2 Opposing Views About Touch Technique
Relationship experts contradict themselves.
Here is an email from Chas Scotsman. He respectfully questions if we are contradicting ourselves with touch technique relationship advice.
“So Susan, l have a question about this email below on the 5 Sex Languages.
l am confused about how l am getting 2 opposing views about something.
l will outline them in the paragraph below. l would really appreciate an answer because l find that some relation experts often contradict themselves in a manner like this and l find that to be very distasteful and this causes me to not trust their advice. l want to trust you and the other ladies at personal life media but this is very concerning to me. Thank you in advance.
On page 13 of “The Passion Patch” you mention how placing your hand on the small of your partners back is a major way of being “caveman” with her and a very good way to subtly signal passionate intentions with her.
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So how on earth, “IF” Ken had read “The Passion Patch”, just saying, is he to know that putting into practice what he read there had the opposite effect than what he was aiming for. l would have done something probably similar and l would have also felt angry having not gotten any positive response.
l hope you can see and understand what l am referring to here. Also as stated above, l would like some clarification on this matter. l am very confused now.
A mostly satisfied customer,
Chas Scotsman (Ohio)
Thank you very, very much for asking for clarification. I can see how these two instances might be confusing.
During your typical days and evenings with your woman, use the touch techniques in The Passion Patch. Not only do these subtly arouse her body, they increase your intimacy and connection throughout the day and night. This is what makes her want you more for sex.
You are not using these Passion Patch touches to GET SEX. You are using these touches to keep your woman stimulated, increase her bonding to you and to make her feel connected to you.
If the only time you touch her is to have sex, it will decrease the amount of sex you get from her.
Women need more romance and touch to feel close to you and to want to have sex with you.
The amazing touch techniques in The Passion Patch are what we women want our guys to do on a regular basis so we feel loved, sexy and cherished.
Then when you actually want to ask your partner to make love to you, touch her while you are looking her in the eyes and make her an offer. Don’t be shy about asking for sex. That is what made Ken seem creepy.
This is where Ken went wrong.
His timid touch, behind her back, was so light that as she was drifting off to sleep she wasn’t even aware he was asking for sex. If he felt like he’d been lovingly touching her using Passion Patch touches all the time and they had an affectionate marriage, it would have been a lot easier for him to confidently make her a sexual offer.
This is where he should have asked her earlier in the evening if they could go to bed early enough to make love. Instead, he waited until she was nodding off and then didn’t send her a clear signal.
There is one more VERY IMPORTANT piece to this. Sometimes for women, asking for sex is “too big an offer.”
Husband: “Do you want to have sex?”
In her mind, sex equals intercourse and if she’s not turned on or horny to start, you will have more success by running her a menu of smaller offers.
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Small offers that escalate to sex is a technique you can learn that will get you so much more sex than you can believe! This comes from Dr. Patti’s “Seduction Trilogy” program.
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The powerful combination of Passion Touches with Small Offers will give your wife the affection she needs and the slow escalation to sex that will get her turned on. It’s a superb combination!
I can’t wait for you to try these two in tandem. It’s a real one-two punch to your frustrations.