Just For Women: Dating, Relationships & Sex with Alissa Kriteman

Are you ready to find out what you can do to have the deep, beautifully fulfilling love you want in your life? Are you ready to find out how to live the outrageously fun and full life and you know you were meant to be living? Have you been searching for more intimacy in your relationships but are at a loss as to how to create it?

Well, tune in and listen as host Alissa Kriteman of ABC’s "How to Get the Guy" and author of "Alissa’s Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams" explores these topics with today’s top love, sex and relationship experts! From ancient Buddhist teachings to modern day sexilogical bodyworkers, listeners can boldly adventure into the myriad of alternatives and choices now available to women.

On each show, Alissa offers keen insight from her vast background as an author, coach, and workshop leader. Open yourself to provocative, cutting edge, experimental ideas on loving yourself more, healing relationships, understanding men, attracting what you desire, the new art of seduction and the evolution of love that will radically shift the way you date and relate. Brought to you by Personal Life Media, Inc.

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Episode 66: Dan Bryant, Psychologist: Giving the Gift of Forgiveness

It is very easy to stress over what material items to give people we love during the holidays. What we often overlook are gifts that cost nothing from a monetary perspective, but can be difficult to offer others. I am talking about things like compassion, understanding, acceptance and the biggest of all ~ Forgiveness. In this interview with Dan Bryant, Behavioral Health Educator, we talk about ways we learn to cultivate and practice forgiving ourselves, and others. For people in intimate relationships, we talk about important keys in communication that will foster greater intimacy such as: being genuinely curious about the other person, owning our experience and feelings, as well as deepening our understanding of ourselves. To finish we delve into what forgiveness is and what it isn’t. Ultimately forgiveness is a gift we give to ourselves, but getting to that place can be quite a journey in the mind. Tune in!

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Episode 65: Leslie Rice, Relationship Expert: Celebrating Men and Sex

It is always a pleasure to interview the leaders of PAX Programs, they are so insightful, always offering us deep wisdom about men! We learn in this interview that one of the reasons their information is incredibly spot on is that it comes from many years of interviewing Men directly, getting their world and delivering that information to women in a way we can open our hearts and let it in. Leslie shares with us the importance of understanding what happens when we act like Human Animals and what happens when we act from Human Spirit. We hear great information about the difference between Chemistry and Passion – who knew? We cover an idea that hits home to many of us ~ women being in their masculine mode instead of the feminine receptivity mode and how this throws off the balance in intimate relationships. We end with key steps on how to recover from infidelity. This is a MUST listen to interview!

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Episode 64: Karina Diaz, Photographer: Naked Women Rule!

Have you ever thought about having really sexy pictures taken of yourself but then got too shy to follow through? Have you seen gorgeous pictures of other women in the nude or beautiful lingerie and thought, “I could never do that!” Well this interview is for YOU! In this exciting interview, Karina Marie Diaz shares with us how it is her life’s mission to empower women and their relationship with themselves via her gorgeous photography sessions.

Karina shows us the transformation that can happen when women take the very powerful step toward loving themselves exactly how they are, and expressing that through the art of photography. One of the offerings Karina specializes in is her unique “Bridal Boudoir” package in which women who are getting married sit of for a provocative photoshoot with elements that will be in the wedding. You’ve got to hear the stories she shares with us about how women learn to love and accept themselves and celebrate the essence of their beauty by doing a private photoshoot with her.

If you want a great dose of sister support and love – this interview is for you!

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Episode 63: Josh Pellicer, The Art of Charm Relationship Coach, on Finding True Love

In this, the final of four interviews with the fabulously intelligent and insightful teachers and coaches of The Art of Charm, Josh Pellicer offers some deep insight into what it takes to find and keep love. Listen in as Josh deconstructs how to find True Love by paying attention to three types of attraction: emotional, logical and sexual. A sweet man with deep wisdom to offer, Josh discusses “Rapport” – the art of building trust and what the tell tale signs are of man who is LYING to us! Great news we can use from an expert in the field! Also, don’t miss Josh’s great overview: Relationship Management 101, as well as the importance of making a man feel like a man!

This is the fourth of four interviews in a series, with the Art of Charm expert teachers and relationship coaches.

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Episode 62: Jordan Harbinger, Relationship Coach with The Art of Charm on Love, The Kiss, and The Modern Gentleman

With laser like focus and whole lot of wisdom about dating, Jordan Harbinger, teacher and dating coach with The Art of Charm, gives us the skinny on how understanding Social Dynamics can be used by both men and women to arrive at that first luscious kiss!  In this interview, Jordan distinguishes for us the difference between Pick Up Artists and Dating Coaches, what “high value” is, why it is really important for us to be nice to men.  A man very comfortable in his own skin, Jordan talks about “The Modern Gentleman” and how The Art of Charm is ushering in a new breed of men (and women!) schooled in intimacy, honesty, communication and confidence.  NICE.  It’s all the information we never learned growing up, brought to us by peers who make it their life’s mission to be better, more loving people.  DOUBLEY NICE.

This is one of four interviews, in a series with The Art of Charm expert teachers and coaches.

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Episode 61: Kim Ellington, Art of Charm Relationship Coach, teaches women to bare their naked soul!

In this highly inspiring interview with Expert Relationship Coach Kim Ellington, we learn what it takes to be empowered in dating, relationships and sex!  A passionate and dedicated coach for both women and men, Kim shows us how to “bare all” when it comes to revealing who we are and what we want as woman.  Her spot-on information cuts to the core of why women fail with men and describes the “science” of understanding men.  If you want to be seen as the amazing woman you are, tune in and hear what this vivacious, empowered woman has to share!

This is one of four interviews, in a series with the Art of Charm expert teachers and coaches.

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Episode 60: Benjamin Klein, Director of the Art of Charm, Champions Men and Women in Dating, Relationships and Love

This is the first of four interviews with the teachers and relationship coaches at the Art of Charm, a community of Social Dynamics experts who are transforming people’s lives. Benjamin Klein, Corporate Director, describes for us what the Art of Charm is all about and how they are sky rocketing in popularity with classroom offerings on hot topics such as dating, relationship, attraction, love, intimacy, approaching mature women (and men!), as well as establishing confidence.  We get a real view into what both men and women are learning when it comes to attracting love and having the life of your dreams!

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Episode 59: The Venerable Robina Courtin, Tibetan Buddhist Nun, Talks Candidly about Happiness and It’s Causes and the Power of the Mind

In this rare and riveting interview with Tibetan Buddhist Nun, The Venerable Robina Courtin, we hear straight talk on the powerful tenets of Buddhism that render us completely responsible for the quality of ours lives.  A lively and passionate speaker on the importance of being the innately loving and worthy beings we are, Robina candidly offers fresh perspectives on abortion, sexuality, and karma that all will benefit from hearing.  To conclude, the Venerable Robina tells us about her powerful work with incarcerated men (and lack of interest among incarcerated women!) as well as the upcoming “not to miss” event “Happiness and It’s Causes” happening in San Francisco in November 2008. I will see you there!  Namaste.

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Episode 58: Cameron Rafati, Relationship Coach, Returns to Give Us 4 Great Ways to (gracefully!) “Pick Up” Men!

Cameron and I had so much fun during our first Just for Women interview, I just had to have him back for more “Insider Information” on the wild world Pick Up Artists.  A former Pick Up Artist himself, Cameron is able to give us straight talk on some of the techniques that guys are using out there to attract women, what they mean and how we can deal when we are faced with “kino” or other PUA techniques.  In the second half of the show, Cameron offers us some “tricks” women can use to attract Men without seeming too aggressive, masculine or overbearing.  Alpha Females, tune in!!

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Episode 57: Cameron Rafati, Relationship Coach, takes us inside the Seduction Community and the World of Pick Up Artists!

If you are not aware that there is a body of knowledge that men are learning in order to attract women, it is time to pay attention.  This “Seduction Community” has gotten a lot of negative attention over the years and now seems to be changing it’s tune from these men being “Pick Up Artists” to “Social Artists” – Cameron Rafati tells us what is going on! Cameron also gives us four interesting tips on how to attract the kind of love we want in our lives – from a man’s (former Pick Up Artist) perspectiveSingle and Coupled women alike - Do not miss this interview!

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Episode 56: Robert Allen, Relationship Coach Gives Us New Perspective on Men and How to Love Them!

In this interview, Robert Allen discusses his approach to empowering people to have the love they want in their life, namely utilizing principles of Tantra.  He outlines what to look for in choosing the right coach for you and discusses his free “Pre-Coaching Assessment” that will help you hone in on possible obstacles to positive growth.  In the second segment Robert defines “polyamory” and how that alternative approach to relationship can help heal people versus tear them apart.  To close, we discuss Robert’s new work, “All Men are Sexual Healers” and the tenets of this very interesting perspective for men to take some ground where women have mostly reigned.  Tune in – this is a good one for women and men alike!

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Episode 55: Dr. Jacqueline Chan, Women’s Health Specialist, Tells Us Why We Need To Take Alternative Medicine Seriously

Wow, if there is one interview that has opened my eyes and mind, it is this one! Dr. Jacqueline Chan shares with us what Integrative Medicine is (it includes body, mind and spirit) and why we should pay attention – especially as women!  Listen in as she offers great insight into the causes, as well as alternative approaches to prevalent women’s issues such as hormone imbalances, food allergies, breast cancer and depression.  As we become more and more aware of the impact of chemicals and toxins in food, products, and the environment, we will also need to know how to counter balance the damaging effects of being alive today, tune in and hear what this Women’s Health Specialist has to share!

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Episode 54: Alicia Dunams, Success Coach: How to Become a Millionaire Instead of Marrying One!

Don’t miss this practical as well as heartfelt interview as we get the real life skinny from successful entrepreneur Alicia (pronounced Al-ee-sia) Dunams about the how to generate your own wealth. Many women suffer from misguided social and cultural ideas such as “The Prince Charming Syndrome” as well as Alicia’s coined phrased, “The Sex in the City Syndrome” where women spend their money on things that are not going to MAKE them money.

Listen in as Alicia shares from her experience as a successful single mom and entrepreneur, the “how to” steps that will lead you to your own path of huge financial success. We also cover how to achieve emotional freedom from whatever stops you, so tune in and check it out – you WILL be inspired!

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Episode 53: Aymee Coget, Sustainable Happiness Expert, answers your questions about Self- Love!

It is always so much fun to talk with Aymee Coget, Sustainable Happiness Expert! In this second interview we do a review of how to have a happy life by following the MAPS process: 1) sense of Meaning, 2) being your Authentic self, 3) sense of Purpose, 4) utilizing Strengths.

We talk about the importance of connecting with our hearts before we speak, as Aymee points out in her version of Heart Centered Communication. We do a great exercise you can use in your own life to get out of your head (mind) and more connected with your heart before you speak: hand on heart, feel heart beat, ask self question you want an answer to, wait for a response.

We hear about Aymee’s Triple A’s for creating positive relationships: Admiration, Appreciation and Affection -- and how powerful they are for getting back to focusing on the LOVE in our relationships. We talk about the importance of Self Love and creating a positive self-image and finally, we answer some questions from the Just for Women audience. So, tune IN if you want to TUNE UP your life with love, joy and happiness!

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Episode 52: Debba Haupert, Founder of Girlfriendology.com Tells Us Why Connecting With Girlfriends is SO Important!

In this enlivening interview we hear from the founder of girlfriendology.com, Debba Haupert on the many ways women are a vital part of our on-going empowerment.  A self-made entrepreneur, Debba talks about how women have supported her in growth and how we can connect with other like-minded women on the internet. Tune in and hear how Girlfriendology.com is helping to change the world – one friendship at a time!

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Episode 51: Sherry Froman Talks About How To Bring Magic To Our Sex Lives That Will Keep You Both Hungry For More!

In this real and open-hearted conversation we talk with Sherry Froman, Sexuality Expert about how we can open up to different and nurturing types of sacred touch that can heal many traumas that are specific to women.  A woman with a huge heart and vast array of information to offer, we cover a broad variety of topics including how to bring aspects of ritual to add magic to our love making, igniting and integrating all parts of who we are as feminine beings, shamanic journeying, the benefits of a raw food diet and how to have a woman’s circle that is healthy and supportive.  Tune in ladies!

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Episode 50: Kim Switnicki, Sex Educator, Bares All About How to Have the Best Orgasms You’ve Ever Had!

Have you ever thought you “just can’ have an orgasm”?  Have you ever wondered just what a G-spot orgasm really is?  Well get ready for some great insight and answers in this very informative and juicy interview with Sex Educator and Coach Kim Switnicki who is the author of The G-Spot Play Guide.  Kim gives us the simple steps to finding our G-spots and how to deal with obstacles that might get in the way of us achieving Maximum Pleasure!  From being distracted during sex to “leaking bladder” issues, Kim offers practical and useful tools to combat these and other possible obstacles to our sexual empowerment.

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Episode 49: Sil Lai Abrams Shares Nine Self Empowerment Principles That Will Change Your Life!

Most of us deal with some trauma in our lives that we need to address and overcome if we want to be fully functional, thriving adults.  Sil Lai Abrams has triumphed over parental divorce, adoption, alcoholism, rape, domestic violence, her own divorce, depression and suicide.  Wow, her story is amazing and out of it she has created a powerful system of thinking that will help anyone shift their perspective in the moment toward greater love, peace and productivity.  Please tune in to this remarkable conversation with a woman who is a true Empowerment Specialist.

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Episode 48: Valerie Harms Tells Us Why We Should Think Twice About Having An Affair!

If you have ever thought about having an affair – or are in one (!) – tune into to hear what Valerie Harms has to say about why we stray from what we have. Author of The Inner Lover – Using Passion as a Way to Self-Empowerment, Valerie shows us how to take a look at what is at the root of our desire, and how to turn that energy into a great awakening for ourselves.

Join us as we discuss the wisdom that can be found in dreams, fantasies, automatic responses and reactions.  Learn about Intensive Journaling – a step beyond your everyday diary that can open you to parts of yourself that might be disconnected and wanting to be heard and healed.  Discover the 3 parts to the Love Triangle – You, Other and The Relationship – all have important things to say!  Tune in to juicy news you can USE!

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Episode 47: Susan Urquhart-Brown inspires us toward Career Success and Pushes our Entrepreneurial Edges!

Have you been thinking of breaking out and starting your own business?  Are there fears and obstacles coming up as you get closer to making it a reality?  Well get ready to receive an infusion of encouragement and support from a highly successful Career and Entrepreneur Coach, Susan Urquhart-Brown.

In Susan’s new book The Accidental Entrepreneur: 50 Things I Wish Someone had Told me about Starting a Business she outlines the many aspects of starting a business from wherever you are now in your life.  Tune in as we blaze a trail through the wild terrain of entrepreneurialism with “M.A.G.I.C” Goals, dissolving fears (False Evidence Appearing Real), vision boards, and knowing the 10 traits of an Entrepreneur – this path is not for everyone!  And if you ARE a budding entrepreneur (mom’s included!) this interview is for you!  Enjoy.

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Episode 46: "Elise" - A "Modern Day Courtesan" Offers us Fresh Perspective on an Age Old Profession

In this provocative interview, we peek inside the world of a woman who does not fit inside the “traditional” role of a highly successful woman.  A self-professed “Modern Day Courtesan” we hear from “Elise” about her (what may seem like radical) ideas and approaches to an extremely sensitive subject – Sex Work.

There is much talk these days about a “Feminine Revolution” happening, a sort of Renaissance for women that is becoming more and more evident as the time of the patriarchy gives way to ever increasing females in positions of power. To this end, I met “Elise” and was fascinated by her wits, and practical, grounded approach to the “healing work” she does with men and eye-opening perspective to work that most would shun.

Pushing the boundaries of where I normally go on Just For Women, my desire with this conversation is to illuminate issues some women might rather ignore.  But if we deny issues in our lives and relationships, we are missing a big opportunity to really wake up and address all facets of our lives as Empowered Women.

Please keep your heart and mind open as Elise addresses questions such as:

  • What exactly is a “Modern Day Courtesan”?
  • What the heck does your husband think and feel about your job?
  • What can women do to re-connect with their sexual desire?
  • What is happening for a man who chooses to see a Escort/Courtesan?
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Episode 45: Dr. Janae Wienhold Asks Us to Realize Our Unique Power as Women to Affect Change in the World

Bold, provocative and deeply insightful, Dr. Janae Weinhold talks candidly about the important role women play in ushering in a new level of emotionally healthy and conscious babies into the world.  By understanding how and why we get stuck in co-dependent tendencies, we can learn how to identify and heal them.  We also learn about the power we have as mothers to ensure our growing babies get the bonding and attention they need in the womb to support their proper development into grown human beings.

In this MUST LISTEN to interview for ALL women, Dr. Weinhold illuminates for us the how and why we are susceptible to developing co-dependent behaviors - all the way from the moment of conception through our mid-twenties!  Enjoy this fascinating interview, it is a call for us women to learn to break old patterns and unhealthy ways of being to help usher in a new level of consciousness that will serve the recovery of the planet.

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Episode 44: Dr. Janae Weinhold tells us how being “COUNTER–Dependent” can destroy our relationships”

In this eye-opening interview, we hear from Dr. Janae Weinhold about the flip side of Co-Dependency, a newly emerging term called “COUNTER-dependency.”  We learn how to detect the characteristics of COUNTER-dependent behavior in ourselves (it is more subtle than you might think!) and what we can do to heal from these unconscious behaviors to create deeper love and intimacy in our lives.   We discuss “Developmental Traumas,” how to detect them, how to heal them in ourselves,  and we also look at how we can see counter-dependent behavior in our culture and society as a whole.

Bottom line?

If you are wanting to understand what blocks you from having greater self-love and deeper intimacy in your life – listen to this interview!

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Episode 43: Tripp Lanier, host of “The New Man”, shares his insight about What MEN want!

In this “no bullshit” interview with coach and facilitator Tripp Lanier, we get some very straight talk about not only what women can do to be successful with men, but what kind of approach is really required.  Not one to give shallow answers, Tripp offers us very insightful ideas to consider when going for all you want in your Love life. 

In this episode we cover:

  1. What is a “New Man” and what do we need to know about him?
  2. Taking sex beyond the physical realm
  3. The importance of your man being “seen”
  4. Why receiving “well” is an important skill to hone

In this interview we address a question from one of the JFW subscribers.  So, if you have a question or issue you have been wanting to ask about, or a topic you have been wanting to hear addressed on the show – let me know – I do respond and I will get your questions and comments answered!  Thank you, I Love getting your emails, so please feel free to contact me at Alissa@personallifemedia.com

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Episode 42: Bryan Bayer, co-founder of the Authentic Man Program Reveals "The World of the Empowered MAN"

In this vibrant interview with Bryan Bayer, CEO of Authentic World, we learn what men need in order to be inspired to change old habits.  We learn why it might feel creepy when a man approaches you and where that feeling might be coming from.  Bryan’s energy is infectious and his information invaluable. You will laugh along with us as we delve into the world what it is to be an “Empowered Man.

In this episode we cover:

  1. What an Empowered Man can be
  2. What is going on in the world of “Pick Up Artists”
  3. What men need in order to change old habits

In my desire to respond to Just for Women subscriber emails, this interview addresses a question from “Row” about Pick-Up Artists.  So, if you have a question or issue you have been wanting to ask about, or a topic you have been wanting to hear addressed on the show – let me know – I do respond and I will get your questions and comments answered by the Experts!  Thank you, I Love getting your emails, so please feel free to contact me at Alissa@personallifemedia.com

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Episode 41: Charlotte Kasl, Ph.D, author of If The Buddha Got Stuck shares how to get Unstuck right now!

Another great interview, the third in this series with Charlotte Kasl, Ph.D,  as she imparts to us her unique blend of clinical and spiritual philosophies delivered with practical applications for empowerment in everyday living.

In this episode we cover:

  1. What keeps people stuck – traits of stuck people
  2. How to get Unstuck – traits of Unstuck People
  3. An exercise for moving through fear

Charlotte is such a wealth of knowledge, compassion, and inspiration I could talk to her all day long! Don’t miss the special gems in this interview, especially where we address questions from the Just for Women audience! If you are struggling with any major issue in life – tune into this interview to get some relief and movement!  And while you are listening – you can get your own copy of Charlotte’s “must have” book If The Buddha Dated.

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Episode 40: K.C. Baker, Sacred Sensuality and Intimacy Coach, tells us How to be an Orgasmic Woman!

In this lively and love-filled interview, we hear from Sacred Sensuality and Intimacy Coach K.C. Baker, how to go beyond the traps of the mind and body to become the Orgasmic Women we know we are and can be.  K.C., address this tender topic with a whole lot of appreciation and understanding of the (sometimes) frustrating situation some women can be in regarding being “orgasmic.” She shares her own personal story of overcoming fear and shame to be a pioneer for women everywhere to access their divine right to fully experience the bliss and power that come from experiencing many types of orgasm.  We also talk about what issues MEN deal with, as well as, how to bring femininity into the Workplace!  A must-listen for all you Go-Getters who might be struggling with re-connecting with your pleasure and sensuality in and out of the bedroom!

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Episode 39: Inessa Freylekhman, Feng Shui Master, shows us how to “Attract Love by Moving your Stuff!”

Never has been attracting Love been so easy!  Listen in as Inessa Freylekhman, Feng Shui Master, gives us very easy and practical ways to approach manifesting the love and life that we long to have, simply by moving our stuff!
Using the principles of the ancient art of Feng Shui, in the home, bedroom and even the boardroom (!) we can cause miracles by paying attention to how objects are placed and the whether or not the energy (“chi”) is free to flow.

Inessa offers us great insight such as:

  1. Tips for creating deeper connection and intimacy in the bedroom
  2. How to attract the love of your life
  3. Discovering our “Inner Blocks” and how to dismantle them
  4. The roots of Feng Shui and how it can be a powerful ally in helping us manifest our dreams
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Episode 38: Charlotte Kasl, author of If The Buddha Married Tells Us How to Have Love Endure Over Time!

Following her success with If the Buddha Dated, Charlotte Kasl again brilliantly bridges together powerful Buddhist philosophies with modern day applications in If the Buddha Married to help those who are committed to staying in love.

In this episode we cover:

  1. The Proven Traits of an Enduring Relationship
  2. Conscious vs. Unconscious Sex
  3. The Roots of Affairs, How to Avoid one/How to Heal from one
  4. How to make a Good Relationship, Great

Bottom Line?

If you are married or in the process of getting married, this is one interview you want to hear.  In this interview Charlotte gives us useful exercises to help us uncover what might be getting in the way of us having deeply satisfying life partnerships.  Don’t miss the parts about how to Avoid an Affair and Conscious Sex – she gracefully approaches these touchy subjects with so much sensitivity and love, you’ll be glad you listened in.  Grab a paper and pen – or better yet – get her book – so you too can begin whole new approaches to loving yourself and your marriage!

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Episode 37: “If The Buddha Dated: Finding Love on a Spiritual Path” an interview with counselor, teacher and acclaimed author, Charlotte Kasl

In a practical and easily digestible way, Charlotte Kasl brilliantly bridges together the ancient wisdom of Buddhist philosophies with modern day approaches that give us relief, comfort and powerful direction in navigating today’s dating world. 

We cover major issues to consider such as:

  1. Why do we LONG so deeply for an intimate relationship?
  2. Fusion vs. Differentiation: Are you clinging to your new man?
  3. Why making peace with our parents is critical to having a healthy love life

Bottom line? 

If you are struggling with having unhealthy relationships or want to find the perfect mate for you, this interview will help you understand what might be getting in the way and whether or not your approach is even an expression of your true heart.  A must-listen for anyone wanting support in having power and love pulsating through your intimate relationships!

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Episode 36: “Behind the Scenes of Cirque du Soleil’s newest show, KOOZA” a conversation with cast member, Danielle Gatto

I have the great fortune of being able to get access to the “behind the scene’s” world of Cirque du Soleil’s newest traveling show, KOOZA because I am their San Francisco-based massage therapist!  One woman I knew I just had to interview is Danielle Gatto.  Danielle is one vibrant, powerhouse of a woman who offers us her insight and wisdom into how to live an empowered and balanced life as a professional performer, dance captain, and wife to Anthony Gatto, “The Greatest Juggler in the World.”

In this endearing interview, Danielle shares with us her perspective on:

  1. How to live a balance a healthy life on the road
  2. What’s at the core of women living their dreams
  3. How to maintain a “fresh” Partnership with her soul mate

Danielle is such a bright, honest, and centered woman – this is an interview you want to listen to if you are craving great words of wisdom from a woman who has much to say in support of women living their dreams!

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Episode 35: “Speed Dating: How to know if he is INTO you” with Scott Swanson, host of 8 Minute Dating

In this engaging interview with Scott Swanson, course leader and host of one of the most successful Speed Dating events in the Bay Area, we learn what Speed Dating is like, how it has changed over the past decade and what we can expect to see in the future.  Not only does Scott give us the skinny on how to tell if our 8 minutes with a man will prove fruitful, he goes deep to share with us the world of men and what it is like to be a good-looking, successful, modern man looking for Love!

Listen in to hear juicy topics such as:

  1. Why it is important to tell men your Truth!
  2. The impact of us “swatting” men (yikes!)
  3. What “success with a woman” really means to men
  4. The inside scoop on the “seduction” community
  5. How to tell if he really likes you while Speed Dating

Bottom line? 

If you are single and looking to have more success with men, listen to this interview.  The second half is loaded with great, honest, heartfelt from Scott, a man truly dedicated to helping men and women understand each other better and have flourishing, authentic relationships.

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Episode 34: “Keys to having a Man Stay in Relationship with YOU” with Seminar Leader, Relationship Expert and Coach, Shana James

In this interview with Relationship Expert, Seminar Leader and Coach, Shana James, we explore what it takes to have a man stay committed to YOU.  As the co-creator of The Authentic Woman Experience, Shana brings us her deep wisdom into the power we have as women to cultivate empowering co-created relationships that last.

Some of the key concepts we cover are:

  1. Why men leave a relationship
  2. How to love a man the way he wants to be loved
  3. What is imperative for us to consider in relationship
  4. The idea of “bringing to” versus “taking from” relationships

Please tune in to this insightful interview with one of today’s most real and open Relationship Experts who has dedicated her life to helping women understand themselves, men and how to have relationships that thrive.

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Episode 33: “Remaining an Empowered Woman when heading home for the Holidays” with Jennifer Ianniello

In this enlightening interview with Jennifer Ianniello Somatic Coach, we learn how to be empowered as we head home for the holidays. She gives us great insight as to why we regress to being children a few days into our visits. A very refreshing and timely conversation designed to support us in making choices that give us strength and stability in remaining adults as we return to family dynamics.

Some of the key concepts we cover are:

  1. Ways to be and stay empowered
  2. What is trauma and how to deal with wounding
  3. How to communicate feelings and set boundaries

For anyone getting stressed about going home for the holidays, this interview is FOR YOU! Here’s to your empowerment!

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Episode 32: “The Mystery of being a Sexual Woman in the World” with Tallulah Sulis

In this provocative interview with Erotic Educator Tallulah Sulis, we learn what a big role us being tapped into our sensual selves can play in the level of empowerment we feel each day. Tallulah gives us great insight on the benefits of being sexually empowered women as well as some ways we can be more aware of ourselves as sexual creatures.

Tallulah shares with us her ideas on:

  1. The Erotic Revolution she is a source in creating
  2. The many types of orgasm we can have as women
  3. Female Ejaculation: What it is and the power in trying it for yourself

Listen in as this deeply insightful and compassionate educator, filmmaker and pioneer shares with us her inspiration for creating Divine Nectar – an educational film about the power and purpose of understanding Female Ejaculation. If you want more out of your sex life – don’t miss this interview!

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Episode 31: “A Modern Woman approach to making Relationships Work” with Relationship Specialist LiYana Silver

In this edgy interview with Relationship Specialist LiYana Silver, we talk about some of the aspects that contribute to making a monogamous relationship work.
LiYana shares with us how we can:

  1. identify what might be stopping us from going for what we REALLY want in our love relationships
  2. effectively deal with our anger as women
  3. keys to being a radiant woman

In segment two of the interview, LiYana gives us the inside track on men and gives us some great advice on how to:

  1. effectively communicate with men to get our needs met
  2. understand the difference between Communication vs. Expression
  3. address what is necessary to have in your relationship before even considering non-monogamy

LiYana is a vibrant and powerful coach to both men and women to help them achieve their deepest, most important relationship goals. She brings a wealth of insight, information and sensitivity to a subject that is so taboo in our society. Please listen in!

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Episode 30: Healthy Sex with Wendy Strgar
In this very lively and informative interview with Loveologist, Wendy Strgar, we look at some of the issues facing women today in our desire to have more expressed and healthy sex lives. Wendy is a font of knowledge and shares with us her deep wisdom on how to better relate with our lovers, have more intimate sexual experiences, and how to address many health issues facing women today. In this interview Wendy highlights some of the obstacles getting between women and having great sex such as: * Post natal dryness * Allergies to OTC (Over the Counter) lubricants * Challenges with "receiving" * Forgetting about letting our "bodies talk" * Lack of feeling "safe" Listen in to hear her great suggestions to increase the intimacy and communication between us and those we love. Wendy also gives us an overview of her fantastic personal love products (oils, lubricants, candles, perfumes and more) that offer us new, sexy approaches to dating, loving and having sex. As a mother of four and a wife of 25 years, Wendy brings her depth of experience to help us give more Love to ourselves, our lives and the world. Don’t miss this very informative interview and your chance to receive 10% off your purchase of her amazing and delicious Good Clean Love products! My favorites are the Carribean Rose Love Oil (use Anywhere!) and the Almost Naked Passion Candle that melts to use as massage oil - how cool is that?! more.

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Episode 29: "Focus on the Good Stuff: Your Man wants to feel his Importance in your life" with Mike Robbins
In this lively interview with best selling author, speaker and coach Mike Robbins, we discuss the Power of Appreciation and Mike’s book, Focus on the Good Stuff. Mike shares with us his ideas and ways to deal with issues that we as women face such as: ~ Accepting ourselves as we are ~ Receiving love and appreciation when it is given to us ~ Calming our "Inner Critic" We get to talking about Men (of course!) and Mike gives us some great tips on how to have our lovers, partners, husbands, etc. be thrilled they are in relationship with us! In response to a statement Mike made that "Men want to be appreciated for their Importance and Women want to feel Cherished," we do a spontaneous demonstration of acknowledging each other that leave us both feeling quite honored and joyous. Great stuff, check it out - you will love Mike’s real life quips about his wife and how she gets what she needs from him! more.

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Episode 28: "Staying in Love: Tantra is way more than Sexual Technique" with Kali Ma
In this captivating interview with Tantric Buddhist teacher, Kali Ma, Alissa asks some deep questions from this very non-traditional "Love Expert." Kali Ma is a Western Buddhist teacher who shares with the world the non-monastic style of Tantric Buddhism. She tells us about the MahaSiddha lineage from which she teaches as well as why Tantra has broken off and mainly become synonymous with sexual technique in the West. Kali Ma reiterates a message we have heard time and again - we need to be happy first - then we can venture into creating a love relationship that has any chance of surviving. We must be able to be in control of our own minds if we ever hope to maintain the state of "In Love." more.

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Episode 27: "BE the Love you Want to Attract" with Renee Piane
Renee Piane is a dynamic, smart and straight-talking dating and relationship expert who has dedicated her life to helping single people "be the love they want to attract into their lives." In this enlivening interview Renee tells us what men (the vast majority) secretly wish women knew about them. A few things such as: 1. Men are deeply sensitive to a woman’s energy and tone of voice 2. Men are opened up by feminine guidance, flow and essence 3. Men run from being pressured (on most any topic) 4. Men don’t really (deep down) want to go straight for intercourse with a woman they consider being with for a long time Renee’s resounding message for single women who are dating to find their soul mate? SLOW DOWN. Enjoy this upbeat and straight-shooting interview from a Dating and Relationship Expert who is truly empowered and in love! more.

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Episode 26: "Living an Empowered Life" with NY Times Best Selling Author, Speaker and Expert Relationship Coach, Debbie Ford
In this insightful interview with New York Times best selling author and internationally acclaimed workshop leader, Debbie Ford, we delve into what it takes to live an alive, vibrant, empowered life. Sharing with us powerful concepts from her book The Best Year of Your Life, Debbie outlines for us some of the important ways we can start taking responsibility for the direction of our lives. Debbie is such a refreshing and knowledgeable guest, I hope you will listen in and feel inspired to take action in your life! She speaks directly to the heart of what is happening for so many women who desire to live the life of their dreams - everyday - and restores us to a place of confidence that it is completely possible if and when we are ready to do the work. Another - don’t miss interview - with Debbie Ford who also echoes a similar theme for women to really face at this time in our conscious evolution - No One Is Coming to Save Us...we are the ones we have been waiting for. more.

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Episode 25: "5 ways to be a More Empowered, Stress-Free Woman!" with Louise Lowry
This interview is a very useful resource for taking control of being stressed out Right Now. We cover a wide variety of "easy to do" methods that you can use in the workplace or at home with no problem. Louise actually walks me through a breathing exercise so you can see how easy it is to do. We cover a variety of ways we can become more empowered in our lives as stress becomes is ever more prevalent in daily living. Namely: 1) Learn more about yourself 2) Master emotional control 3) Therapeutic breathing 4) Meditation and Yoga Practices 5) EFT, Self - Hypnosis Louise talks Emotional Freedom Technique, a quick and simple way to reduce stress quickly. (Please listen to my interview with Kate Winch for more detailed information on this great technique as well). Forget the Mid-Life Crisis, we see how and why stress is affecting people at younger and younger ages causing a condition called "Quarter Life Crisis." Stress is inescapable. Being Pro-active about Self development and understanding Emotional Intelligence seem to be the keys for Millennials suffering from this Quarter-Life Crisis (great article in Common Ground Magazine) to help decrease stress and gain more clarity. Using courses online (talentsmart.com) to get support and being pro-active about personal growth are recommendations we can use at any age as well. This is part Two of Two Series. Please email me your comments or post a comment in the JFW Blog. If you really like this interview, go to iTunes and write a 5-star review! Thanks! more.

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Episode 24: "The Modern Woman’s Guide to Stress Relief" with Louise Lowry
In this interview we discuss what stress is and how to know if we are approaching dangerous levels. We learn how women are naturally geared to release stress but when the increased pressures of family, work, finances, etc. build up, we must know how to release that pressure and why. Louise tells us about the importance of being emotionally aware and the characteristics of being an empowered leader. She walks us through effects of corsital on the system and remedial ability of DHEA (the antidote of stress) to help reduce it’s effects on the body. If you are stressed out - listen in! more.

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Episode 23: "How to have Love Last Over Time" with Intimacy Expert and Workshop leader Chip August
Chip August is one of the premiere educators on Love, Sexuality and Intimacy in America. In this interview we cover a lot of great information about: How to have love last over time, New ideas about sex, How to relate better with men, and Understanding orgasm. A detailed description you don’t want to miss! more.

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Episode 22: "What a Man Wants, What a Man Needs" with Dr. Amir Sabongui
In this very fun interview with a sexy, French Canadian doctor, we learn some of the basic and not-so-basic desires of men. What is revealed in this interview with the very playful and profound Dr. Amir Sabongui, is what most men will never tell us because they are unaware of it for themselves. more.

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Episode 21: "Falling In Love vs. Opening To Love - Staying Awake after the First Hot Date" with Francesca Gentille
In this interview Alissa talks with relationship expert and fellow Personal Life Media host (Sex: Tantra and Kama Sutra), Francesca Gentille about the differences between knowing whether you are Falling In Love or Opening to Love. There is actually a profound distinction! Francesca describes to us the disillusionment of Falling in Love and the warning signs that you are in fact FALLING. Yes, yes we have all been there, "crazy in love" and it is funny to look back and see the warning signs in hindsight! In segment two we talk about Opening to Love and how to maintain our composure when we meet a man we are really digging. She encourages us to seek out books, courses and online information about how to stay empowered and continue to love and honor ourselves when we meet the "Man of our dreams." more.

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Episode 20: "The Power In Facing your Shadow" with NY Times Best Selling Author, Speaker and Expert Relationship Coach, Debbie Ford
In this exciting interview with New York Times best selling author and internationally acclaimed workshop leader, Debbie Ford, we get a taste of what it is like to identify aspects of our "Shadow," parts of ourselves that we don’t like or accept. Debbie does a mini-coaching session with Alissa to reveal aspects of her "Shadow" (yikes!) and describes an exercise from her best selling book Dark Side of the Light Chasers to help listeners identify and embrace their own disowned aspects of themselves. A candid and straight-forward coach and speaker, Debbie is very clear about the power available to us when we are able to love and embrace ALL aspects of ourselves in order to live more happy, fulfilled and "on-purpose" lives. Debbie and Alissa come up with a new mantra: Instead of NEGATE IT, EMBRACE IT! This is one interview you don’t want to miss with the internationally renowned Relationship Expert, Debbie Ford! more.

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