytocin, and testosterone, and the profound effect that they can have on relationships. Now, let’s find out how all this translates in the bedroom. First we find out what oxytocin can do for a woman’s orgasms, physically as well as emotionally. We learn the important ways to stimulate oxytocin both in and out of the bedroom… in order to turn her on sexually… and Dr. Patti agrees these strategies work for her! Then, our attention goes to the man. Learn about age-specific strategies for getting a man to feel his testosterone levels go up, too. Find out, what can a woman say and do in bed to make a man feel he is being productive? Learn the various types of sex that couples can have to stay sexually active through the years. Learn why Dr. Gray wrote The Mars and Venus Diet and Exercise Solution, and engaged in much research, about the effect of nutrition on romance, sex and happiness. Find out which supplements help men and women be in a more loving mood for one another. Finally, take in Dr. Gray’s inspiring final thoughts to keep studying and learning in this ever-changing world. Truly this two part show is a world-class program you will want to hear and digest many times over. 

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Episode 65: Why Mars and Venus Collide: How Stress, Brain Chemistry, and Hormones All Affect Your Love Life (Part One) with John Gray

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Dr. John Gray, author of the world’s best-selling book, Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus, and his newest book, “Why Mars and Venus Collide”. Author of 16 relationship books, learn why Dr. Gray feels that this book is his best ever. Find out why stress, and women entering the work force, have changed the dynamics of the relationship scenario in ways that alter a woman’s hormone, oxytocin. Find out what must be done to restore oxytocin, and what happens when it is not replenished. Learn about the man’s important sex hormone, testosterone, what is needed for it to flourish, and what can happen to compromise it, as well. Enjoy Dr. Gray’s stories about romance when the hormones are working in concert… and picture what happens when they are not! Find out what men and women can do naturally to restore hormone balance, both in and out of the bedroom. Rev up your relationship by getting your brain chemistry to work for you! It’s fun, easy, and feels great!

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Episode 64: The Shaman Method of Sacred Sex Magic (Part Two) with Kamala Devi

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Kamala Devi, co-author of Sacred Sexual Healing (along with Baba Dez Nichols), about the ancient secret ritual of sexual magic. Who does it? What can you ask for? What is not a good way to ask for things? Find out why ritual will empower your requests even further. What is the way to do a ritual? How can you intensify orgasms to add fuel to the fires? Is there a best way to make love? Can single people, and single-gendered couples do these rites? Learn the entire ritual as laid out in the SHAMAN method in their new book and find out just how often is appropriate for you to be asking for, and manifesting, all the dreams you’ve been desiring! Find out how easy it is, and how you just might be adding to world peace in the process!

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Episode 63: The Shaman Method of Sacred Sexual Healing (Part One) with Kamala Devi

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Kamala Devi, co-author of Sacred Sexual Healing (along with Baba Dez Nichols), about what it takes to be a healer, and, to be healed. Learn what is a daka (male tantric healer) and a dakini (female sexual healer). What is a shamanic healing tradition? Why go outside western medicine? Learn why healing and being “healed” is so important as on ongoing process that is a part of the normal, natural life cycle, and not just for “sick” people.
What are some of the symptoms that might indicate that you would benefit from shamanic healing? How do body, mind, heart, and spirit all contribute to sexuality? Why is the orgasmic energy so important…. even if your problem is about orgasm? What is one practice you do to get the orgasmic energy flowing more smoothly? Listen as Kamala describes a session with a woman who comes in with a problem with low libido and be a fly on the wall as you hear a professional at work. Find out how Kamala’s and Dez’s new book empowers everyone to be a healer if they so choose, in the privacy of their own home.

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Episode 62: Love Beyond All Words… in Truth, Action, and Presence (Part Two) with Bernie Prior

Hear Dr. Patti interview Bernie Prior in Part Two of this exciting two part investigation into Love Beyond All Words. In Part One, Bernie has already described the masculine and feminine energies, consciousness, and the value of trauma and drama. He now goes on to describe “truth”… a knowing. Bernie points to this ineffable quality poetically in a number of ways as he keeps Dr. Patti (and no doubt, thousands of our other listeners) spellbound. He describes love, as it impacts men, women, and people (beyond gender). Find out his way of using movement (called the “Form”) to end the experience of duality in the body and mind, and listen as he describes his process. Discover why we may think we have or want a soul mate for one reason… but really call one in for entirely different reasons. Learn more about the value of self-love as the opportunity to support all loving relationships, starting with yourself, but including everyone you meet, including your partner. Bernie’s pure Tantric principles are sure to educate, delight, inspire, and motivate you. Learn about his work worldwide, and how he transforms people, and their relationships, with what he teaches. As a special treat, Bernie shares a poem that has been moving crowds profoundly - that just might melt your heart, too. A show to be heard over and over!

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Episode 61: Love Beyond All Words: A Powerful Path for Men and Women (Part One) with Bernie Prior

Have you ever wondered how to take your love life to the next level? Or, how to get your love life out of a seemingly endless loop of confusion, anger, and mystery? Well, the answers may lie in pure, Tantric teachings. Listen as Dr. Patti interviews Bernie Prior, a realized Tantric master, who gives an illuminating perspective on the nature of men, women, lovemaking, consciousness, and more. Find out why we are so much more than just men and women, and what it really means to embody the masculine and feminine principles. Find out why “trauma and drama” have such great value that propel us forward in our growth, and take us to this very moment of presence! Learn why going beyond the ego-mind of consciousness will pave the way to deeper love, and what this deeper love is like. Find out what you have to do, and “be”, in order to experience the profound states of consciousness that occur when embodying the pure masculine, and feminine - as well as the combined state of unity. Learn what lovemaking from this state is like as well! Are these states available to you? Learn how they are, and what you can do on a practical level to live in this place of love on a day to day basis. A deeply inspiring show that is sure to open your heart to new ways of living, and loving so much more!

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Episode 60: The Art of Taking a Woman Over the Edge (Part Two) with Daka Raj

Hear Dr. Patti continue her juicy chat with Daka Raj about the art of doing a woman. “Doing”, which is the  act of giving someone genital pleasure, can be used to take a woman to the heights of prolonged ecstasy, felt in the body, mind, heart, and spirit of both the giver and receiver. We begin with considering ways to stay “in the flow” of the date, and what to do when the giver starts wondering, “what’s next?”

We consider ways to bring a woman into higher states of pleasure, until a giver chooses to take her over orgasmic edges. Learn what strokes you might try to accomplish this! Find out what to do once you’ve brought a woman over the orgasmic edge to keep her there. And, discover the fun there is to be had on the “downside” or aftermath of a do date. All this and more is way fun, as Dr. Patti and Daka Raj get totally turned on, just talking about talking…and  teasing… giving exquisite pleasure… and more!. You’ll even learn a little more about what Patti is up to next.

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Episode 59: The Art of Doing a Woman (Part One) with Daka Raj

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Daka Raj about the art of doing a woman. “Doing”, which is the  act of giving someone genital pleasure, can be used to take a woman to the heights of prolonged ecstasy, felt in the body, mind, heart, and spirit of both the giver and receiver. Discover why Dr. Patti has found this to be such a rewarding lifelong practice. This program is chock full of specific details. Learn about positions, and what to do to get a woman engorged. Why this is so important? Find out more about finding “her favorite spot” and staying on it. Learn why continuity is so essential, and how to know when to keep doing the same stroke vs. making changes. Find out what to do with your bottom hand, too. Join in as Patti and Daka Raj have a virtual date, - the chemistry is high! Join in and become inspired to have this kind of pleasure in your own life.

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Episode 58: Orgasmic Urban Tantra for Women (Part Two) with Barbara Carrellas

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Barbara Carrellas, sex educator and author of the bestseller, “Urban Tantra”, about giving and receiving orgasmic awaking erotic massages to women. Find out how you can use breath to go into orgasmic states. Learn that you really can “fake it till you make it”. Do Dr. Patti and Barbara use breath to enhance feeling by breathing? If so, is there more than one kind of breathing? What would these kinds of breaths sound like? Then, learn some of the kinds of strokes that you can give a woman on her labia, heart, abdomen, clitoris, and internally. Find out where Dr. Patti and Barbara have similar tastes in pleasuring! And, is a hard woman good to find, and if so, why? (Hint: use the word “engorgement” in your answer.) Is an electric vibrator a good thing, and if so, what is the optimal type, large or small? How might you use one? Where might you use one? The answers may surprise you. This show is full of fun, surprises, and turn-on! Your girlfriend or wife will thank you many times over for taking careful notes and listening more than once to this show, full of useful facts that will be helpful, as well as thoroughly entertaining!

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Episode 57: Orgasmic Urban Tantra for Men (Part One) with Barbara Carrellas

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Barbara Carrellas, author of the bestselling book, Urban Tantra, Sacred Sex for the Twenty First Century. Find out how Barbara defines Urban Tantra, and neo-Tantra. Learn about the all-important “resilient edge”, and how you can tell if you’re doing it right, at cocktail parties, and, on cats! Discover the art of “seeing energy”. Then, learn how to give and receive the male erotic awakening massage. Find out why breath is the most important element of all. Is orgasm important? Find out just why it is, and isn’t. What are the goals of this type of pleasure? Learn this, and so much more, as Barbara thrills, enchants, and educates with charm, knowledge, and turn-on. What types of strokes do you give a man’s cock, and body? How do you spread the energy to prevent ejaculation? What do you do with the breath to send yourself into an amazing mind-blowing experience? Your fellow will be so happy you listened to this show!

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Episode 56: The Intimate Lovemaking Dance (Part Two) with Gayle Michaels

In Part Two of this interview, hear Dr. Patti chat with Gayle Michaels. an anthropologist, a sexologist, a writer and an Intimate Dance Teacher. She is the author of the book, Vinyasa Tantra Illustrated, How to do The Intimate Dance.

In this show, you’ll learn more about this elegant and sophisticated style of making love that involves transitioning through numerous positions while remaining intimately united with your lover. Gayle describes the Intimate Dance so beautifully, you can feel the energy pouring right out through, and over the air! Find out what women need to know about the physical requirements for engaging in this dance. Learn more details, such as what non-orgasmic women have discovered about this art form, and how some clients and students of the Intimate Dance have had life-and-relationship altering experiences. Learn why Gayle feels this art form contributed so much to her own orgasmic awakening, and why she feels that this work helps make the world a more loving, safe, connected place for everyone.

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Episode 55: The Intimate Lovemaking Dance (Part One) with Gayle Michaels

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Gayle Michaels. an anthropologist, a sexologist, a writer and an Intimate Dance Teacher. She is the author of the book, Vinyasa Tantra Illustrated, How to do The Intimate Dance. She works with clients in person and by phone and is located in Austin, Texas.

Gayle has developed the series of lovemaking positions designed to give you that ultimate lovemaking experience, which she calls The Intimate Dance. In this show, you’ll learn more about this elegant and sophisticated style of making love that involves transitioning through numerous positions while remaining intimately united with your lover.

In Part One of this interview, hear Dr. Patti and Gayle describe the positions, some of the emotional and spiritual requirements for doing this to perfection. You’ll also learn about the physical requirements for a man to go through all eleven positions and other details, such as how hard (or easy) is this to learn and how long does it take? Find out how it feels to achieve this state of bliss!  You’ll also hear the experiences of some of the people who have studied this method.

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Episode 54: The Art of Instant Orgasm (Part Two) with Drs. Steve and Vera Bodansky

In Part Two of this interview, hear Dr. Patti talk once again with Drs. Steve and Vera Bodansky about Instant Orgasm. Discover how the art of being playful can help partners overcome resistances to pleasure and be a part of the building up of pleasure. Find out all about peaking, and why peaking is so important to having a prolonged sense of pleasure. Learn how you can incorporate the art of Instant Orgasm into an Extended Massive Orgasm date so that the energy will stay fresh and juicy. Listen as Drs. Steve and Vera describe what they do in their client consulting, and how peoples’ relationships, and lives, are being transformed by becoming more orgasmic. Great work! The Bodanskys are modeling being totally (instantly) orgasmic as they write, teach, talk, and go about their lives.

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Episode 53: The Art of Instant Orgasm (Part One) with Drs. Steve and Vera Bodansky

In Part One of this interview, hear Dr. Patti talk to Drs. Steve and Vera Bodanksy, the famous teachers of the art of Extended Massive Orgasm. Learn what is an “Instant Orgasm”, and why they feel it so important to emphasize learning the skill of having one. Find out what you can do to become “instantly orgasmic”. When and where and how often can you have these? Learn how developing connections between your genitals and other body parts can make your whole body respond more orgasmically. Find out how can you practice Instant Orgasm, and how Instant Orgasm relates to their other teachings on Extended Massive Orgasm? Discover the value of resistance, as the Bodanskys role-play overcoming resistances as a part of building turn-on with hot and juicy dialog. Everyone’s having massive “instant orgasms” all through the show! So join in and learn how you can, too.

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Episode 52: Sexy Positions for Oral Lovemaking, G-Spot and More (Part Two) with Kim Switnicki

In Part Two of this interview, women will learn new ways to give oral sex that open up their throat area and allow more pleasure to flow through. Men will find out new ways to give a woman oral pleasure as well. Then, find out more about the g-spot… what is it, and how to make love to your woman so as to hit this fabled place. Find out reasons why you may not have been finding the g-spot and what to do about it. Learn how a man’s penis size can be taken into account when making love. All this and more fun, juicy, sexy conversation between Dr. Patti and Kim Switnicki, which is sure to inspire you to try all sorts of new ways to connect with your loved one.

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Episode 51: Sexy Positions for Expanded Lovemaking (Part One) with Kim Switnicki

In Part One of this interview, hear Dr. Patti talk to Kim Switnicki, an expert in promoting pleasure between men and women. Find out how to get started in expanding your lovemaking and intercourse repertoire. What are some new positions you might try? How can you get your lover interested in exploring? What are the accessories that help your experiments be comfortable for both of you? You will be inspired to try self-loving, manual, and kissing as well as many intercourse positions in this juicy, sexy show!

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Episode 50: Balancing and Transcending Roles to Fuel an Orgasmic Life Part 2 with Mariana Bozesan

In Part Two, we talk again with Mariana Bozesan, social and serial entrepreneur, parent, and inspirational speaker, about the Tantric dance. Discover how this is so deeply connected to achieving the highest levels of relationship. Learn what you can do as a couple to overcome stuck places, and also, practices that will get you relating fully. Find out what the most passionate people on the planet have about them that makes them so charismatic and desirable. Can you achieve the highest levels of relationship or is this a state meant only for highly evolved world figures? Learn what Mariana shares with her own students about the world of living a successful life that will feed your passion forever and fuel it to ever-increasing depth and richness. 

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Episode 49: Balancing and Transcending Roles to Fuel an Orgasmic Life with Mariana Bozesan

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Mariana Bozesan, social and serial entrepreneur, parent, and inspirational speaker, about how to transcend the roles and identities that keep all of us stuck at a certain level of relationship. In Part One of this interview, you will learn about the four levels of relationship, and how each one uniquely contributes to our abilities to experience more passion. Learn the risks inherent in staying at only one particular level of relating, and what it takes to do the inner work to be the kind of person you would want to make love to.

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Episode 48: Becoming a Masterful Orgasmic Provider Part 2 with Richard Anton Diaz

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Richard "Anton" Diaz, the founder of Sexy Spirits and Club Tantra. based in New York City. He is the creator of Taontric Massage, a teacher in Expanded Orgasm Technique, a Taoist Instructor and student under Master Mantak Chia, and currently developing a 4 level training program entitled, Becoming Orgasmic Providers for Women.

I think our listeners will love this show because Anton will show us all how he has developed a very successful program for men to become orgasmic providers for women. He teaches the psychological skills as well as physical and mental touches that send women into bliss once they’ve agreed to have a sensual or sexual date.

Hear him explain further details of this amazing program. Listen in as he and Dr. Patti role play a live date situation in which the woman freezes up, and how Anton expertly uses Power Dialogues to get her to see the real issues behind her actions. Listen as he shares other examples of the power and juiciness of his program, and even a story from his personal life.

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Episode 47: Becoming a Masterful Orgasmic Provider with Richard Anton Diaz

Hear Dr. Patti chat with Richard "Anton" Diaz, the founder of Sexy Spirits and Club Tantra, based in New York City. He is the creator of Taontric Massage, a teacher in Expanded Orgasm Technique, a Taoist Instructor and student under Master Mantak Chia, and currently developing a 4 level training program entitled, Becoming Orgasmic Providers for Women.

Anton has developed a very successful program for men to become orgasmic providers for women. He teaches the psychological skills as well as physical and mental touches that send women into bliss once they’ve agreed to have a sensual or sexual date. Learn a little about the history of the “do” date. Find out how to meet women by posting an ad offering them pure orgasmic and/or sensual pleasure, and why women would want to come to meet you through an ad. Learn the value of “no strings attached”. Find out why the course is in four parts … and why all four parts are essential!  And, get a great example of what has happened in the course by applying Anton’s principles.

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Episode 46: Part Two: Healing The Feminine Genitals with a Yoni/Womb Blessing with Charmaine

In Part Two of this Two Part Series, hear Dr. Patti interview Rev. Charmaine, ordained by the New Seminary, a school of interfaith theology in New York City. She is a Reiki Master, certified hypnotherapist, trained aroma therapist, and tantric energy specialist. Learn about the yoni (or pussy, or female genital) massage that a man (or woman) can give a woman that will give her great pleasure, healing, and joy. Learn how this blessing technique shifted the way Charmaine viewed life, her body, and more. It’s easy to do, if both partners have the intention to give and receive love. Find out the intricate details of how to do it to perfection in a variety of settings, and how special an event this can be! Learn more about some of the other work Charmaine does, how she uses energy reading to work with couples, and naked erotic ecstatic gatherings!

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Episode 45: Ecstatic Marriage of Sexuality and Spirit with Rev. Charmaine

In Part One of this Two Part Series, hear Dr. Patti interview Rev. Charmaine, ordained by the New Seminary, a school of interfaith theology in New York City. She is a Reiki Master, certified hypnotherapist, trained aroma therapist, and tantric energy specialist. Hear Dr. Patti and Charmaine discuss what it means to be connected in heart, body, mind, and spirit. What is a prayer? Learn about masturbation mediation (can that also be a calling to the divine)… and whether or not… or how much… you can access your sexual energy for all of life’s needs. Why is this important, and how can it contribute to stronger partnerships and more orgasmic energy?
 
Find out why Charmaine chose this path, what you can do to combine your own sexual and spiritual energies, and be inspired by Rev. Charmaine’s passion about her practices. Find out what she teaches her clients, why she feels this connections of spirit and sex will contribute towards planetary healing, and your own healing, vitality, and joy for life! You may feel inspired and amazed at what you hear on this astonishing series of revelations!

This show is a perfect precursor to the topics we will cover in Part Two.

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Episode 44: Having a Hotter, Greener Sex Life with Dr. Ann Haiden

Hear Dr. Haiden and Dr. Patti discuss the latest findings in the field of integrative medicine, and how they might relate to sexual libido and mood. Find out some basic things to look for in wondering if you’ve been “affected” by the environment, in terms of your sexual performance. What areas should you be concerned about? Can you test yourself to see if your hormones are in balance? How would you know if they are out of balance? What other factors might come into consideration if you are not quite “in the mood” the way you want to be? Is there hope for reversing the effect of living in today’s environment? Dr. Haiden feels there is, and offers suggestions that you can practice at home, as well as tests you can request from your doctor. If you feel that there’s more to you than you presently have to offer a partner, and you are not quite sure why you can’t find it… it might just be that this show will open your eyes to many new possibilities! Dr. Ann’s blog, www.gogreenlivehealthy.com, fills in where this show leaves off to give listeners much to hope for and lots of inspiration and knowledge, to clean up their lives inside and out… and along the way, enjoy better, hotter, greener sex!

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Episode 43: Secrets of Self-Loving and Orgasmic Opening with Dr. Patti Taylor

In this unique show, Hear Dr. Patti, the regular host of our Expanded Lovemaking show, talk about her introduction to self-loving, or masturbation, at a late age, her reactions to it, and her choices of how to respond. She gives suggestions about how to begin. Dr. Patti recommends other Expanded Lovemaking Show interviews to listen to that are relevant, and even good toys to help create the perfect self-loving date. Decide if “witnessing” is for you, either secretly or openly, and how to use masturbation as a teaching device for a more orgasmic experience with yourself or a partner. Hear how to discover more about your own changing body. Learn how to apply this knowledge to accompany intercourse for more orgasmic experiences there as well! This sensitive topic addresses concerns that many men and women share. So many newcomers to sex, as well as experienced lovers, have the potential to benefit. Find out why!

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Episode 42: Transforming Sexual Energy into Spiritual Power with Victor Gold - Part Two

Hear Dr. Patti and Victor Gold, author of “The Potency Principles”. Discuss the principles of Potency for Men that all men will want to lean in order to become better lovers and gain access to a more connected body, heart, spirit, and mind. Learn how we are all generating sexual energy and how we can spread that energy to our hearts. Find out what positions in lovemaking generate the greatest relaxation. Learn why men have different challenges than women, and how to overcome these. Learn how opening the heart energy helps men have “heart-gasms”— and what even women can do to open their hearts as well. Find out what using the breath properly will do to your orgasmic energy. Why did Victor write this book? Is there such a thing as sex magic? How is it used properly? Would more sexual energy transformation change the world? See if this program in your life starts you feeling, thinking, and manifesting in totally new ways!

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Episode 41: Transforming Sexual Energy into Spiritual Power with Victor Gold - Part One

Hear Dr. Patti and Victor Gold, author of “The Potency Principles”. Discuss the importance of male retention of ejaculation and how this will bring pleasure to his partner and himself. He describes how to do it, and ways in which your female partner can benefit. Victor discusses his favorite ways to explore the women’s g-spot as well. Learn the benefits of relaxation and how these practices lead to spiritual transformation and profound connection to yourself and all around you. Listen as Dr. Patti and Victor delve into some juicy details of specific lovemaking sessions, and ways to use all the extra orgasmic energy that has been saved as a result of not being spent. You and your partner will be inspired and educated by this information!

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Episode 40: Cybersex: Expanding Sex, Love, and Consciousness through Technology with Regina Lynn

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Regina Lynn, sex-ed columnist for Wired.com and author of two books, including the just-released Sexier Sex: Lessons from the Brave New Sexual Frontier. Discover just how many people are using all sorts of technology - cell phones, web cams, and the Internet for fun, spice, and even healing.  Hear Regina reveal her own journey as she and her partner get exposed together to the online world, and Regina learns to be orgasmic for the first time.  Can you be orgasmic with an online partner? What instruments could you use?  What would online sex sound like, or look like? Enjoy Regina’s descriptions of red-hot oral sex online, and how people might have hot encounters with their partners as well. Did you know you can send sexy pictures, voice messages, and more to a loved one?  We even cover how to do this safely! Regina busts the myths that the Internet does not have “ordinary” people on it.  It is full of normal people, though many of them may be trying on all sorts of new personae, or personalities.  Learn Regina’s viewpoints on the future of online love. In the show, she gives lots of links and also shares some excitement with Dr. Patti about her fantastic new book, truly a comprehensive reference for anyone looking to meet new friends in this vast online world we live in today.

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Episode 39: Sex as a Powerful Path of Awakening with Dr. Johanina Wikoff

In this show, hear Patti talk to Dr. Johanina Wikoff, a couples counselor, and well-known, widely-experienced, widely-read Tantra teacher who is passionate about her lineage, Kashmiri Shaivism, and its teachings.  Discover how she has found a way to bridge the gap between the esoteric writings of illumination, ecstasy, and transcendence, and, the bliss of embodiment through orgasm.  Discover Johanina’s amazing upbringing.  Get her observations from her recent trip to a World Congress on Spirituality in India on differences between Eastern and Western means of practicing transcendence in the body, and why Johanina feels that Western practitioners may have an edge!  Johanina describes orgasm, and gives us some practical examples of how to spread orgasm through the body. Drs. Patti and Johanina go into an amazing riff on just what is orgasm, what is it feel like, and why and how it changes as we age?  This alone is so priceless, that you may want to hear the show many times over! Learn that orgasm, for those who seek awakening through spirituality, can be so much more than just sex.  Learn the differences that men and women cope with when seeking to experience awakens sex with one another, and how to navigate those differences.  Listen as Drs. Patti and Johanina role-play a couple wanting more enlightened sex. This episode will truly uplift your mind, body, heart, spirit, and soul. It may also inspire you to begin practicing new ways to awaken to more types of orgasmic, awakened pleasure, starting today!

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Episode 38: The Sacred Art of the Striptease with Diane Greenberg

In this show, get ready for the sensational and extraordinary Ms. Diane Greenberg, a professional stripper, love coach, Tantric healer, and creator of the instructional DVD, The Sacred Art of the Striptease. Learnhow to strip to please ourselves and our audiences of one or a hundred! What does a good striptease consist of? Who is a good candidate for stripping? What if you have body issues? (Does everyone?) How will stripping change your life forever, in the best possible ways? Why is this a sacred art? Then listen in as Diane thrills Patti and listeners everywhere with a smokin’-hot strip show, that she details move by move. Diane reveals her self-assurance and profound inner beauty, which translates perfectly over the airwaves. She tells us exactly what is going on inside her mind, and what moves to make, to drive herself wild, as well as to guarantee that temperatures soar for all watching! Hands, hair, butts, breasts, backs, legs, bras, panties, are all going sensuously up and down, in manners playful, posing, elegant, luscious, oh-so-naughty, and more. Well, it’s whatever Diane wants, as she makes it up, moment by moment. Learn how you can strip, too, and discover the deep inner benefits that may surprise you and bless you in all areas of your life! Diane shares stories of students and clients… but wait, there’s even more: Dr. Patti confesses her joy of stripping that has come from taking Diane’s class! You’ll want to hear this show many times over!

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Episode 37: Sex, Orgasm, Fun and Money: How to Have More of All of This in Your Life! with Dr. Dain Heer

In this show, you'll meet Dr. Dain Heer, a chiropractor who travels the world teaching people how to have way more sex, fun, pleasure, money, and yes, even orgasms in their life!  Learn the key differences between sex, sexuality, sensualness, and copulation which will help you make the kinds of offers that potential partners will gladly say yes to.  Find out : are women are really more aggressive than they often let on, given the right opportunity? What would you say to make a good opening offer for sexual fun? What can we do to reclaim the full potential of our orgasmic nature? Dain gives us several suggestions for bedroom play designed to wake up our orgasmic senses. Just listening to Dain will wake up your senses! Learn how all of us have can be better receivers and how having more sex, fun, and copulation will lead to having more money in our lives!  Dain gives us several useful tools for clearing out the mind- stuff that gets in the way of our having everything we want in all these areas.  He also inspires us with true stories of people that have achieved phenomenal results in a matter of days after using these processes, that he teaches to thousands of people all over the world. Isn't it nice to know that we can all have more sex, orgasm, fun, and money, if that is what we truly desire, and it can be an easy, joyful choice?

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Episode 36: Is There a Teacher of Love Inside of You? with Northstar

In this show, Dr. Patti talks to Northstar, an awakened, well-traveled, well read Tantra teacher who has taken it upon himself to develop his skills and talents over the years, all while holding down a nine to five job in Jackson Hole, Wyoming. Starting with a profound sexual awakening experience while at college, Northstar has relentlessly pursued classes, workshops and experiences to further develop an expanded consciousness, through all sorts of workshops, including meditation, movement, dance, and sexuality. He shares with us his own unique techniques for enhancing the amount of kundalini, or vibratory chi energy that flows through one's body.  He then gives us a technique for spreading heart energy, and tells us how to use this energy to enhance orgasmic intensity and pleasure.  We can also use this technique to increase connection with a beloved. Learn how to send and receive energy through special eye gazing and energetic resonance that will have you seeing colors and even hearing music during lovemaking! Apply these techniques, with breathing techniques, in a layering fashion, along with your expanded orgasmic touches, to create a symphonic expanded orgasmic experience. Discover his opinion on whether reading books will help you learn to be a teacher, whether you can raise kundalini on your own, and how and where to meet partners. Hear Northstar and Dr. Patti discuss other issues related to becoming your own self-taught teacher of love. And inspiring show for everyone!

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Episode 35: Tongue Kung Fu: Sacred Secrets, Passionate Practices, and Tantalizing Techniques with Karinna Kittles-Karsten

Discover Karinna Kittles-Karsten, the best-selling author of “Intimate Wisdom” and creator of the DVD “Sexual Kung Fu”, who combines Eastern and Western wisdom.  Learn how in the Taoist system of sexual mastery, people find it normal to practice their sexual skills, such as Tongue Kung Fu. Find out the types of motions you can make with your tongue, such as tongue flittering, tongue scooping, and tongue diving. Next, learn some applications for these tantalizing tongue skills, and where you might use them on a lover’s body. Note: unexpected places, like ears are also candidates!  Learn how obvious places, like lips, genitals, necks, and more can be skillfully pleasured with a knowing tongue. Tongue skills require connecting ourselves to our emotions, which explains why on one day, we may feel shy with our tongues, and bold on another day.  Hear Dr. Patti and Karinna explore intimate situations, and how to handle them, when one person is feeling tentative or nervous and the other person wants to initiate more playful engagement! Find out how to tongues figure into “69”, mutual oral sex position.  And learn about “Ambrosia”, the art of tasting one another. This show is one in a million, and Karinna, charm, and sweep you off your feet with her presence of warmth as well as the value of her information.  This is surely a show you in your partner will listen to, and want to go home and try to many tips, as soon as possible. I know I'm inspired!

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Episode 34: Optimize Orgasmic Energy with Timeless Taoist Secrets with John Zielinski

In this show, Learn as Dr. Patti goes into depth with John Zielinski about why the Taoist system is so powerful. Hear about the energetic “storm” that is created at birth, that helps create males and females, and the energy streams that give us all life force energy stream. Why is this significant? Learn about the BIGGEST Taoist secret of all: The Microcosmic Orbit: how it works, and how you can incorporate it into your sexuality. Can both men and women can use it? Learn how men can use the “big draw” and “little draw” to influence ejaculatory patterns.  Discover the yin-yang exchange that will help lovemaking go to the deepest levels imaginable, and how to create this exchange with a beloved. Now, do you need to be in a particular Taoist position? If so, what or which are best?

John shares with us the specific books, DVDs, and learning that help us study sexual Taoist sexual mastery. He illustrates why couples find this system a rich resource for building passion as well. He discusses and answers the “ejaculation” question – should men ejaculate, and if so, on what frequency? John generously gives us some more great “pieces” to add to our “building blocks” of “must-have” knowledge about the valuable Taoist system of lovemaking!

This show ties in to our EL Show #28 very nicely, where we interview his teacher, Mantak Chia, on the overview of Taoist Lovemaking. A rich show, chock-full of information and inspiration!

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Episode 33: The Erotic Rockstar’s Three-Day Orgasmic Miracle Makeover with Destin Gerek

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Destin Gerek, a Sexological Bodyworker, sex educator, artist, video producer, and, of course, the original “Erotic Rockstar”. Just who is this fascinating persona? Think of those times you seen someone reaching out to an admiring audience, or otherwise welcoming person, confident in love, and voilà!  This person performs with generosity, delight, sparkle, and verve! How does he or she do it? Is this something you can do, and if so how?  Destin gives you a three day erotic makeover program which, when followed, is the opposite of a diet.  It's a splurge! Find out what you can do on days one, two, and three to prepare for the date of a lifetime. Be ready to step outside your normal routine with simple, easy, and fun practices designed to have you feel way more confident, sexy, and self-loving. Discover why self exploration is so valuable, and hear the different ways to do it on different days.  Learn how eye engagement will blow your partner's heart wide open. Swivel those hips, move that breath, and get that sound going to really amp up your level of sensation! Destin’s voice alone will melt and inspire anyone alive! After your three days, you'll meet your partner, who's hopefully been practicing as well.  But, if not, no worries.  Destin will walk you through taking the lead in love, as any great Erotic Rockstar would. You’ll create an amazingly loving and memorable experience.

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Episode 32: Sharing the Bliss of All-Chakra Lovemaking with Dr. Sasha Lessin and Janet Lessin

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Dr. Sasha Lessin and his wife, Janet Lessin, about All-Chakra Tantra. The Lessins are the founders of the School of Tantra in Maui, Hawaii, where they teach people to make love with their whole being, and to unblock any and all stuck places that get in the way of intimacy, personal power and full orgasmic presence. Learn what the chakras mean, and how to use them to create a beautiful lovemaking ceremony.  Experience for yourself a dynamic process that Sasha and Janet use to generate connection using the seven chakras to send shivers of delight up your spine! You can feel the energy while listening, and better yet, also reproduce this in your own home with the handout the Lessins give. Then, tune in as Sasha gives Janet a reenactment of a full ejaculatory orgasm.  Sasha very specifically goes stroke by stroke over exactly how he evokes every little nuance and pleasure from Janet’s clit and “cave”, as well as creating her “gushing” over the edge. Youwill get lots of specific ideas. Janet’s commentaries on the emotional impact of Sasha’s touches, and her vulnerability, are priceless, as are both of their spoken words to one another. Learn the kind of work the Lessins do to help others with issues such as sexual healing and emotional blocks to sex in their private counseling. This show models how easily true expanded love can be made! Plus, find out how they connect their work to planetary healing.

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Episode 31: Secrets of a Sex Escort: What Men Really Want with Veronica Monet

In this show, hear Dr. Patti talk to Veronica Monet, who has 14 years of “hands-on” experience as a courtesan. She is also Certified Sex Educator, specializing in sexuality, anger management, non-violent communication and relationship dynamics.  Find out how Veronica started life in a normal job and ended up in this unusual one, and the shocking discovery she made about her new job requirements! What do men really want?  What did she have to do to please men, and how did she go about learning? Can women of all “professions” and walk of life learn to please a man?  What happens once a session begins? What does Veronica do to drive a man into ecstasy? Listen as Dr. Patti and Veronica discuss their favorite fun ways to please men (and women) with simple action, that can easily be done even after a long day.  You'd be surprised at how little it takes to bring a smile (and an enthusiastic response) from a man, when the intention is there! Don't miss Veronica’s juicy description of how to please a man or a woman by noticing breathing and other nonverbal cues! You'll be totally inspired to go home and try this out immediately! Discover how role reversal can add spice, and the value of communication for adding to the passion. Veronica's many tips are sure to thrill, titillate, and just plain turn you on.

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Episode 30: Adding Creative Fantasy to Your Favorite Intimate Activities with Heron Saline

Dr. Patti and Heron Saline discuss how to add savor and spice to your lovemaking so that it feels safe, and yet expanded.  Heron Saline, a master hypnotherapist, has over 30 years experience in a wide range of integrated mind/body therapeutic modalities. Discover what is safe to have as a fantasy?  What about those thoughts we don't want to have?  How can we enjoy our fantasies, and use them for added turn-on with a loved one? What about solo sex?  Listen as Heron creates a real time exercise with Dr. Patti, in which she has a fantasy right on the air involving a growling, hot, passionate lover! Find out where she feels this in her body, and the questions you can ask your lover to encourage him or her to develop their fantasies too.  Listeners can learn to ask their partner open-ended questions to encourage them to develop their fantasies. Such questions can be fun, revealing, and even lead to avenues of profound self-exploration and development. Fantasy and imagination can be healing, and can take the form of role-play, situations, and other juicy scenarios.  Find out which ones Dr. Patti likes, from which ones she thinks men and women like best, respectively! Because fantasies do bring up feelings and emotions, Heron describes why some people may choose to work with a therapist in exploring how to put fantasy in the best possible context with the rest of their lovemaking life.  A truly love - and life - expanding show!

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Episode 29: Finding Sexy Gifts for Your Lover – And Yourself with Jamye Waxman

Dr. Patti and Jamye Waxman discuss the wonderful world of sex toys. Jamye is a New York City sexologist, and author of Getting Off: A Woman&’s Guide to Masturbation, which covers sex toys extensively, as well as providing a compendium of all kinds of lists sex-pleasurable to encourage the woman to gift herself with pleasure.& And, she&’s worked in a famous sex toy shop, Babeland, for over five years.

Today, there are so many products out there to choose from. They come in an array of materials, shapes, sizes, and functions. You&’ll learn all about what products women choose most when they buy a toy. What are the latest trends in vibrators? What are the features, and distinctions we might want to be looking for (and lusting over?) What&’s new in dildoes? How do we know which one to buy? Find out why glass is so desired! And learn about Jamye&’s own favorite picks!

Discover men&’s toys, including the one every man (apparently) dreams of owning!& There are dildoes, vibrating cock rings, &“butt balls&” and &“sleeves&” that even couples getting racy can have hours of fun with! A woman will find it easy to gift her man after hearing some of these suggestions!

After a thoughtful discussion of lubes, and how to shop for gifts, we consider why Jamye wrote a book on women&’s masturbation, and, just gifting yourself… with yourself! A totally fun, meaningful, and hot, playful show!

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Episode 28: Multiple Orgasm Triggers – A Program For More Pleasurable and Intensified Orgasms with Jack Johnston

In this show, Dr. Patti asks Jack Johnston to describe the revolutionary Multiple Orgasm Trigger Method for men and women, designed to intensify pleasurable sensation, prolong feelings before ejaculation (for men), and experience wave after wave of orgasmic pleasure. Jack tells us how the protocol works, and why he feels it so effective for prolonging orgasm.& Learn why the use of sound can be so essential for bringing out and accentuating the body's own orgasmic wiring. Find out why Dr. Patti is so excited to learn of the applications of this technology. Learn about the range of orgasmic situations and challenges that can be addressed with these practices: premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and inability to have orgasm are just a few.& People seeking to intensify already functional and exceptional sex lives also love this work.& Find out about Jack's extensive support network surrounding his audio program and the Key Sound that he teaches, and why a deep Barry White voice is so sexy! Learn how thousands of others have responded to doing this work, and what Dr. Patti and her partner felt when they began practicing in preparation for the show. Note: the turn on went in unexpected directions! Patti reads comments from Jack&’s user group for a &“reality show&” feeling this week. You'll get the point: this stuff is amazing and really works!& Check out this show, it's not to be missed. Rather&— share it with everyone you want to see have a spring in their step and a smile on their face!

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Episode 27: Cultivating Energy For Healing, Sexual Bliss, Lovemaking and Transcendence with Mantak Chia

In this rare show, hear Dr. Patti converse with Master Mantak Chia, world-famous teacher of the cultivation of energy leading to increased health, well-being, and sexual mastery for both men and women. Chia is famous as a Chi Gung and sexual energy master whose overarching system of practices includes an array of activities for maintaining health and well-being in body, mind, heart, and spirit. In the sexual arena, and in the West, he is famous for his work on the Microcosmic Orbit, leading to practices of non-ejaculatory orgasm for men and more orgasmic bliss for women and couples. He is the author/ co-author of many books, including &“the Multi-Orgasmic Man&”, the Multi-Orgasmic Couple&”, and the &“Multi-Orgasmic Woman&”, all bringing amazing as well as useful Taoist wisdom to our culture.& In this interview, Master Chia gives us a full range of his thinking on Taoist system of sexual energy cultivation. Hear Dr. Patti explore with Master Chia the cosmological and philosophical roots of this system, practical exercises for men and women for cultivating this sexual energy within themselves, and ways to deepen heart energy. You&’ll learn techniques for Taoist lovemaking and more! Again, this is a rare interview hear it and savor it many times over.& It is sure to inspire you and open your mind!

We are fortunate that Master Chia has recorded some of his rare teachings on DVD for home viewing and study.& Recommended DVDs to accompany this show include the following:

The Sexual Alchemy Healing Love Five CD Set

The Inner Alchemy CD Set which includes the Microcosmic Orbit

The Cosmic Inner Smile

The Cosmic Healing Sounds

Iron Shirt Chi Kung to Awaken Internal Healing Energy

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Episode 26: Empowering the G-spot and Female Ejaculation with Deborah Sundahl

In this awesome show you&’ll meet Deborah Sundahl, the international sex educator who specializes in teaching women and couples about the G-spot and female ejaculation. You&’ll learn what the G-spot is, what area it covers, and how to explore this area (as a woman) manually and with a sex toy. Find out the differences between clitoral orgasms and G-spot orgasms, and what you&’d do to touch a woman differently? Learn why relaxation is such an important key to G-spot orgasms and ejaculations. Female ejaculations come in all sizes and flavors, and you&’ll find out just the different ways you can expect them to appear. Come into a luscious mindset and learn with us! Do mechanical formulas work in getting women to ejaculate? What happens if a woman feels the need to urinate? Do &“gushers&” feel as good as small quantities? How much ejaculate can come out in one session? Would seeing other women ejaculate be enough to learn how yourself! And, does effort help produce more liquid? How can men help? Learn about the deeper emotional aspects of G-spot orgasms as well, and even the sacred links to higher consciousness of these orgasms. Find out why learning this type of orgasm is can be life long process of learning and opening to increasing levels of emotional healing, awakening, and bliss. find out what motivates Deborah to keep teaching after all these years! With Deborah&’s books, videos, workshops, and even streaming videos, you&’ll feel you have lots of resources available, after hearing this show!

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Episode 25: Love Play - A Path of Presence and Transcendence with Bernie Prior, Master Teacher of Pure Tantra
In this amazing show, find out how you become the kind of man that women love to go deep with; why men will realize their full being in expressing devotion to a woman, and how women can be realized in connecting fully with their own true source. Meet Bernie Prior, an enlightened man having enlightenment experiences since age 19. Find out how he himself experiences devotion and bliss by seeing the divine feminine in women everywhere, and the effect this has on a woman - especially Dr. Patti! He defines truth, and speaks eloquently on the possibilities for unifying the inner male and inner female within each of us. How would this transform us as lovers, and give us our own greater connection to truth? What would men be like, connected to their inner feminine? What would women be like, connected to their inner source? How would lovemaking be different, when men and women connected as whole, realized beings, beyond constructs of their conditioning? Can we drop our past and connect in present time... and what would our lovemaking be like if we did? Can we live like this, connected to our inner selves, full-time? What is it like to go into lovemaking rapture? Do we need to do anything, or can this happen with anyone, in any moment? Can men and women transform the way they make love? Hear the answers to these and other incredibly inspiring concepts in this unique show. more.

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Episode 24: Compassionate Communication for Intimate Needs and Desires with Lori Grace Star and Scott Catamas, Master Teachers of Compassionate Communication
In this exciting show, Dr. Patti Taylor learns more about Compassionate Communication (a communication methodology founded by Marshall Rosenberg), or Nonviolent Communication, (NVC), with Lori Grace Star and Scott Catamas, both gifted teachers of NVC. Lori, a world-renowned teacher of All-Embracing Tantra, and Scott, a brilliant videographer of many of the leading teachers of NVC are committed to sharing a profound message of bringing joy, turn-on, connection, peace and understanding. Discover how you can bring hotter, juicier, sexier, more loving playfulness, understanding, and intimacy back into your bedroom. more.

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Episode 23: Pleasurable Orgasmic Pathways in the Body, Mind, and Beyond with Barry Komisaruk, Distinguished Author and Research Professor
In this awesome show, hear Dr. Patti converse with an expert in the science of orgasm, Dr. Barry Komisaruk, who has studied men’s and women’s orgasms in scientific settings, to learn what turns them on and how to intensify orgasmic sensations. Find out how many orgasmic pathways there really are, as Dr. Komisaruk resolves the hotly contested debate between G-spot and clitoral orgasms with a surprising set of findings! Find out about the four different pathways that can create orgasm and where they are located, and all the places you might touch a woman to create orgasmic sensations. Find out where men can be stimulated, too, in addition to their penis, to expand sensation. more.

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Episode 22: Juicy Genital Massage for Women and Men with Carolena Fleishman, Director of the Sacred Space Institute
In this special show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Carolena Fleishman, Director of the Sacred Space Institute. She is a certified sexological body worker who’s facilitated healing, pleasure and transformation for thousands of men, women and couples over the past 10 years. Carolena shares how she began her own process of healing and transformation in her 20s, noticing what she didn’t notice, when she couldn’t feel pleasure in her own pussy. Find out how things have changed for her! Learn how she began using breathing and other modalities to begin feeling so much more pleasure all over her body. Carolena shares some simple breathing techniques you can do while sitting in an office or walking down the street, or even on a hot sexy dinner date. more.

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Episode 21: Juicy Questions and Powerful Practices for Feeling More Pleasure with Heather and Robert, Recent Students of Expanded Orgasm, Part Two of a Two Part Series
In this amazing show, Dr. Patti Taylor returns to answer questions for Heather and Robert, our adventurous couple who only a year ago decided to turn around a stalemated sex life and go for fun, renewed passion, and sexual awakening. Dr. Patti answers five questions to help them take the next quantum leap in their love lives, in a live private session. Enjoy the camaraderie, and intimacy, of this special show, as Dr. Patti shares her valuable knowledge with this special, wonderful couple! more.

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Episode 20: Reclaiming Sex and Passion in a Marriage with Heather and Robert, Two Recent Students of Expanded Orgasm, Part One of a Two Part Series
In this special show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Heather and Robert, a couple married over fifteen years, whose sex life had gone into a serious slump. They reveal the intimate details of making sense of a marriage whose passion had slowed to a near-stop. Follow with us as one year ago, Heather and Robert start along the path of expanding their sensuality, and listen in as it dramatically changes over the course of the next year. Learn how this couple jump-starts their connection in the bedroom and beyond. more.

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Episode 19: Neo-Taoist Perspectives on Health and Sexuality: Orgasms, Bliss, Tantra TV, Teachers, Technology, Transcendence, and More with Moses Ma, Neo-Taoist Practitioner
In this fascinating show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Moses Ma, modern day neo-Taoist. Discover the unique range of Moses's experiences, starting with his years as a Taoist celibate practitioner, sleeping on a wooden board, balancing his mental and physical state to achieve a unitary peace of mind. What happened to lead Moses to seek millions in the Internet world? What is Tantra, and what led him to the study orgasmic sexuality? What else did he find valuable? Did he retain his happiness? Did he keep, and then reconcile, his bliss and balanced hormones with the harsh demands of a fast-paced world? Learn why Moses emphasizes body, mind, sexual vitality, health, and awareness as a package deal. Discover the Taoist kegel exercises he still practices. Dr. Patti and Moses debate male orgasm and frequency of ejaculation. Find out: What is the (really powerful) and compelling "atom bomb of consciousness" mega-movement now occurring, that is waking us up? Why is he so optimistic about his newest venture, TantraTV, and why may this be the way modern seekers of transcendence meet their next teacher? Who are some of the hottest new teachers? And how will these teachers and masters differ, as they, too, adapt into a rapidly changing world? What's next? Teledildonics? Internet Tantra? Be prepared to wonder: who might you meet in the near future, in a dream, or even walking down the street? Who's perfect for you, on your next quantum leap on your journey to enlightenment? more.

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Episode 18: Guide Exquisite Lovemaking with Knowledge of the Mind with Daka Raj, Tantrika and Practitioner of Expanded Orgasm
In this special show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Daka Raj, a practicing Kashmiri Shaivite Tantrika and advanced practitioner of Expanded Orgasm. Learn how his special interest in language, combined with a new technology for understanding how mind and body intersect, have led to hotter, juicier lovemaking. Daka Raj explains why Expanded Orgasmic practices are enhanced with sexy talk and sexually explicit verbal appreciation. Wow, is this juicy! Next, you'll learn the amazing and powerful "Open Mind" system for determining the optimal way to give your lover the best type of loving attention. And is there room to optimize on what you're already doing? Learn strategies that may lead to major improvements in connection, kissing, and lovemaking. Daka Raj offers a variety of turned-on love lines he might use with different women, having different "profiles", during sexual pleasuring dates. Hear what he'd say at the beginning, middle, and (really heated) final parts of steamy Expanded Orgasm dates. When you say the right types of words to your partner, well, you can really get them cooking! Dr. Patti wants, and gives, some examples for women talking to men, and asks Daka Raj if her ideas seem on target. Dr. Patti and Daka Raj do their best to stay seated as examples are traded - these prolific examples will melt, vibrate, sizzle and soar! But it's all for a good cause: more love, pleasure and turn-on. Learn all about this amazing cutting-edge technology of love in this exciting, fascinating show! more.

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Episode 17: Orgasmic Meditation: Clitoral Communion for Shared Pleasure, Sensation, and Awareness with Nicole Daedone of OneTaste Urban Retreat Center
Join the party, as Dr. Patti interviews Nicole Daedone of OneTaste Urban Retreat Center, a rapidly expanding learning environment. Find out more about how Nicole, the founder, envisions her creation. Discover the many deep wisdom traditions that students can "taste". Learn what has motivated Nicole- both the perfect moments and the struggles. Hear Nicole describe Orgasmic Meditation, and the effects it has on Dr. Patti! Hint: (They are very pleasurable). The conversation climbs, you'll explore more about how to do this practice, and the benefits it offers to you and a partner. The chance to hear two powerful women discussing orgasm together like this is beyond priceless. Nicole reveals her growing edge as a teacher, shares information about how orgasmic meditation influences our limbic systems, and portrays the state of "beyond boundaries" possible with this practice. You'll catch some of the community experience of OneTaste, as you hear what it's like to attend one of their workshop lab practices. You'll find out how OneTaste is rapidly expanding, as Nicole outlines exciting future plans, and what this means to Nicole, as she envisions a world full of more women, and people, who are more balanced in the four key areas of their lives. Dr. Patti and Nicole, feeling close themselves, contemplate a world where women get along out of their fullness and happiness. How inspiring a show, with Nicole, and OneTaste here and growing! more.

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Episode 16: Flirt, Tease, and Arouse, In and Out Of the Bedroom with Lucas Hopkins, Gifted Photographer and Master Creator of Passionate Delights
Take your passion to new heights, by adding new ways of flirting, teasing and arousing your lover. Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Lucas Hopkins of ShadowDancerPhotography.com. A brilliant photographer- his intimate photos capture an undeniable presence of turned-on energy. How does he create and capture this? And, does this talent extend to his sex life? (Guess!) Learn how you can set the scene for turned-on environments and sexy "happenings". Discover exactly how to genuinely tease and flirt to bring out a woman's sensuality, eroticism, and playfulness. Hear Lucas speak on the key assets of boldness, feeling, and attention ... and why you must source these from within. Do canned pickup lines work? (Guess!) Safety, safety, safety- do women crave this in order to open up fully? Learn to "manage the energy" when encountering extremely turned-on ladies, so you can prolong and guide steamy hot sessions, in and out of the bedroom. Lucas shares a few favorite secrets for taking a woman into interplanetary realms of bliss during sexual connections. Dr. Patti, totally inspired, reveals her passion for being intimately photographed (since she gets to be the shining star!) Lucas and Patti coach women on how they can get their guys to flirt and tease more - hint, hint - listen up, ladies! Yes, it's true. Both men and women can learn to set the stage for turn-on! And, do see Lucas's intimate photos to get the full experience of this show at http://www.shadowdancerphotography.com. more.

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Episode 15: Arouse and Thrill Her through Foreplay, Coreplay, and Moreplay with Ian Kerner
In this special show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Dr. Ian Kerner, celebrated sex therapist, and best-selling author of She Comes First. Discover how orgasmic women really are, and how foreplay, "coreplay", and "moreplay" create juicier sexual connections. Learn about the different mental stimuli women truly crave most. Is fantasy good? What kinds are there, and how can you add them in to your bedroom scenarios? Now, Ian educates and inspires readers to celebrate oral sex as major strategy for assuredly gratifying a woman. He generously shares ideas, suggestions, details, and practical considerations that will thrill newcomers and veterans alike! Take notes, as Ian encourages men to experiment with all sorts of oral pleasure using their tongues, gums, hands, fingers, minds, eyes, and even vocal cords, and gives us specific strokes. As a special treat, Ian describes the "first kiss"! Does timing make a difference? Could less stimulation ever feel better than more? Do these practices work, even in the context of long-term relationships as well as on a hot new date? (And what is the Elvis Presley Snarl?) Ian brings in the emotional and relationship aspects that complement the physical ones, enriching both men and women looking to have deeper, more loving connections in any relationship. Finally, enter this show's super-fun contest: It's The She Comes First Book Give-away to my 10 favorite blog posts in the next month! more.

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Episode 14: Prostate Massage: a Fun and Sexy Path to Pleasure with Erika Thost, M.D., Founder of SexyProstate.com
In this amazing show, Dr. Patti talks to Dr. Erika Thost, a leading spokeswoman, researcher, and pioneer, as she advocates for greater male pleasure coming from stimulation of mens' prostates, or "male G-spots". Dr. Thost, founder of SexyProstate.com, shares with us valuable information on how we can begin to explore and reap these exquisite pleasure benefits for ourselves. You'll discover how the male prostate is now in vogue, as couples and singles everywhere are discovering its rich potential for delivering amazing quantities of pleasure, health benefits, and even opportunities for communication between couples. Learn what challenges Dr. Erika faces as an MD bringing this knowledge out into the world, and catch her inspiration as she shares her delight in the beauty and power of giving these experiences, and then teaching about them. She'll go into detail, detail, detail, we promise! You'll discover, inch by edge, what lies within... and be inspired, we hope, to put these practices to use. Dr. Erika shares about the vulnerability, communication, and tenderness that make the physical technique most meaningful. She includes suggestions for single men. Anal massage can lead to prostate orgasms! Now, learn how anal orgasm allows men to reclaim this often-neglected, but pleasure-rich area of the body. Find out how women, too, are deeply empowered as givers of this experience. Finally, learn why Dr. Erika feels that giving these massages is also a positive gift to the entire world! more.

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Episode 13: "Wholistic Sexuality" with Sheri Winston with Guest Host Richard Anton Diaz
Anton interviews Sheri Winston, a former certified midwife, registered nurse, and sexuality and childbirth educator of women's health, who now teaches "Wholistic Sexuality" as a pathway to living an ecstatic, orgasmic, life. She offers in this interview a new paradigm of sexuality for men & women who are looking for wisdom about themselves, their bodies, their health concerns, and their potential for greater orgasmic expression in their lives. more.

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Episode 12: Turning On! with Sex, Love, and Attention with Erwan Devon and Alicia Bayer, Founders and Teachers of the Pleasure Course
In this episode, Dr. Patti interviews Erwan Devon and Alicia Bayer, founders and teachers of the Pleasure Course, a three day immersion into Awareness, Intimacy, and Sensuality. Turn-on is that magic but elusive elixir that puts a spring in your step and leaves you glowing. Many turn to pills and potions, but, since turn-on arises from your integrated body/mind/heart/and spirit, Alicia and Erwan teach us to source the real thing from within ourselves. You'll learn how you'll know when you're turned on and what to do to regain your glow. In tackling topics both profound and refreshingly simple, Erwan and Alicia connect what relaxation, Zen, and attention have to do with sex, love, and belief systems. Listen in, as Erwan and Alicia reveal juicy, unexpected moments from their first date. And, hear Dr. Patti try out Erwan's suggestions for amping up her level of turn-on, right then and there, when she's already feeling wonderful. Clue: it worked way better than anyone could've predicted! Can you guess why Alicia and Erwan teach? Find out all this and more, on this fun and enlightening program, bound to leave you turned on and eagerly planning your next major fun experience. more.

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Episode 11: Tantra's Path to Embodied Bliss with Daniel Odier, PhD., A Renowned Tantric Master in the Kashmiri Shaivist Tantric Tradition
Have you ever wanted to travel to faraway lands to meet a real Tantric master? We hear so much about Tantra as a set of practices that supercharge our love life, but, what are they, really? Rarely can we go to the source of this profound knowing. Now you can find out what the ancient authentic Tantric masters taught to infuse our bodies "and our lives" with, bliss, awareness, and pure expansion. Daniel Odier, Ph.D., is a renowned Tantric master in the Kashmiri Shaivist Tantric tradition. Its all-encompassing practices include the body, and even sex. You'll discover the beauty, simplicity and accessibility of the basic Kashmiri Shaivist teachings. You'll learn why integrating your whole being - (body, mind, heart, and spirit) - and ending all sense of separation, set you free. Find out why honoring the feminine is so important in today's world, and why integrating the two poles of Shiva and Shakti, male and female, within each of us, is so valuable. Daniel describes the elegant tandava, or ancient tantric dance, and special attributes of Kashmiri Shaivist massage. Learn what desire is, and why we want to celebrate it. Daniel also shares deeply about passion, and why truly passionate people are so turned on, artistic, and romantic. Hear how Tantric lovemaking starts out -- and ends - differently from regular lovemaking - consistent with a path of flowing in truly embodied bliss! Listen as we end with an inspired, shared micropractice! more.

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Episode 10: The Five Different Kinds of Orgasm with Ina Laughing Winds, Teacher from the Chuluaqui Quodoushka Ancient Mayan Tradition
In this special show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Ina "Laughing Winds" Mlekush, senior Teacher of Chuluaqui Quodoushka Ancient Mayan Tradition of Sacred Sexuality. Ina is a 25 year apprentice to Swiftdeer "Thunder Strikes", an Elder on the Twisted Hairs Council. Join us as Ina shares with us both timeless, sacred teachings and practical wisdom about our orgasmic lives. Learn why Ina's lesson on locating the G-spot is sure to educate and inspire. Hear about her in-home program for developing greater erotic pleasure. Plus, Ina takes us right inside one of her tradition's sacred sexuality workshops. Finally, Ina gifts us with her inspiring views on connecting our sacred sexuality with the sacred energy of the planet. more.

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Episode 9: Experiencing Quantum Leaps in Pleasure with Extended Massive Orgasms with Drs. Steve and Vera Bodansky, Teachers of Extended Massive Orgasm
In this episode, Dr. Patti interviews Drs. Steve and Vera Bodansky, two the most celebrated teachers in our field. Steve and Vera teach Extended Massive Orgasm, or EMO, a hand-to-genital art and practice of giving extended orgasmic pleasure. Best-selling authors, presenters, and coaches, Steve and Vera share generously some of the inside information they give to their classes and private clients. With humor, heart, and details, details, details, the Bodanskys tell us what an Expanded Massive Orgasm is, and how to give one to your partner. You'll discover the three things Steve feels a giver should know starting out, while Vera tells us the three things anyone receiving an EMO should know. The Bodanskys reveal those inner qualities that, when mastered, shift your ordinary pleasuring into pleasuring that sends your partner into ecstasy. Learn why peaking, acknowledgment, relaxation, intention, and appreciation are keys to the heart of this practice. Find out Steve and Vera's recommendations on using EMO for erotic self-development, and their viewpoint on fantasy. Enjoy hearing what's possible in receiving coaching, as they bring one couple's coaching session to life. Finally, Steve and Vera offer sage and memorable parting advice. more.

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Episode 8: The Inner Secrets of Sacred Spot Massage with Charles Muir and Leah Alchin
Would you like to enhance your sensual and emotional life by learning how to become a master of pleasure through touch? Are you interested in expanding your ability to be spiritually and sexually intimate? Would you like to experience the joys of being a more selfless, generous, and pleasured lover? Do you feel you have more to learn about orgasm? Tantra is a 4,000-year-old Indian tradition that will help you address these and many other questions relating to your sensual, sexual, emotional, and spiritual lives-and also to your intimate connections with others. You will learn in this podcast the differences between a clitoral and vaginal orgasms, about the women's Sacred of pleasure, and how does a woman who has never experienced orgasm can begin to get herself on the road to pleasure. more.

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Episode 7: Squirt & Squirting Podcast Real Female Ejaculations & G-Spot Orgasm with Dr. Gary Schubach
Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Dr. Gary Schubach, founder of DoctorG.com. In this episode, Patti learns from Doctor G what a G-spot is, where it is, and how to find it! The G-spot is the urethral sponge, named after Dr. Ernst Grfenberg. Find out how many spots there really are and details about female ejaculation. Gary shares personally about giving G-spot orgasms and creating female ejaculation without getting into performance or goals. Why is Gary so emphatic about noticing what women want, both before and during sexual pleasure? And discover how women are linking together female ejaculation with female empowerment. Gary shares with you his handpicked videos, articles and the products that help men and women create hotter and juicier love lives. Get specific instructions for better access to the g-spot when alone or during intercourse. Finally, Patti asks Doctor G what else (besides the obvious) motivates him to do this work. more.

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Episode 6: Sex is Not a Four Letter Word with Gary Douglas
Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Gary Douglas, founder of Access for Energy Transformation and author of the book, Sex Is Not a Four Letter Word, But Relationship Often Times Is. In this episode Patti catches Gary Douglas in Sonoma, California, between sessions at his four-day course, Beyond Orgasm. Gary asks us to imagine our lives and bodies as the truly joyous, sexual, orgasmic, extraordinary places we always knew they were. He challenges us to consider what gloriously judgment-free sex looks and feels like, and gives us some extremely hot and juicy examples! He reveals how to free ourselves from the barriers that keep us from immersing in the rapture of sensation, and that keep us from having the maximum amount of fun with every sexual encounter. Gary emphatically encourages us to make both our personal lives, and the world, more wonderful by being the fully orgasmic gift that we are. Can we live this way full-time? Find out on this show! more.

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Episode 5: Sacred Orgasm with Dr. Kenneth Ray Stubbs
Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Dr. Kenneth Ray Stubbs, best-selling author, publisher, and pioneering thinker, on his latest thinking on Sacred Orgasm. In this amazing show, you'll discover sacred orgasms: amazing energetic experiences that feed and nourish our souls. Learn about the range of sacred orgasms possible. Ray's intensive training and experience in sexology, massage, and spiritual energy traditions, led to his frustrations with conventional western definitions of orgasm. Discover how Ray channels a new, more useful and expanded definition of orgasm that fits with both his experience and that of many others. Find out how transformative orgasms supplement both procreative and romantic orgasms. Learn about the various bodies each of us has, some of which are deeply nourished by, and require orgasmic energy. You'll discover how sacred orgasms feed the soul, what you can do generate them, and the benefits you'll reap. Learn ways to develop and further this path, regardless of where you live. Finally, hear Ray portray the beauty of a true soul-body orgasm Discover how valuable these sacred energy orgasms are to your body and spirit! And find out how easily you can generate these orgasms for yourself with astonishing results! more.

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Episode 4: The Three Keys to Orgasmic Energy with Margot Anand of SkyDancing Tantra
Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Margot Anand, founder of SkyDancing Tantra, the author of The Art of Sexual Ecstasy. Tantra can supercharge your whole life and your partner's life-- with orgasmic energy. Find out why bringing orgasmic energy up the body will change the way you experience not just sex but love and even life! In this episode, Margot shares her excitement about SkyDancing Tantra why and how it deeply empowers and transforms so many thousands of people. Highlights include the three keys to orgasmic power, the secret love channel, and moving energy into the heart. Learn how far our culture has come in accepting and embracing Tantra in the 25 years she's been a major female figurehead. Delight in Margot's endless energy as she reveals her newfound passions for moving on, art, aloneness, and exuberant, fearless aging. And hear some juicy and enlightening sensation descriptions from Margot including one where during a ritual, the man pours chocolate sauce all over his lover's breast, and then licks it off all tastefully done! more.

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Episode 3: Great Orgasms - Psychic Energy vs. Physical Technique with Ray Vetterlein, Master Practitioner of Extended Orgasm
In this special show, Dr. Patti Taylor interviews Ray Vetterlein, a master practitioner of Extended Orgasm. You'll discover what percentage of a great date comes from psychic energy vs. physical technique. You'll learn how to make a woman come from expertly touching her. And, you'll find out who's in charge during an extended orgasmic date - is it the man, or the woman? Ray has been giving women orgasmic pleasure to countless numbers of women for over forty years. He learned this art through More University's rigorous program in Extended Orgasm. Ray, 81 years old, continues to give women mind-blowing orgasms, and is considered a true master of this art. In this rare and information-packed interview, you'll discover what percentage of his dates is physical technique vs. psychic energy. Find out how you can begin learning the art of Extended Orgasm, how long it takes to gratify a woman orgasmically, and how to measure the intensity of a woman's orgasmic state in a single, well-placed touch. Learn what actions both men and women can take to enhance a woman's orgasmic experience. Share in his pleasure as he recalls some favorite juicy moments on super-hot dates, including the peak sexual experience of his life. And, how did this practice, four decades long, add to Ray's life? more.

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Episode 2: How Men can become Great Orgasmic Providers through Taontric Massage with Richard Anton Diaz
In this episode, Patti learns juicy secrets from Anton who's famous for being a master toucher and pleaser of women! In this episode, Anton shares some red-hot information about what he does to generate both intimacy and juicy turn-on with the ladies, and what he teaches men everywhere to truly, deeply win with women. Anton defines "Taontric" massage for us. He emphasizes the emotional maturity that maximizes this practice, and the values of intention and technique. Find out why learning how to touch a woman can teach you, in short order, all about love, connection, relationship, sex, presence and more all this, in addition to the energetic rapture you'll experience in giving and receiving pure touch! Explore men's sexual energy practices, and the many benefits, such as enhanced virility, that come to the men who cultivate them. more.

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Episode 1: Expanded Orgasm A Bliss Path to Orgasm, Intimacy, and Awakening with Dr. Patricia Taylor
In this episode, Patti shines as a true genius, sharing her vast knowledge on refining and enhancing the orgasmic experience beyond the normal, even sometimes brief, experience we call regular orgasm. She compellingly integrates consciousness and pleasure into a practice that has its roots in ancient religious practices, and is also a state-of-the-art, and evolving dynamic practice. Hear Patti define Expanded Orgasm and take us on a juicy ride as she does! Learn the two essential ingredients required to give your partner genuine, over-the-edge, Expanded Orgasms! She reveals a priceless secret: how to find the orgasmic current, a seemingly infinite state where intimacy, pleasure, and consciousness become one! Patti shares from her rare and amazing body of research about those who engage in Expanded Orgasmic practices. Learn what astonishing benefits accrue to their bodies, minds, hearts and spirits. Learn how long it takes to begin reaping the rewards, and how likely practitioners are to continue on a genuine practice path, once they begin learning Expanded Orgasm. She also shares heartfelt real life stories of how her work has impacted couples, women seeking to reclaim their turn-on, and even singles seeking re-enter dating again. And, share a moment of rapturous touch with Patti, which she invites all of us to try! more.

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