“Sharing Frames” A Couple’s Sexual Communication Skill
Here’s a “Frame” I shared with my lover: [HOT]
“Baby, last night it turned me on so much to have you hold me in your arms while I was sitting on your lap in your easy chair.
Your “Daddy energy” was hot – it made me feel nurtured and feminine and girlie.
It makes me feel most secure when you hold me with both arms wrapped around me, across my shoulder blades.
When your tongue explores my mouth firmly, deeply, with a hunger, I can feel my tongue twisting in your mouth, wanting to taste more of you, feel more of you…
And when you growl like a big brown bear, and I hear your guttural pleasure, the animal-like craving you have for me it makes me feel so sexy, so desired. I like the sounds you make.
As your hands, fingers slick with oil, caress my sweet cheeks and explore my other lips, I fantasize about you carrying me to the bedroom, and ravishing me while I just let go, and let go, and let go.
I open myself to you – unafraid – and eager.
That’s an example of a “Frame.”
(What is a “Frame,” and why does it make sex hotter? Read the Back Story: “Sharing Frames” )
Notice the growling sound, the oily fingers, the place I like to feel myself being held (across my shoulder blades) his tongue deep in my mouth.
Frames describe physical experiences of the senses. Frames are featured in the 21 Erotic Play Dates within Expand Her Orgasm Tonight.
If you want to have more erotic sex, draw on the senses by sharing frames.
Not only will sharing frames increase the erotic energy between you two, Frames also give your lover specific examples about what really turns them on.
So you can give your beloved MORE of what gets her off.
Try it yourself tonight.