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“Wife’s anxiety and loss of libido issues.”

A reader emailed me that he was having trouble with his sex life because he felt something was “blocking” his wife from surrendering to pleasure and erotic bliss. 

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“Dear Suz, After my wife had our first, she started having hot flashes. Then, a few months later, she started having anxiety issues. I just wonder if something happened to her when she was young. She’s been taking Lexapro now for a while. She also might be holding on to something inside she doesn’t want to talk about. Like something that happened in her childhood?

I wish she would look at me and say, “You need a piece of ass.” That’s all, and fuck my brains out.”

-Jeff (not his real name).

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Here’s my reply below.

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Hi Jeff,

There are a few different factors here.

  1. Your wife’s hormonal imbalances
  2. Your wife’s anxiety issues and medication
  3. Possible trauma issues
  4. Libido issues
  5. Sexual initiation realities

Hormonal imbalances

Take your wife to a functional or naturopathic doctor or her gynecologist for hormone testing and possible replacement for the hot flashes.

Anxiety issues and medication

Lexapro is most likely adding to her low libido. Once her hormones are stabilized, ensure your whole family eats almost ZERO ultra-processed foods and start cooking at home together using whole foods.

Take your wife and kids out on daily walks and get as much sunshine as possible.

Go to bed early and work on getting excellent sleep for 8 hours a night.

Prioritize nutrition, exercise, and rest and see if she feels well enough after 90 days to consider tapering off anxiety meds.

Test her for the MTHFR gene at LifeExtension.com. If she has it, try SAMe amino acids every morning upon rising. People with the MTHFR genetic SNP have a predisposition to anxiety. This was a godsend for me, and it’s natural. It’s worth a $99 test.

Possible trauma issues

Unless your wife has told you about trauma, assume it’s societal trauma, religious shame, and lack of sexual education. That’s what affects so many of us. We are just taught that “good girls don’t.”

Work on the anxiety and hormone issues first and see how she does. Read the following two sections to see if you want to get her health in order first to see if there are more deep emotional issues to handle next or not if she responds to the above.

Libido issues

Your libido is the other side of the same coin as your health. You are not in the mood when you have hormone imbalances and anxiety. Functional doctors are good at addressing the root issues to bring people back to health. Health coaches can also help figure out how to do this.

Sexual initiation realities

Women are not men. We are not testosterone-dominant. We are not taught how to have a good sex life. We don’t understand our genitals. We don’t typically walk around horny until we are healthy and have a great sex life. She may NEVER say, “fuck my brains out now.” We need seduction, foreplay, and warm-up before we want intercourse.

It’s best if you own the job of seduction. Don’t expect it from her. Learn how to be a master of seduction so that she’s a yes to making love.

Just like you kill the bugs and take out the trash, some jobs are best left to the masculine in the marriage. Take it on and become GOOD at seduction.

Women are responsive rather than spontaneous in their desire. Other wives are not saying,  “fuck my brains out now,” either. It’s just not how most women operate. 

Enjoy being the wonderful husband who learns how to get his wife to want him for lots and lots of sex because he knows how to use the Four Keys to Seduction.

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It includes the Four Keys to Seduction, an INCREDIBLE model you can use in your love, work, and family life… anywhere you need to move other humans toward more joy, pleasure, and connection.

PLUS, there’s a whole section on how to train your partner with integrity and a loving heart sexually.

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It will show you what to do.

And you can always ask me questions. Let me know how things go with the anxiety and hormones and how you make her offers with the four keys to seduction.

It’s a worthy endeavor. Fun. And will turn your partner into a whole new happy human.

I wish they taught us this in school! But at least we do. Dr. Patti’s Seduction Trilogy is TRULY life-changing.

Have fun!

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