3 ‘Sex Appeal’ Boosters
These three techniques instantly boost your sex appeal. Though you can’t choose your height or your body style, there are a lot of things you can do to make yourself more attractive to other people.
Did you know that you have a significant amount of control over the level of your attractiveness to the opposite sex?
I’m telling you this both so that you can attract a lover or become more attractive to your partner AND because more attractive people do better in life.
Psychology Today says the following are attributes most people find more attractive:
The first thing that is attractive to other people is the sound of your voice.
Women like a man with a low voice.
So the best thing that you can do to get into your lowest voice — the deepest natural register of your particular vocal cords — is to simply say, “Mmmmmmmmmm hmmmmmmm.”
By humming the “Hmmmmm,” you naturally lower the register of your voice.
This is a great practice to use if you’re ever having a fight with anyone and you want to seem more in control than you might feel inside.
Just say, “Hmmmmmmmmmmm. . .” and your voice will lower.
Use this trick anytime you want to sound more masculine to a woman.
You have complete control over how you sound.
When you speak, bring awareness to how you sound and consider speaking in a way that brings pleasure to your listener.
A woman will be drawn to that pleasure.
There is power in a deep resonant voice.
And women are attracted to power.
Another attribute that women find very attractive is a man with a good reputation.
A woman will, if she’s interested in you, find out all about you.
As a matter of fact in a book called, “A Billion Wicked Thoughts,” which is about the kind of pornography that people consume, it explained that woman is like a detective agency.
She collects data, information, and other people’s advice about you – IF she’s interested.
That’s why it’s so important to be a man of integrity.
If you want your wife or a woman who might be your girlfriend to respect you and want you and desire you, you must be a man of honor and character.
Another attribute that makes you attractive to a woman is being in a good mood.
Being in a good mood does make you more sexually appealing, but it’s not for that reason that being in a good mood made it on this list of sex appeal boosters. She doesn’t choose you because you are in a good mood, you choose her because you feel good. If you don’t feel good, you aren’t in the frame of mind to attract a woman.
You can’t look for a mate if you are in a funk.
However, when you feel good about yourself, when you feel good about the world, you will feel good about finding a woman.
Here’s another very easy one.
I expect, after reading this email, that you will never be the same again the minute you read the next line.
“Good posture and a genuine smile are crucial elements of attraction.”
That’s what Psychology Today says.
And from this moment on you can heavily influence how others perceive you simply by sitting up straight, standing up tall and smiling.
Posture and attitude alone will make you irresistible to women.
Sometimes we over-think the obvious. If you really are a stand up guy radiating happiness with your smile you will be absolutely irresistible to us women.
There are other recommendations in the article, such as being charming or wooing people with wisecracks or playing hard to get. These are all less effective recommendations. Why? Unless this behavior comes easily to you, it can smack of artifice or manipulation and potentially backfire on you if you fake it. If you don’t feel like a charming, charismatic wise-craker, it’s hard to fake it.
So unless you are already charming or clever, don’t waste your time trying to be charming. And playing hard to get? Pfah! Don’t fake anything. The TRUTH is where the exciting pleasure lives.
The article went on to mention the fact that people like to marry someone of their same class and a similar size and color. In general those are things that you don’t have as much control over and in our global reality, are becoming less and less important.
Here is the bottom line.
Speak in your lowest, most masculine voice. Stand up tall. Smile. And be a man of integrity.
I not only know you can do this, I believe you are already doing it.
Let the world see it.
Shine The Light On Your Greatness!